Posted by Phil on July 30, 2002, at 18:44:35
In reply to Re: Oh No! LostBoy... Please Come back... (LAME)......, posted by LostBoyinNC1 on July 30, 2002, at 17:57:29
Cam handled a blindside attack from lost boy well.
Lost boy is angry at everything. He's more a danger to himself with that level of anger.
If we're ever going to be able to actually exchange ideas and make friends here, we have to decide between taking an easy shot at someone or ignoring them.
If you take a shot at them, someone takes a shot at you, third parties join in.
I have been guilty, too. But 'before' you hit that submit button, think where it's going to lead and what it's going to do to this board.
We all deal with a tough disease. EVERYONE OF US.
Why do we fight with each other? We ought to be fighting for our rights, parity, better drugs.It is incredibly hard not to respond to a series of nasty posts but if you do...you know what's next.
I'll give Dr. Bob another one PPR: Please Practice Restraint. Give it an hour before you post if you're not sure. There are many times I wish I would have.The bottom line is that everyone here says they want a safe place; that will take maturity and restraint. We want Dr. Bob back to block, etc. What are we? Helpless? If somebody makes you angry, do what Jesus said. Be nice to them; it's like pouring hot coals on their head. They're stumped. They have no where to go. Many come here just to provoke.
The absolute worst thing for our collective diseases is ANGER. We have a choice.
We can choose compassion or outright hatred.
Don't give your power away to Dr. Bob or anyone else. Take responsibility.Phil
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