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The bigger they are, the harder they fall, oh yes.

Posted by Susan47 on February 11, 2005, at 1:08:41

Reading "The Gift of Therapy" and realizing my ex-therapist was highly idealized by me (well, I already knew that) BUT now I'm beginning to understand where he failed me.. and he did, and he didn't have even the honesty to admit that. Even now, when he knows how much I suffer, he's afraid to be an honest man. Do you know why? I can only guess, and here is my very best guess ... he's uncomfortable with himself. Yuck.

Re: The bigger they are, the harder they fall, oh yes.

Posted by sunny10 on February 11, 2005, at 12:03:58

In reply to The bigger they are, the harder they fall, oh yes., posted by Susan47 on February 11, 2005, at 1:08:41

between this and the mirror observations above, I'm really glad to see you seeing yourself in a more positive light AND realizing that everyone is human and doubts (or does the wrong things)themselves at times...

mwah,
sunny10

Re: The bigger they are, the harder they fall, oh yes.

Posted by Susan47 on February 11, 2005, at 12:47:18

In reply to Re: The bigger they are, the harder they fall, oh yes., posted by sunny10 on February 11, 2005, at 12:03:58

Yes, I'm sounding healthier - manically so at times, but emotionally and psychically healthier.
I only hope the same for others -- he knows who he is.
Anger and disappointment are really fabulous reality checks. I think I get so angry because I love him ... weird.

Re: The bigger they are, the harder they fall, oh yes.

Posted by sunny10 on February 11, 2005, at 14:20:58

In reply to Re: The bigger they are, the harder they fall, oh yes., posted by Susan47 on February 11, 2005, at 12:47:18

okay, now if you can stop spending your energy wondering how he is doing, you'll be golden !!!

Love you, sweetie. I saw a funny movie last night- rented it. Maybe you could give it a try this Friday night... Without a Paddle. It was funny and full of high adventure and pretty scenery..

give it a shot!

(mwuh)
sunny10

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