Posted by alexandra_k on August 2, 2005, at 17:31:01
In reply to Re: The post was about BEHAVIOR... » gardenergirl, posted by Minnie-Haha on August 1, 2005, at 22:27:12
You don't think the people who exhibit said behaviour will feel accused / put down that you choose to view their behaviour in that way???
And that you would prefer to squelch their behaviour (ie have them change) rather than working on changing your interpretation (ie have the people who choose to feel offended own their own responses)???
It would seem to me that there are two options (though I should know better than to suggest that there are only two...). You could try to understand the pov whereby what you said wasn't acceptable and work on managing / expressing your own responses... Or you could continue to bash your head up against a brick wall trying to convince other people that you are right where the likely consequence is another Babble holiday...
Your choice.
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