Posted by NikkiT2 on January 19, 2006, at 13:30:59
In reply to Re: change to FAQ » NikkiT2, posted by Deneb on January 19, 2006, at 11:21:14
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> I think I understand the difference...maybe. I have to include the part about the pain with my sentence right? Is that it? Otherwise I don't think I get the difference.
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> Deneb
>Deneb,
Thats not exactly what I meant. Instead of simply epxlaining you are in pain, you seem to have a tendency to make it sound like you are simply using an OD to avoid something. Thats what makes it come across as sounding like you are making light of it. That, insteadof wanting to do it *because* of pain, you see it as a good way to avoid doing something you don't want to.
Out of interest, have you looked at the characteristics of Avoidant PD? I think it might ring true with you alot more than BPD does.. Though the two are often co-morbid, and I'm pretty sure that these days, while my BPD is much more under control, my avoidant side is coming out really strong.
Nikki x
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