Posted by Gabbi-x-2 on April 14, 2005, at 18:04:01
In reply to Re: Minnie's request to fellow board members (long) » Minnie-Haha, posted by messadivoce on April 14, 2005, at 15:31:27
I really really like what you said, especially:
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> The longer I'm alive (and I'm only 22) I'm realizing that people are going to get under my skin for the rest of my life. It doesn't matter if I'm in therapy, or taking meds. People IRL don't discriminate on the basis of that, so I have to learn to live with people who don't approach life the same way, as annoying as I may find this.
Lou's posts don't bother me personally, at all.
Quite a few times he's opened up a new way of thinking for me, which I value very much.
The way he codes his posts, I think is clever, that way he said if he needs to quote a post to Dr.Bob, it's easy for him to find the right one.However I know that other people feel attacked when their posts are brought up for scrutiny, especially if it's a situation when it appears the "correctness" of the post takes precedent over the pain they are feeling. I don't know what to do about that. I always feel bad and can understand why they are hurt, but I feel two-faced about it sometimes. It's not meant to be it's just that I really don't know what to think.
There have been one or two *civil* posters here who have really gotten on my nerves, though they may not bother others at all. I don't think it's my right to bring up their posting style for examination and wonder "what to do with them"
I do for the most part think that if it's not getting to Dr. Bob then I should just not read the posts that may irritate me. Something I need to learn to do better I might add.. :(
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