Posted by NikkiT2 on May 13, 2004, at 8:39:51
In reply to Re: this age thing! » NikkiT2, posted by finelinebob on May 13, 2004, at 8:06:02
yeah.. I know you're right with the ay age thing.. I live in Central London.. kinda similar to NYC in that ANYTHING goes really *laughing*
And I can understand my husbands wish to have kids before he is 40.. he wants to be young with them.. and also, I already know we will more than likely have problems in the baby making area so I know its best to start trying as early as possible.. the adoption laws here are kinda antiquated (very hard to adopt once you're over 40) so if we needed to go down that route, we do kinda need to know asap!
And *everyone* tells me their 30's are the best years of their life.. and I can see that, I really can.. I already have so much more confidence and not as hung up on what others will think of me!
I had a 22 crisis aswell (when you're a kid, you want to a be a teen, when a teen you want to be 18, then when 18 you want to be 21, but then suddenly at 22 there was no more ages to look forward to in my eyes!!!) so know this is just a passing thing..
And actually - I wouldn't mind be 20 / 21 again *grins* I had HUGE fun at that age.. left home and bought my own house, discovered freedom and all that kinda thing!! Its just after that that things started getting really bad!! And I'd love to do it again knowing everything I know now *laughing*
Thanks for letting me rant it all out here though.. I've tried talking to others and I just get the p*** taken out of me for it!
Nikki xx
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