Posted by Lou Pilder on July 10, 2005, at 6:09:28
In reply to Re: Lou's response to Dr. Hsiung's post-felhum » Lou Pilder, posted by gardenergirl on July 9, 2005, at 23:43:22
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> > > > This is ridiculous! I feel like the only reason you are here is to badger us and make us feel like we are bad and wrong.
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> > > Please don't post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down. Sometimes it's more "conducive to civic harmony and welfare" just not to reply, or even not to read in the first place.
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> > > If you or others have questions about this or about posting policies in general, or are interested in alternative ways of expressing yourself, please see the FAQ:
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> > > http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
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> > > Follow-ups regarding these issues should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Administration. They, as well as replies to the above post, should of course themselves be civil.
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> > > Thanks,
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> > > Bob
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> > DR. Hsiung,
> > You wrote in the above,[...or even not to read in the first place...].
> > Now your statement is to another poster that wrote what you have determined to be unacceptable here in relation to civility in relation to a mental-health internet community.
> > I am requesting that you consider the following in relation to what you wrote.
> > A. In,[...not to read...], are you saying that this poster could be better contributing to "civic harmony" if he/she did not read anything that I wrote here? If so ,could you consider the following?
> > 1. Does your own civility code here write that it is uncceptable to tell others not to read what another posted here?
> > 2. If this is so, have you ever written to another poster here to not read someone else's posts here?
> > 3. If your civility code states that it is unacceptable here to tell another not to read someone else's posts,, have you done what you are suggesting to others not to do here?
> > 4. If this is so, why would you want others here not to read what I write?
> > B. If what you wrote was to suggest that others, or even just that poster, not read what I write here,I feel humiliated by what you wrote.
> > C. If this is not so, could you write a clarification to this community stating what you do mean if it is different from what there is the potential for what you wrote to mean?
> > Lou
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> Gardenergirl,
You wrote that you took the liberty to redirect the above post to the administration board.
I would like for you to redirect the post back to its original location and allow the administration to make that decision because I have posted as a reply to Dr. Hsiung's reply to another poster here that could have the potential for others to have the potential to think that what Dr. Hsiung wrote to the poster is suggesting that either the poster, and thearfore possibly all posters here, not read what I write here because as Dr. Hsiung writes, there could be an association with reading what I write with being [...more conducive to civic harmony and welfare...not to read in the first place...] if they do not read what I write here.
I am requesting that Dr. Hsiung reply {at the point of his statement} so that others could have the opportunity to see his reply, if there will be one, to me {there}. I think that if you transferr the post to any other location of this site, that Dr. Hsiung's hoped for reply to me could go unnoticed {by those that read his first post in question}.
I feel that there is the potential for some others here to think that Dr. Hsiung's statement in question could constitute defamation toward me, for I feel that when a moderator writes anything that has the potential for any other, including myself, to have the potential to lower another's standing in the community by suggesting that others not read whatever I write, to be clarified or affirmed by the moderator that wrote the statement in question at the point that it was written so that any aspect of defamation that could have the potential to be seen, could be cleared up to those that are posting {on that thread}.
Any statement by a moderator that has the potential to defame a member of a mental -health community is IMO a very serious aspect of mental health and I am requesting that you put the post back at where it was and thearfore give Dr. Hsiung an opportunity to reply to my request to him there. If he does not reply {there}, then that is a reply. I feel that if the post is tranferrred to here, that if Dr. Hsiung does not reply to me, then {that} reply could be lost to the community.
Could someone here write,[...do not read anything Lou writes}? Could someone here write,[..ostracize Lou...}? Could someone here write,[...don't anyone reply to Lou's posts...]? Could someone write here,[...it would be better for the community if Lou is not allowed to post here...]? Could someone write,[...Dr. Hsiung, why do you allow Lou to post here?...] Could someone write ,[...if you read any of Lou's posts, you will react in an uncivil mannner, so do not read any of Lou's posts...]? Could anyone write here,[...it is more civil to not read what Lou writes...]?
Lou
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