Posted by judy1 on January 17, 2004, at 11:39:21
In reply to Re: being a victim, posted by Racer on January 15, 2004, at 13:43:58
do you think mannerisms and one's physical bearing attract rapists? I'm not talking about provacative dress, but some kind of aura that an abuse victim emanates? I'm trying to understand that.
I can truly understand how a shrink is able to zone in on a victim, I guess it's why other shrinks find this type of thing so heinous.
I agree we use the coping mechanisms we know, no matter how destructive (and I wrote that to shar). but it's the random things that get me...
BTW, I find you very clear- has someone else said something to you? being bipolar, I possess a computer brain when manic so that when I'm 'normal' I feel like my mind is in slow mo. is that how you're feeling?
take care, judy
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