Posted by Angel Girl on January 15, 2005, at 4:06:39
In reply to Re: Lou's resp[onse to Angel Girl's post-beachrstntose » Lou Pilder, posted by NikkiT2 on January 14, 2005, at 14:45:24
> Lou., I'm not a Christian but I can see why someone who is would be very very upset by having that word next to their name.
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> Maybe you could try thinking of it in the terms of using a word that you may fund offensive, being a Jew, but that someone who wasn't a Jew wouldn't find offensive.
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> I did, in the original version of this, include an example, but I have removed that as I thougt you would probably be offended, but if you would like me to do so, just say.
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> Nikki
NikkiThank you for your support. Even if Lou does not understand how he has incredibly offended me, I have made that abundantly clear and have asked him to remove the word. Instead there is an asterisk to replace the first letter. Is that to lead others to not know what that word is? I think NOT!!! I can't tell you how much I am hurt. I went to sleep and when I woke up, this is the very first thought that came to my mind. I do not understand why Lou will not comply with my wishes. He gets very upset when he feels he is being offended, can he not understand when it happens to someone else. I feel he does not understand the level of my being upset although the use of capitals in my replies and the words I have used should've been sufficient. I have been in tears over this. If he wants others to understand his feelings of being offended, well, he must also understand others feelings also and when he continued with the suject of the thread, that upset and angered me all the more. I can not believe the level of insensitivity that has been shown towards me and yet he still doesn't 'get it'.
AG
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