Posted by fallsfall on February 8, 2004, at 10:10:17
In reply to Re: thanks, any problems?, posted by noa on February 8, 2004, at 9:59:58
Thank you for your perspective, noa.
I sincerely hope that your interpretation is correct. And I certainly have been known to read things in when they are not intended by the speaker (see my posts about my transference of thinking that my therapist is mad at me when he isn't).
But isn't something considered uncivil if someone COULD feel put down by it - even if that was not the poster's intention? I try to stay out of "uncivil debates" because, for some reason, I truly don't understand it. I guess I just needed to go on record here to say that *I* felt vicariously invalidated.
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