Posted by alexandra_k on January 15, 2005, at 21:55:39
In reply to Re: Okay » alexandra_k, posted by Gabbix2 on January 15, 2005, at 21:39:28
Ok, me still thinking about this too...
> Well he may deal with it, by blocking them but still no one else would know what that person had done, and I think that's the point. Not to be vindictive but to prevent others from having to experience it.
But I don't see how it does 'prevent others from having to experience it'. All it does do is produce annoyance / hostility toward the original poster on their return... I do take your point that you weren't into it for revenge or anything like that, but I guess I don't see how it prevents a recurrence...
>And in another way, I feel it's almost more fair to post what they said.
I guess I disagree, I would have just passed it on.
> If I simply said " I recieved a letter from so and so which alarmed me and I sent it to dr. Bob"
> that could mean anything, it's open to interpretation.Yeah, I guess I wouldn't have even said that.
>Perhaps it could be something that wouldn't even bother most people you know?
Oh no, it would have bothered me immensely. Which would be why I would have sent it on.
Hey, I am not meaning to criticise or anything. I don't know what I would have done in the moment. Am just trying to figure it out incase it ever happens to me.
PMS is a b*tch.
Finally got mine back, though. YAY! I never thoguht I'd say that...
(B*tch isn't asterisking)
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thread:441776
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