Posted by Dr. Bob on June 30, 2003, at 1:34:21
In reply to Re: DR Bob, posted by Brio D Chimp on June 29, 2003, at 11:40:06
> You seem very bitter.
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> Brio D Chimp> I am offended by this comment...
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> zenhussy> I would not consider saying you seem bitter any worse than saying you seem depressed or you seem angry.
That was how I saw it, too, and why I let it go. However:
> bit·ter
> Having or being a taste that is sharp, acrid, and unpleasant.
> Causing a sharply unpleasant, painful, or stinging sensation; harsh
> Difficult or distasteful to accept, admit, or bear
> Proceeding from or exhibiting strong animosityAnd I can certainly see how that could lead others to feel accused or put down. So, please don't make any more comments like that.
> The words you posted seemed to support my inference that you ... were bitter.
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> Brio D ChimpThe issue isn't whether inferences are supported, but whether they could lead others to feel accused or put down.
Bob
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