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Posted by Angela2 on June 5, 2007, at 15:21:51
I'm wondering if I am avoidant. I am supposed to go to a class tonight but I think I might make the decision not to go. Even though I already paid and can't get my money back.
Posted by Angela2 on June 5, 2007, at 17:53:00
In reply to avoidant, posted by Angela2 on June 5, 2007, at 15:21:51
ok I feel horrible. Someone please talk to me.
Posted by Sigismund on June 5, 2007, at 18:00:20
In reply to Re: avoidant, posted by Angela2 on June 5, 2007, at 17:53:00
Hello Angela
Sometimes it's better not to go, sometimes it's better to force yourself a bit, and sometimes it's hard to know.
I have found a balance after all this time, but perhaps too I don't get out and about that much.
Have you tried forcing yourself to do things and ended up regretting it?
Posted by Sigismund on June 5, 2007, at 18:02:21
In reply to Re: avoidant, posted by Sigismund on June 5, 2007, at 18:00:20
Like I wouldn't care that I'm avoidant, but that is because I would say to myself 'these are someone else's words, I will be what I like, thank you very much'.
But then you get lonely, I suppose.
Posted by Angela2 on June 5, 2007, at 18:06:46
In reply to Re: avoidant, posted by Sigismund on June 5, 2007, at 18:00:20
I just feel like a dip wad because my mom payed for a class I was going to take and I didn't go. It was only 60 dollars, but still. I made her feel bad and now I feel bad. Maybe this should be in the relationships forum.
Also I thought I was getting better and it felt like taking a class was a positive step, so now it feels like I've taken a negative one.
Posted by Angela2 on June 5, 2007, at 18:23:13
In reply to Re: avoidant, posted by Angela2 on June 5, 2007, at 18:06:46
Sometimes I think I don't want to get better. Even though I do. How does that make any sense at all??
Posted by Phillipa on June 5, 2007, at 22:36:58
In reply to Re: avoidant, posted by Angela2 on June 5, 2007, at 18:23:13
Anxiety. What is the class in? Can you make up the class? Love Phillipa
Posted by Phillipa on June 5, 2007, at 22:38:00
In reply to Re: avoidant, posted by Sigismund on June 5, 2007, at 18:00:20
Sig are you a hermit? Love PJ
Posted by Sigismund on June 6, 2007, at 1:23:16
In reply to Re: avoidant » Sigismund, posted by Phillipa on June 5, 2007, at 22:38:00
There's a lot to be said for being a hermit, PJ, in a hotel with room service and attractively costumed bellboys.
Posted by Angela2 on June 7, 2007, at 13:31:52
In reply to Re: avoidant » Angela2, posted by Phillipa on June 5, 2007, at 22:36:58
I can't make up the class but I can go to the next one. It's an art class. I've calmed down.. Thanks Phillipa.
Angela2
Posted by Phillipa on June 7, 2007, at 19:32:51
In reply to Re: avoidant, posted by Angela2 on June 7, 2007, at 13:31:52
Since I don't know what type of art create something beautiful and share it with us. Love Phillipa
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