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Posted by Sigismund on June 9, 2007, at 19:25:13
In reply to Re: Where is everyone? » Phillipa, posted by scratchpad on June 9, 2007, at 17:05:26
Allow me to segue to the Abbot of Ampleforth.
On learning that a colleague was dying, he wrote 'Congratulations! That's brilliant news. I wish I was coming with you.'
Posted by scratchpad on June 9, 2007, at 20:40:49
In reply to Re: Where is everyone? » scratchpad, posted by tofuemmy on June 9, 2007, at 17:19:12
> Name changes confuse YOU??? Jeepers creepers. Haven't you been named after a series of weather conditions, and now you have started on office supplies!!?? :-D
>
> Honestly, I think that's you. Isn't it, Staple Puller?
>
> emI will defend myself by saying that I often sign my posts by listing all of my previous posting names.
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rdps I have NO sense of humour today. In case you haven't noticed.
Posted by tofuemmy on June 9, 2007, at 21:04:22
In reply to Re: Where is everyone? » tofuemmy, posted by scratchpad on June 9, 2007, at 20:40:49
sorry. didn't mean to annoy.
Posted by Poet on June 10, 2007, at 11:35:45
In reply to Where is everyone?, posted by Angela2 on June 8, 2007, at 13:26:17
Working
Drinking wine
Gardeningrepeat above until Tuesday
then
Working
Drinking wine
Gardening
SchoolPoet
p.s. I do drink wine will babbling, so maybe I should scratch that from my to do list.
Posted by Angela2 on June 10, 2007, at 15:43:16
In reply to Re: Where is everyone?, posted by scratchpad on June 9, 2007, at 15:34:11
Hi Scratchpad. Hey, what is the meaning behind your name? If you don't mind me asking. It took me a while to recognise you were Clearskies.
I'm glad you have a positive outlook on the way you're feeling. That's great. I hope u feel better soon too.
Volunteering at the museum sounds fun. Sorry you had to talk to that not so nice person. Maybe they were having a bad day. Or maybe they just suck, lol.
Posted by scratchpad on June 10, 2007, at 17:59:54
In reply to Re: Where is everyone? » scratchpad, posted by Angela2 on June 10, 2007, at 15:43:16
> Hi Scratchpad. Hey, what is the meaning behind your name? If you don't mind me asking. It took me a while to recognise you were Clearskies.
>Well, when I was briefly a deputy (if you blinked you might have missed it) and then decided that I wasn't going to be one anymore, I made a break with the whole weather-related name thing. I haven't felt clear-skied for a while now. The scratchpad was the only thing I could think of that had nothing to do with my other names, and nothing to do with anything, really. Maybe my cat and her propensity to use my lap as a scratching pad when she's getting ready to curl up for a visit.
Mostly it was to make as big a change as I could from the last name. I guess there is some personal trauma there with relation to having been a deputy. No matter how long I trained for it, I wasn't ever really ready for it.
> I'm glad you have a positive outlook on the way you're feeling. That's great. I hope u feel better soon too.
>
Me too. I'm ready to feel better.
> Volunteering at the museum sounds fun. Sorry you had to talk to that not so nice person. Maybe they were having a bad day. Or maybe they just suck, lol.
>
I'm going to try another museum tomorrow. And there are a few local environmental groups I might seek out.Thanks, Lala!
>
Posted by Angela2 on June 10, 2007, at 18:46:21
In reply to Re: Where is everyone? » Angela2, posted by scratchpad on June 10, 2007, at 17:59:54
Cool about the name!
By the way, I am not Angielala. She is a different person. A few people thought I was her besides u. Maybe I should change my name and add to the confusion, lol.Angela2
Posted by scratchpad on June 11, 2007, at 7:46:19
In reply to Re: Where is everyone? » scratchpad, posted by Angela2 on June 10, 2007, at 18:46:21
> Cool about the name!
> By the way, I am not Angielala. She is a different person. A few people thought I was her besides u. Maybe I should change my name and add to the confusion, lol.
>
> Angela2That is pretty hilarious, considering we've been talking about name changes!!
Sorry about that, Angela2-in-your-own-right.
sp
Posted by Kath on June 13, 2007, at 15:24:11
In reply to Re: Where is everyone?, posted by scratchpad on June 9, 2007, at 15:34:11
> Well, I know that everyone had their own reasons for doing so but I find it overwhelming that SO many posters changed their names.
****That stresses me out! I feel this big 'loss' thing.***
That has kind of kept me quiet. Plus I am still very depressed, showing mostly as apathy. I keep checking back here for new posts but haven't even felt like I can offer much support to anyone at the moment.
*****sometimes I think we have the wrong idea of what support consists of; for me, even having someone say "I'm sorry you're upset" or something really simple helps immensely!! Sorry you've been depressed & hope you're feeling better.***
> I expect that Babble will find its rhythm again, eventually. I also expect that I will become less depressed at some time.
>
> I did attempt to have a life yesterday and started a new volunteer job at an art museum. 4 hours of sheer boredom, and of being asked questions I couldn't answer. The place is a great museum but seems like a horrible place to work. Most often heard phrase of the day was, "that's not my job." Ow.
>
> That's my story, anyways.
> Scratchpad*********how amazing that you're able to get enough 'gumption' to DO VOLUNTEER work!!! Yikes - sounds pretty stressful that time though. I suspect it will improve; keep us posted.
hugs, Kath****
Posted by Kath on June 13, 2007, at 15:27:06
In reply to Re: Where is everyone? » scratchpad, posted by Phillipa on June 9, 2007, at 15:44:14
Hey Phillipa
You're in touch with reality! One day under those circumstances is quite understandable.
Don't know what you're referring to - maybe a babblemail, but HEY - you're pretty special & maybe the person was just worried about you & sort of got anxious.
Don't get heat-stroke OK?
luv you, my special lady, hugs, Kath
Posted by Kath on June 13, 2007, at 15:28:38
In reply to Buck up, old bean. » scratchpad, posted by Sigismund on June 9, 2007, at 16:27:08
Can we still call ya Declan?
Took us a while to clear up how to pronounce it & all,
hugs, Kath
Posted by Kath on June 13, 2007, at 15:30:46
In reply to Re: Where is everyone? » scratchpad, posted by tofuemmy on June 9, 2007, at 17:19:12
LOL - :-)))))))) Kath
> Name changes confuse YOU??? Jeepers creepers. Haven't you been named after a series of weather conditions, and now you have started on office supplies!!?? :-D
>
> Honestly, I think that's you. Isn't it, Staple Puller?
>
> em
Posted by Kath on June 13, 2007, at 15:33:09
In reply to The Abbot of Ampelforth, posted by Sigismund on June 9, 2007, at 19:25:13
Posted by Kath on June 13, 2007, at 15:37:03
In reply to Re: Where is everyone? » Angela2, posted by scratchpad on June 11, 2007, at 7:46:19
Posted by scratchpad on June 13, 2007, at 15:51:54
In reply to Scratchpad - update on museum puleeezzz xoxo (nm), posted by Kath on June 13, 2007, at 15:37:03
I'm giving it one more day (and I'll ask for *something* to do while I look for admission stickers). If I still don't like the people there, I'll tell them I'm not coming back. Also, the artist whose collection the museum houses (Salvador Dali) wasn't a very likable person, IMO. Hard to be enthusiastic about someone you respect but don't like. Maybe my head is just screwed on crooked about this position, but it doesn't feel right.
Meanwhile...
The science centre I had been helping out at called me to come in. The job had ended with the school year, but I had offered to come in any time. I just mentioned to my T today that I called 2 weeks ago to repeat my offer to work. I know that things happen when they are supposed to happen, and not a minute before.And...
I have been cleaning my little stretch of the beach on my morning walks for the past few days. I take an empty bag and a rubber glove with me. I must sound like a madwoman right about now, but I went to an environmental panel discussion about the oceans on Saturday night. And I'm trying to help heal the Mother, you know? So this is my bit. This weekend there's a local, coordinated effort to clean a bayou that's been neglected for 10 years. 2 pairs of gloves.On a very basic level, volunteering is so much easier than having to contemplate going to work. It's been 2 years since I quit due to depression. This way I am able to contribute somewhere where I already know I'm wanted.
I feel less crappy today than I did yesterday.
This is progress.Scratchpad
Posted by Kath on June 13, 2007, at 16:26:42
In reply to Re: Scratchpad - update on museum puleeezzz xoxo » Kath, posted by scratchpad on June 13, 2007, at 15:51:54
Oh Oh Oh Oh Oh OH Oh Oh OHHHHHHHHHHHH
You live on the ocean???????
If so I'm totally GREEEEEN with envy!!!
How lovely. I'd love to live on ANY kind of water. I think it's wonderful that you're doing your part!
Sounds good about the Science Centre.
I hope you keep feeling better each day.
hugs, Kath
Posted by scratchpad on June 13, 2007, at 16:46:28
In reply to Re: Scratchpad - update on museum puleeezzz xoxo » scratchpad, posted by Kath on June 13, 2007, at 16:26:42
Gulf-o-Mexico with every other ex-pat Canadian in Florida. Central coast, with dolphin sightings and everything. It's very, very wonderful. I feel guilty for being depressed while living here.
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Posted by Sigismund on June 13, 2007, at 17:17:27
In reply to Re: Buck up, old bean. » Sigismund, posted by Kath on June 13, 2007, at 15:28:38
Yes, of course you can call me Declan, Kath.
Anyway people will pronounce Sigismund without sounding the S as a Z, which will spoil the effect.
I have been pining for Declan, but have no idea how to get him back.
Posted by Sigismund on June 13, 2007, at 17:20:37
In reply to Re: Buck up, old bean. » Kath, posted by Sigismund on June 13, 2007, at 17:17:27
OTOH, I can now send Babblemails to myself.
Posted by karen_kay on June 15, 2007, at 9:54:56
In reply to Possible Explanations, posted by Sigismund on June 8, 2007, at 19:45:44
you said: They're avoiding me. I feel it, deep in my heart.
i say: i thinkie i likie you declan (is it ok to call you that?). perhaps i'll make an odd combo of your former name as well as your new one, like ziclan, or demund? oh yes! that sounds evil, in a way. demund.....).
i feel it, deep in your heart, that they are not avoiding you. they were avoiding me, i think.... but, i have guilt issues. or rather, issues of guilt? and, since they (who are they anyway?) knew i was still reading, they were denying me the one pleasure i could have....
such is life...
marry me? i have yet to learn the who/whom rule. but, i did get a pair of retro 80's/barbie heels. they are quite fantastic and would happily post a picture if i have a digital camera. forget grammar rules. shoes speak louder than words dear. sleep on it. and stop making me beg. a ladie (notice the spelling? i'm hardly a lady) never begs, and i'm hardly a lady.
Posted by Sigismund on June 16, 2007, at 1:39:22
In reply to Re: Possible Explanations » Sigismund, posted by karen_kay on June 15, 2007, at 9:54:56
Ziclan is better than Demund, you think? What about something Germanic like Zeppelin?
Funny how we can feel like outsiders all our lives.
I got a couple of interesting shoes too.
(It's why I hate shopping.)
They were both absurdly expensive and quite interesting and innapropriate.
One is a Danish moccasonny thingo, white with black stripes (how do I carry that off?), and the other is a shoe designed to make you walk like a Massai tribesman and engage your core stability.
You need lessons from an physio in how to walk in them, and can get it under your belt in a couple of months.
Like walking with a sawn off rolling pin under each foot.I need a shopping assistant.
Posted by karen_kay on June 17, 2007, at 10:35:47
In reply to Shopping » karen_kay, posted by Sigismund on June 16, 2007, at 1:39:22
oh my!
you need a shopping assistant. i need a typing/personal assistant.
are we going to do this thing or what?
enough said,
kk
(ok, you got me, i can't leave it at that, though i'm highly tempted to. my duckie learned to walk. he walks just like me. and we both have the bruises to prove it. he's got a nasty one on his forehead, and i'm left with this horrible guilt that runs through my head over and over again saying 'why can't you move quicker without falling? that bruise is YOUR fault. besides, he only walks on tiptoes because he sees you doign it. as well, you shoudln't be wearing heels all the time, that only adds to his confusion.' then, i get this contradiction in my head that says, 'well, he'll have unfrickinbelievable fashionsense!' the devil on my shoulder shows up yet again and says 'well you're wrong yet again, as your fashion sense is just a bit off and he's going to be the only one at the party wearing canary yellow pants when everyone else is shirtless!')
of course zeppelin, you're always welcome to change your mind about marrying me. i've change my mind several times and decided against marrying myself. but boy oh boy can that duckie run! it's a glorious thing to see him run on tip toes, but when he falls, he falls pretty damn hard, leaving him with a bruise and me with all these guilt issues. perhaps we'll attend mother/son therapy when he begins preschool? (and i still prefer demund, but it's your name :) you can call me anything but skank.. too bad hussy's taken, as i really like that one.)
Posted by Kath on June 17, 2007, at 17:28:42
In reply to Re: Buck up, old bean. » Kath, posted by Sigismund on June 13, 2007, at 17:17:27
Hey Declan,
Why not Declan2 ??
or StillDeclan
or DEclan ????
if ya really wanted still to be Declan.
Just thots.
hugs to ya, luv, Kath
Posted by Sigismund on June 18, 2007, at 3:15:30
In reply to Re: Buck up, old bean. » Sigismund, posted by Kath on June 17, 2007, at 17:28:42
I can do it
All is possible.
I just need to believe I can do it.
Posted by Kath on June 18, 2007, at 15:26:10
In reply to I have been given the codes » Kath, posted by Sigismund on June 18, 2007, at 3:15:30
I KNOW the force is with you!
hugs, Kath
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