Posted by Gabbi-x-2 on February 17, 2005, at 17:40:02
In reply to Re: Thanks » Gabbi-x-2, posted by alexandra_k on February 17, 2005, at 2:17:11
>> I accept your apology, no problem.
> I'd miss you a hell of a lot too, you know.Yeah that would be sad : (
>
> I am upfront. I am not going to stop that. But by the same token I don't think that I am completely insensitive to the feelings of others.Yes I'm upfront too, as you know, and partly it is because I'm sensitive to the feelings of others. With babble supportive lingo it's sometimes I think difficult to determine whether someone is truly not angry/offended or wording something in a way that won't get them blocked.
Some people have a knack for being more gently sincere than I do, it's something I work on all the time.I like to be as transparent as possible, (NOT RUDE) so when I care for someone they know it's me speaking, not just supportive speak (not that they are exclusive) And If I'm angry about a post, not the poster, that comes through as well.
> If anyone has a problem with something that I have said then I would appreciate it if they could tell me that. Or if they could just ask me to back off. If they could at least give me the opportunity to attempt to clarify my intention.
I wish I had done that in this case for you Alexandra.
This is how we learn stuff I guess.Thank you for taking it so well.
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