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Posted by Deneb on January 8, 2012, at 4:10:50
I've been Skyping with this guy I first met on another forum about a year ago. We've chatted on and off and recently chat a lot.
He likes me and I like him. He's really smart and fun. He also speaks a little bit of Cantonese. He, like me, was born in N. America.
I want to meet up with him sometime. He's really fun to be around. I chat while looking at him so I think that will prepare me for actually being with him in person.
He's so sweet. He goes to bed much earlier than me, but I know he forces himself to stay awake just so he can hear my voice.
I feel attracted to him. I want to hug him. :)
He's so cute!
I find myself thinking of him more now than Dr. Bob. LOL
Posted by Phillipa on January 8, 2012, at 10:04:53
In reply to I think I have a boyfriend now, posted by Deneb on January 8, 2012, at 4:10:50
Deneb congratulations so much healthier. Phillipa
Posted by Solstice on January 8, 2012, at 13:38:33
In reply to I think I have a boyfriend now, posted by Deneb on January 8, 2012, at 4:10:50
> I've been Skyping with this guy I first met on another forum about a year ago. We've chatted on and off and recently chat a lot.
>
> He likes me and I like him. He's really smart and fun. He also speaks a little bit of Cantonese. He, like me, was born in N. America.
>
> I want to meet up with him sometime. He's really fun to be around. I chat while looking at him so I think that will prepare me for actually being with him in person.
>
> He's so sweet. He goes to bed much earlier than me, but I know he forces himself to stay awake just so he can hear my voice.
>
> I feel attracted to him. I want to hug him. :)
>
> He's so cute!I am So proud for you! This is really exciting.
>
> I find myself thinking of him more now than Dr. Bob. LOL
I'll tell you what, Deneb... I can't help but wonder if Bob's absence is what has helped you loosen your grip on him.. which has set you free to develop some healthier, real-life peer attachments. If so, Bob's absence is the best thing that could have happened to you! And honestly, rather than it meaning that Bob has been replaced, I think it will result in your relationship with Bob just changing.. becoming more mature...I am really, really happy about your news :-)
Solstice
Posted by Dinah on January 9, 2012, at 10:55:40
In reply to I think I have a boyfriend now, posted by Deneb on January 8, 2012, at 4:10:50
Good for you!
Real people are scarier than pretend ones, and can hurt more. But they also have so much more potential for satisfaction and fulfillment.
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