Posted by malthus on January 21, 2005, at 17:55:37
In reply to Lous' response to -list of criteria-24/7, posted by Lou Pilder on January 21, 2005, at 15:06:42
> There is a suggestion that one post directly to the poster vs posting to a third party,(directly to you)is not supportive.
> Well, I tried that and there is a large body of objections to me requesting clarification about what someone wrote either to me or about something relevant to me in the archives. I do agree that to post directly has its merits, but I also think that there is the potential for conflict because of the potential for there to be confrontation.
> OTOH, posting to the admin. board has also posts objecting to that in the archives.
> I propose the following:
> That there be appointed 12 spacific deputys in charge of objections to posts by other posters. The deputys will have 1 hour to respond to an email to the objection or request for a determination. Each deputy could have their own specialty and be on call durring their 2 hour convieniant times to answer objections to posts.
> They will reply accordingly and there could be an appeal to Dr. Hsiung. I can think of many posters here that have particular expertise in distinct areas to handle calls for objections by other posters. I think that this has the potential to prevent confrontation and at the same time avoid the admin. board to have it there. Am I on the right track?
> LouAre you directing this question to me Lou? I have struggled with feeling ignored most of my life and continue to. I had reservations about even posting about how ignored I felt in that previous thread. I was afraid nobody would respond to what I said. And that is exactly what happened. Not one poster in this thread has replied to me directly about what I am GENUINELY feeling and that is really hurtful. I'm remembering what it feels like being on the outside looking in and trying to break into a clique. Ugh!! I know this all has roots in my past and that this is an issue I struggle with at work and in my own family. I know I don't post that much but I was hoping for some "mutual support". I am truly fragile and disappointed right now. It's sadly ironic to me that this whole thread is about supporting others in a mental health forum and that I feel the way I do.
malthus
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