Posted by Dr. Bob on March 31, 2002, at 23:18:47
In reply to Re: Civility vs. Propriety – Words, posted by mist on March 31, 2002, at 22:06:58
> Civility (at least in theory) is based on the value of treating others well. It has to do with content, not style. Propriety is about adhering to a superficial standard of what's socially acceptable ("proper") or not, according to a dominant societal group at the expense of alternative values and viewpoints.
I see what you're saying, but isn't it proper to treat others well?
> Telling others they can't use these words strikes me as moral-majority-esque and perhaps fitting in a church or other conservative venue but not on a board addressing mental health issues.
Maybe that makes this a conservative venue for addressing mental health issues. I agree, it can be constraining, but I think it makes the atmosphere more welcoming, and I think more's gained than lost.
Bob
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