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Re: please be civil » Dr. Bob

Posted by Larry Hoover on May 15, 2004, at 8:14:16

In reply to Re: please be civil » Larry Hoover » 64bowtie, posted by Dr. Bob on May 15, 2004, at 1:35:40

> > > he has overstepped his bounds.
> >
> > That feels like a put down, and is more clearly not an acceptable I-statment.
>
> That one I overlooked, I apologize for that, and I'm sorry for any hurt it caused.

I struggle with how you could have overlooked it, Bob. I quoted the entire post in the one you triple blocked me for.

Again, I reiterate my point that inconsistent site moderation was a precipitating factor in my indignant reply.

Again, too, I reiterate my perception that you appear to focus your civility sensors on me, while ignoring egregious postings in the same thread. Heck, in the same message.

http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20040112/msgs/303226.html

>
> > more egregious acts of incivility

I fail to see what is uncivil about this phrase. Are mere mortals precluded from conclusions about civility?

> > You disgust me.

Please accept my apologies if I offended you. This was another test. St. James called you a pedophile without so much as a PBC. I was trying to clarify the rules around statements made to you. Clarity eludes me still.

> > Larry Hoover
>
> > The locals are ... taking potshots indesciminately.
> >
> > 64bowtie
>
> Still, please don't post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down. Two wrongs don't make a right.

Are you accepting that you wronged me? If so, isn't some sort of reparation in order?

> If you have any questions or comments about this or about posting policies in general, or are interested in alternative ways of expressing yourself, please see the FAQ:
>
> http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
>
> or post a follow-up here.
>
> Sharing something about your own issues and their possible role in your reaction might be an interesting exercise -- and might help others respond to you supportively.
>
> Thanks,
>
> Bob

I think I covered the issues in these two posts:

http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20040112/msgs/303199.html
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20040112/msgs/303220.html

Lar

 

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