Posted by Dr. Bob on January 9, 2003, at 1:28:54
Re: Please be civil
Posted by kid a on January 7, 2003, at 20:21:43
In reply to http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/social/20030104/msgs/34793.html
> Michael, I realize that you were trying to help a friend, but please keep the civility guidelines in mind while doing so. Please be sensitive to the feelings of others, and try not to jump to conclusions about their motivations.
Dinah, I try to write in the utmost tones of civility. There is no malice in my voice. No incivility, as you state. I don't write to hurt, I write to explain, to elucidate the darkness that is ones soul, something so fragile that mere words can break it.
I have no intention of dragging this to admin, its over as far as I am concerned. As a Buddhist, you learn to rise about such petty things.
my love.
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Re: This thread
Posted by Dinah on January 7, 2003, at 20:28:19
In reply to Re: Please be civil, posted by kid a on January 7, 2003, at 20:21:43
Dr. Bob is free to reinterpret things as he thinks fit, and I'd much rather let all this die until he comes along, if it's all the same to everyone.
I consider you all to be friends of mine, so I'd much rather not get administrative. :(
Dinah
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Re: This thread » Dinah
Posted by Alii on January 7, 2003, at 20:38:48
In reply to Re: This thread, posted by Dinah on January 7, 2003, at 20:28:19
>> Dr. Bob is free to reinterpret things as he thinks fit, and I'd much rather let all this die until he comes along, if it's all the same to everyone.
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>> I consider you all to be friends of mine, so I'd much rather not get administrative. :(
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>> Dinah
Friends or not Dinah as a deputy it would appear you are appealing to the familiar nature you have with the people in this thread.How does that look to a new poster or lurker who isn't aware of the Please Be Civil warnings and redirecting of threads to PBA? I'm a bit uncomfortable with a deputy being so friendly about this whole administrative matter. (That isn't saying anything negative about you as a person Dinah but instead I'm talking about the role of deputy on these boards.)
I would rather that friendships aside this be dealt with in a third party manner as it seems that everyone involved here has taken it too personally.
Thoughtfully,
Alii
poster:Dr. Bob
thread:8744
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20021128/msgs/8744.html