Posted by Kali Munro on October 7, 2004, at 19:33:33
In reply to Re: Kali - this is exactly what happens, posted by verne on October 6, 2004, at 15:38:27
> I agree with partlycloudy that this is a problem and wonder what can be done about it. I'm reluctant to post for fear my messages will be submitted for "administrative review". I accuse myself enough, I don't need to go looking for it.
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> verne
I understand; it could make it difficult to post for fear of "not saying it right" and being submitted for review. I think when someone has a concern or feels hurt by someone's post it might be gentler to give the poster the benefit of the doubt -- I doubt anyone here is trying to hurt anyone -- and ask the person to clarify what they meant, and/or they could express how they heard the poster's comments and ask if that's what they were intending to say. Would that help you to feel more comfortable posting?Kali
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