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Posted by Gee on March 26, 2006, at 21:24:03
I though we were friends. Best friends. But you hated me. All along. You ask me to tell the truth, but when I do you hold it against me. Because it's not the answer you wanted. How did I use you? Why is it me who's the bad guy? One hard week and you run away, yelling at me, but not to my face. You talk about me, behind my back, but I only hear about from you. I ask a friend if they've talked to you, and somehow I'm in the wrong? What did I do? I though we were friends... but I guess you've hated me all along.
Posted by sleepygirl on March 26, 2006, at 21:48:26
In reply to I thought wrong, posted by Gee on March 26, 2006, at 21:24:03
I'm sorry Gee :-(
((((Gee)))))
Posted by rjlockhart on March 26, 2006, at 21:54:27
In reply to I thought wrong, posted by Gee on March 26, 2006, at 21:24:03
What happened? first of all.
Is it pbabble, or was it someone your knew, (what im thinking).
You are not the bad guy, the first thing that you can do when these things happen is first you have to love yourself. And know "me" and that im going to get through this.
If this was a relationship, dont let it get to you, i have been through breakups, hard. First the shock period, you have to just kinda throw it behind you. I dont know if those where the right words.
But take care
Posted by Phillipa on March 26, 2006, at 22:18:34
In reply to I thought wrong, posted by Gee on March 26, 2006, at 21:24:03
Gee want to E-mail me? You know I care about you. Love Phillipa
Posted by special_k on March 27, 2006, at 0:29:34
In reply to I thought wrong, posted by Gee on March 26, 2006, at 21:24:03
(((((((Gee))))))))
Sounds to me like maybe your friend is going through a rough time. Not because of you... But spinning out because of their own sh*t... And you are copping it.
((((((((Gee))))))))
People can be so hard to deal with some time.
Is there any way that you could get a message to them... Maybe written and post it or something. And just say that you really care about them. And you were worried about them. And you are hurting because it feels like they are pushing you away.
I don't know if I've got it right... But sounds to me like your friend might calm down... And come to regret treating you like this.
Maybe?
I'm sorry.
Posted by madeline on March 27, 2006, at 4:29:31
In reply to I thought wrong, posted by Gee on March 26, 2006, at 21:24:03
I'm so sorry too. No wonder it is hard for us to trust people.
Take care.
maddie
Posted by milly on March 27, 2006, at 8:16:05
In reply to I thought wrong, posted by Gee on March 26, 2006, at 21:24:03
Oh ((((((((Gee)))))))))))))
I'm so sorry you are hurting
Can you talk to your friend?
Will time make it easier?I've just had a very good friend cut me off too, her husband emailed me to say that 'i did his wife no good and infact was making her ill' It hurts.
Take care (((((Gee)))))))
milly
Posted by Tanzanite on March 27, 2006, at 9:13:28
In reply to I thought wrong, posted by Gee on March 26, 2006, at 21:24:03
Sometimes people don't want to hear the truth and they get mad. I am very sorry you are so hurt. It isn't right for your friend to treat you that way. All I can say is I hope you feel better soon.
Peace
Chelle
Posted by Gee on March 27, 2006, at 12:43:06
In reply to (((GEE))), posted by Tanzanite on March 27, 2006, at 9:13:28
It was my best friend here at school. The way she put is that she's basically hated me since January. She was the one who was constantly telling me she was suicidal. My t says she's abusive towards me. My mom says she's manipulative.
I dont' want to go running back to her because... well if I'm that hated then do I really want to be around her?
Thank you everyone. It hurts a lot. I haven't had a friend do it like this since elementary school. Why don't some people grow up?
Posted by Phillipa on March 27, 2006, at 19:06:22
In reply to thanks, posted by Gee on March 27, 2006, at 12:43:06
Geee that is not a definition of a friend. Love Phillipa
Posted by Gee on March 27, 2006, at 23:35:11
In reply to Re: thanks » Gee, posted by Phillipa on March 27, 2006, at 19:06:22
Yeah, that's what I've come to realize. In the long run I'll be better off without her. It's just hard for the moment
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