Posted by octopusprime on June 3, 2004, at 20:16:29
In reply to Re: please be civil » trucker, posted by Dr. Bob on June 3, 2004, at 16:55:14
dr. bob:
in my opinion trucker should have been pbc'ed too.
she wrote:
"i have run into a bunch of static myself here. i didn't realize there were a bunch of gays on here and they don't like the abomination word... and they go on and on about it"i read her post as implying that gays are "static". i think tofuemmy was not off-base in interpreting the post as she did. i was also not impressed with the overall tone. who would like the word abomination, when in this context it seems to be implicitly applied to a group of people?
in your civility guidelines, you do not explicitly make mention of refraining from disparaging different races, colours, creeds, religions, ages, sexual orientations, abilities, or weight. it may just fall into the categories of "overgeneralization" and "offensiveness". i felt offended reading trucker's original post myself.
food for thought.
> > in Open, you did indeed say that "gays" are "an abomination".
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> I'd like Open to be civil, too. Please don't post anything there that could lead others to feel accused or put down, either.
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> If you have any questions or comments about this or about posting policies in general, or are interested in alternative ways of expressing yourself, please see the FAQ:
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> http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
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> or redirect a follow-up to Psycho-Babble Administration.
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> Sharing something about your own issues and their possible role in your reaction might be an interesting exercise -- and might help others respond to you supportively.
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> Thanks,
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> Bob
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