Posted by zazenduckie on November 30, 2006, at 19:41:40
In reply to Re: Do you verify deaths Dr Bob? » zazenduckie, posted by Jost on November 30, 2006, at 19:29:06
> Zazenduckie, Have you yourself thought of checking the facts about Ame Sans Vie?
Yes have you read through this thread? I expressed those thoughts.
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> If you've got concerns about the reliability of this information, you could check obituaries in regional papers, often available online.Yes I mentioned that in my previous post.
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> I personally wasn't well acquainted with Ame Sans Vie, although I knew of his name. So I haven't seen many of online contributions, here or on other websites. However, anyone who has concerns about the situation can investigate.
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> I personally would prefer that we maintain a respectful silence rather than having what seem like veiled accusations about whatever happened.Please don't make statements that could cause others to feel accused or put down etc etc etc This doesn't mean I don't like you or don't think you are a good person.
> Other than to leave remembrances of Ame Sans Vie, and otherwise honor his memory, it might leave us and his family more at peace if there weren't harsh or questioning words said publicly about this.
I wouldn't think harsh words would be acceptable either. I believe questioning is good. I believe questioning honours him. The nature of Psychobabble is public. Naturally whether or not to read any particular words is entirely your choice. I am sure you will choose wisely.
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> Whatever ASV's drug regimen or struggles, I don't think that we here could have either done serious harm, or perhaps, more sadly, substantial good, other than in temporary, and momentary ways. I hope being here was good for him, but I don't think it either could have saved, or would have hurt him.Who knows?
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> That's also true for the rest of us. We can learn from one another, but only within the ambit of what we, on our own, can put into or take out of whatever we invest ourselves in.
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> I'm sorry for his loss.So am I for whatever reasons he is lost to us.
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