Posted by Dr. Bob on August 7, 2006, at 3:24:53
In reply to Re: please be civil, posted by cloudydaze on August 3, 2006, at 21:28:03
> > > He obviously feels that some moderators have a tendency to try too hard at their job, or try to throw their weight around
> >
> > Please don't jump to conclusions about others or post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down.
>
> How was that jumping to a conclusion?! It wasn't jumping to anything! Who is going to be accused or put down by that?I considered it jumping to a conclusion because I didn't think you could really know what he felt, and I thought moderators might have felt accused or put down by that.
> > this doesn't mean I don't like you
>
> i do think you don't like meThat's jumping to a conclusion again. Did you look at the links I posted above?
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20060622/msgs/672346.html
One way to rephrase that as an I-statement would be:
> i do feel disliked by you
Do you see any difference?
Bob
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