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Posted by btb on October 22, 2012, at 15:45:31
hi.. does anyone have any insight as to understanding my kids possible needs being raised by me. i am atyp depression with and /or avoidant personality. my oldest son (18)is in the most need of a good parent right now. i need help to help him. im new here. thanks
Posted by Phillipa on October 22, 2012, at 18:48:18
In reply to advice for my kids needs --im atyp dep/avoid, posted by btb on October 22, 2012, at 15:45:31
Welcome to babble. You may wish to also post this on meds. First are you on any meds? Phillipa
Posted by Dinah on October 22, 2012, at 22:57:12
In reply to advice for my kids needs --im atyp dep/avoid, posted by btb on October 22, 2012, at 15:45:31
Does your son, or your family, have access to counseling? Someone who can look at things with a certain detachment?
Posted by Twinleaf on October 23, 2012, at 10:33:56
In reply to Re: advice for my kids needs --im atyp dep/avoid » btb, posted by Dinah on October 22, 2012, at 22:57:12
Welcome!
People who have features of avoidant personality disorder, with or without depression, can grow and change a great deal with psychodynamic psychotherapy. the kind that seems to help the most is where there is a very good fit between you and your therapist, and you are receiving a lot of support and understanding as you learn more satisfying ways of relating to others. I would recommend that, if you haven't done it already. As you change and become more confident and interactive yourself, you will be helping your son. You didn't tell us too much about him, but it might be that he, too would benefit from this type of therapy. Good luck with whatever you try!
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