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Posted by Tanzanite on March 8, 2006, at 12:22:54
Ok, despite me trying to be helpful I really am tired of everything going wrong in my life. I don't mean to have this attitude but, it just happens to be that way sometimes it seems. They have had our car that we wanted to file bankruptcy on at the shop for three days now trying to figure out what is wrong (Well Thank goodness they finally did, but it is gonna be a whopping 625 bucks, better than replacing the transmission in the used car we just bought and spent over 3,000 on, almost all the money we had left. WHY why why? And, then yesterday come to find out a gift of coins I had ordered for my father was delivered to the wrong home in our park ( an empty home) about a month ago and we went to see if the package was there and they had been stolen. Supposedly, they are replacing them and gonna send them to the correct address now, but I also have to fight an overdraft charge because the lady that originally messed up with my address also messed up with explaining how this coin club thing worked, and the money wasn't supposed to come out again till the following November (not the initial payment, but every subsequent set). So, I cancelled with them and now have to figure this out too. I am fed up to here! I am mad, and tired of all the drama with my marriage (though I love my hubby dearly and that is going better), and I got so mad I even kicked the toolbox like 4 times just because. So, venting here. Please bear with me, but no wonder why I get so fed up with things. Jeez. If this sounds petty, please forgive me. But, this is just coming from my own perspective. Better go to my room now :)
Chelle
Posted by fairywings on March 8, 2006, at 14:05:21
In reply to WHY does everything go wrong for me! Arghhh, posted by Tanzanite on March 8, 2006, at 12:22:54
I think nothing can color things and make everything seem overwhelming when you have either money or health problems. It's that way for me anyway, and it sounds like you've had too much frustration lately.
fw
Posted by wildcard11 on March 8, 2006, at 15:11:42
In reply to Re: WHY does everything go wrong for me! Arghhh » Tanzanite, posted by fairywings on March 8, 2006, at 14:05:21
Sorry things are piled on top of you right now and you feel overwhelmed but hang on and they will get better...you are a wonderful person and i'm here for you.
Posted by ClearSkies on March 8, 2006, at 15:13:00
In reply to WHY does everything go wrong for me! Arghhh, posted by Tanzanite on March 8, 2006, at 12:22:54
I agree, money and health problems are huge, huge, really huge stressors. I'm sorry this stuff is ganging up on you right now.
Kicking the toolbox could lead to further problems unless you're wearing steel toe boots!
:-)CS
Posted by Tanzanite on March 8, 2006, at 17:28:25
In reply to Re: WHY does everything go wrong for me! Arghhh » Tanzanite, posted by ClearSkies on March 8, 2006, at 15:13:00
I appreciate your kindness.You guys are sweetie pies. And yes way way too much is piling up on us. Now the mechanic shop said we have another repair on this car we need and that is approx. $300.00. When will it stop. I mean give me a break. We will never be able to file bankruptcy with a lawyer's help. All our money will be gone. But, transportation is a must, so we must continue on. You are all great folks and thanks for the comments. Maybe I should buy some steel toed boots :) Maybe I should buy a punching bag lol. I just really don't know if we can afford the expense for either. Trudging on. And I am sure we all ask ourselves> why do this things happen? Because I know I am not the only one this stuff happens to. Hugs, cheers, and well wishes.
Peace
Tanzanite
Posted by Phillipa on March 8, 2006, at 19:04:23
In reply to Thanks you all, etc., posted by Tanzanite on March 8, 2006, at 17:28:25
I know someone with a punching bag who may lend it to you. Sorry about all the problems right now. Hopefully they will get better in time. Fondly,Phillipa
Posted by Tanzanite on March 8, 2006, at 20:33:43
In reply to Re: Thanks you all, etc. » Tanzanite, posted by Phillipa on March 8, 2006, at 19:04:23
You always have such a big heart. Thank you as well for your response. I'll just use a pillow :)
Hope you are doing well.
Chelle
Posted by wildcard11 on March 8, 2006, at 21:13:43
In reply to Re: Thanks you all, etc. » Tanzanite, posted by Phillipa on March 8, 2006, at 19:04:23
Posted by Phillipa on March 8, 2006, at 22:16:46
In reply to Re: Thanks you all, etc. » Tanzanite, posted by Phillipa on March 8, 2006, at 19:04:23
Well you don't need it now do you? Maybe you do. Love Phillipa
Posted by wildcard11 on March 8, 2006, at 22:18:42
In reply to Re: Thanks you all, etc. » Phillipa, posted by Phillipa on March 8, 2006, at 22:16:46
Posted by JenStar on March 9, 2006, at 23:25:26
In reply to WHY does everything go wrong for me! Arghhh, posted by Tanzanite on March 8, 2006, at 12:22:54
hi Tanzanite,
I'm sorry things suck right now!!! I'd be upset too if I had to deal with all that. I hope it all improves soon for you.That's AWFUL about the coins. So frustrating! Give that toolbox a kick from me, too. I'm not really trying to make fun or anything - sometimes when I get horribly mad, I actually throw or kick things too. Just do it with good solid shoes on so you don't hurt your foot. :)
I hope it gets better soon!
JenStar
Posted by wildcard11 on March 9, 2006, at 23:36:55
In reply to Re: WHY does everything go wrong for me! Arghhh » Tanzanite, posted by JenStar on March 9, 2006, at 23:25:26
Posted by Tanzanite on March 10, 2006, at 1:10:36
In reply to Wanna borrow my punching bag? (nm), posted by wildcard11 on March 9, 2006, at 23:36:55
Posted by Tanzanite on March 10, 2006, at 1:27:34
In reply to Re: WHY does everything go wrong for me! Arghhh » Tanzanite, posted by JenStar on March 9, 2006, at 23:25:26
Oh, thank you so much for your kind words and support. Sometimes I think it is like my family and I mean my whole family always has stuff happening to them. I guess it followed me when I moved lol :) I probably won't be kicking the toolbox anymore, but I gotta find something to release my frustration. So, pillows maybe good. Another thing I learned in school was to get a soft foam ball or what are they called (bean bag)? and throw it against the wall and shout out what is upsetting you to get it out. I just may have to resort to that lol. HUGS and thank you very much.
Tanzanite
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