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Posted by rjlockhart04-08 on June 17, 2009, at 1:31:23
Just droppin
Most of these days people don't post as much as they did in the past. There is alot of people, that know me true, from the inside, other who distort and say "no your this inside".
Alot/situations confrounted people, and directly more so told them to f/off and get m/anyone's life. In cival terms, basically arguing down the point "What is you point, and what's your point to be valid?" On the outside, it's a diffrent story, in the inside the heart, it's been collpsed, yet itgrows itself to "indirectly" be ready for an attack, and have alot of verbal weapons to anyone (in general) that is be damaging. I walk off, and forget about it. Yet, then they become the "victim", he said "this". There is point where you get a armor, and what ever hit's, hit's, and whatever morally needs to be addressed get's addressed.
The reason is logically it's true, they are not worth rerembering. There no satisfaction of rerember that person/group, past i've made comment's that didnt realize (passive agressive, more direct). In...say someone walk by, makes a gossip, i just make one comment to that whole group of people, and not realizing it "seperates" . They either hate me more, or be a victim, and blame their problems, part on me. "The real reason now, is because you did all this! you made drop that pencil, or life destroyed (being extreme). Hello? someone say reality check? Look at the circumstance, did that person/group forget passivly what they have said, possibly, yet, take it out on someone.
If you see, most of the writing, now has changed because slowly learning things slowly. Sitting down, confrounting someone, the one thing people will use to not get to the truth, is making up more gossip, and stuff, to make a "twisted-truth" to throw. Gossip, spell it, is what you call "telephone" call 30 phones with one word, and it's nothing from the original orgin of what is being discussed, it get's off subject, twisted, for stimulation of talking about something to feel significant, then passing it on.
What is being "cold", forgetting little people and moving on (that is not to anyone on the website), yet at onetime that person made a image of admiration, then rejection don't understand, you just forget them and move on. Tell them how much potential they showed you, good or bad, influence, then go to new things in life.
I think at someone point's, emotional trigger's can happen from being at a place when you where young age, and the circumstance of reality, you got hurt it can stay with you till adulthood, underalot. Seeing a clip or being in place, "blink" a beep goes, reminding of that memory. I close my eyes, rerember what i could of done diffrent to make it better, or solve that situation as kid. Yet you can't in reality, things are mathematically "the way they are". You can make impact's, by the way you think, being warm to cold people is giving away your life, let cold people freeze to death when no cares about them. Because, the warm heart i had...just went out. So, you address people, diffrent ways, because you know, what buttons their going to push, but you change, that's actually the "button" not to push, then, example: push all their buttons, and they run away, yet due....they made an attack, but play a victim role, which is morally lower than no morals at all.
I mean, people that you forget, there are good memories, even from the best relationship, but you made up and went diffrent ways.
What is cold about what i'm conveying? Serious, just a discussion, please. I'm giving you insignt, yet i'm asking for some advice in fragments, or what is being said. People here have been, the people i know here from the past, 5 years back, and i'm asking for improvising on any insight of this, or a point.
appriciate anyfeed back....rj
Posted by rjlockhart04-08 on June 21, 2009, at 0:11:29
In reply to Dealing with rejection in some situations, posted by rjlockhart04-08 on June 17, 2009, at 1:31:23
And no response as usally....this is not about anyone here, on tv, it's about the past and people i've dealt with. Not going out...now if some high school buddy get's on here that's a diffrent story.
Later...
Posted by Kath on June 25, 2009, at 19:27:32
In reply to Re: Dealing with rejection in some situations, posted by rjlockhart04-08 on June 21, 2009, at 0:11:29
Sorry - I just don't have the mental focus to think much these days. I care about you. At the same time, this past while has been totally exhausting for me, so I'm sorry not to be able to even absorb your post.
I am feeling really tired. Not that I don't care.
luv, Kath
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