Posted by Shar on June 28, 2004, at 23:25:04
In reply to Re: moving forward, posted by Dr. Bob on June 28, 2004, at 10:58:13
> > Same song, second verse
> >
> > Shar
>
> I don't mean to be unresponsive, but maybe it's time to change the song?.......I couldn't agree more!!
>I'd like to try to move forward, and constructive suggestions would be great.
I would guess there are hundreds of 'constructive suggestions' in the archives. I am too afraid to speak my mind and suggest something that would be worded 'incorrectly' and, therefore, get me blocked.
In olden days here, suggestions and comments were ok to make. Now everything has this patina of 'civility' in which all statements [no matter their content] might result in a block, and ...obviously, that results in people like me not posting suggestions.
In response to your post about moving forward--it is a nice concept, but leaves me and (possibly, potentially, maybe, perhaps) others hearing 'ok, you wrote what you wanted, you didn't get blocked, it doesn't matter, let's move on.' As if moving on in that case is progress. It is very crazy-making, that kind of response, if one is raised with it. Which I was, so maybe that's why it resonates with me.
With all my love, as always, and trying to be as civil as is possible in this galaxy,
Shar
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