Posted by Dinah on February 14, 2005, at 10:01:37
In reply to Dr-Bob!!! This really sucks!!! Please Help!!!, posted by 64bowtie on February 14, 2005, at 3:33:31
Who on earth sent that Babblemail to you? No never mind - don't answer that; that would be a breach of confidentiality.
Rod, there is information in the FAQ on how to handle Babblemail that distresses you. It calls for sending the Babblemail, along with headers, to Dr. Bob. It doesn't include sharing it with the board or forwarding it to other posters. In fact I think there's something in the FAQ, and others have gotten admin actions, for making public private communications. Some people consider it well worth the block, or PBC, if they think it's worth it. And if it's a matter where you think the good outweighs the risk, then of course you have the right to make that decision.
But Rod, I think it's unlikely that Gabbi ever had in mind to kill you, don't you? If I killed everyone that I said that about, my family would be decimated, and my office would be littered with bodies. In my neck of the woods, it's generally considered a figure of speech, when weighed properly in context.
I do understand, however, that you might feel hurt. And I'm sorry for that. I hope you and Gabbi are able to resolve that.
I also understand that Gabbi might be feeling hurt. And I'm sorry for that too.
I have confidence in Dr. Bob to sort out anything he feels needs sorting.
And I have confidence that the two of you can work it out, if you so desire. (Three of you, perhaps, if the Babblemail didn't come directly from Gabbi.)
(Pssst. 3 R's)
poster:Dinah
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