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Posted by 64bowtie on February 2, 2005, at 7:20:52
In reply to STOP IT!!! I CAN'T TAKE THIS ANYMORE!!!, posted by Angel Girl on February 2, 2005, at 4:14:12
AG,
> Right now I need a friend who can hold me and comfort me. Not all this f*cking sh*t!!!
><<< Give me a chance... at least let me try....
Rod
Posted by partlycloudy on February 2, 2005, at 7:31:50
In reply to STOP IT!!! I CAN'T TAKE THIS ANYMORE!!!, posted by Angel Girl on February 2, 2005, at 4:14:12
Babble can get very lively sometimes. If there is a subject I feel passionately about, I am definitely more vulnerable to feeling bruised when discussions get heated.
It's the kind of environment where those exchanges can escalate rapidly and without warning. Taking a step back is often what I need to do to collect myself. I also use a 24-hour rule for myself when I am angry about something. (I don't do anything for a day and then decide if it's worth my effort or in my best interest to react.)
Please don't feel that you're not cared about or that you have no support here.
Posted by nikkit2 on February 2, 2005, at 8:03:57
In reply to STOP IT!!! I CAN'T TAKE THIS ANYMORE!!!, posted by Angel Girl on February 2, 2005, at 4:14:12
I think everyone works through things, and deals with things in different ways..
I know that when I am angry about something, or struggling with something, it helps me most to hash it out to the end..
Maybe you need to avoid certain threads.. Like the Psych Central one for example if it is causing you pain..
Nikki
Posted by 64bowtie on February 2, 2005, at 8:22:43
In reply to STOP IT!!! I CAN'T TAKE THIS ANYMORE!!!, posted by Angel Girl on February 2, 2005, at 4:14:12
Posted by Angel Girl on February 2, 2005, at 9:55:19
In reply to » Angel Girl » I can do that, posted by 64bowtie on February 2, 2005, at 7:20:52
> AG,
>
> > Right now I need a friend who can hold me and comfort me. Not all this f*cking sh*t!!!
> >
>
> <<< Give me a chance... at least let me try....
>
> Rod
Thanks Rod. I appreciate that very much. Just wish you were here in person instead of a cyber hug. I'll have to settle for feeling it through my screen. <sigh>AG
Posted by 64bowtie on February 2, 2005, at 11:32:34
In reply to Re: » 64bowtie, posted by Angel Girl on February 2, 2005, at 9:55:19
Posted by 64bowtie on February 2, 2005, at 11:36:20
In reply to (((((((((((((Ahgel Girl))))))))))))))) (nm), posted by 64bowtie on February 2, 2005, at 11:32:34
(sure wish I knew how to type gooder)
Rod
Posted by Fallen4MyT on February 2, 2005, at 12:34:32
In reply to STOP IT!!! I CAN'T TAKE THIS ANYMORE!!!, posted by Angel Girl on February 2, 2005, at 4:14:12
AG sorry but experience has taught me what you see is what you will get and you can read years back in the archives and read the same thinngs. When the new boards come on the hidden and locked to many ones you will see the same. Not a good place to many unless youre in favor with the doc
> Why must there be constant bickering, disagreements, arguments, fights, whatever the hell you want to call it. I've only been here a very short period of time since my last absence and I know of 4 in about a 3 week period.
>
> This does not feel like a safe place or a place of support to me anymore. I can't stand all this strife, it does not help my mental health whatsoever.
>
> WILL IT EVER STOP?
>
> I don't even know what to say anymore, should I stay, should I go, neither option is appealing to me but I know I can't handle all this constant strife. It only makes me worse. I'm already starting to mildly lash out.
>
> Right now I need a friend who can hold me and comfort me. Not all this f*cking sh*t!!!
>
> I think I'm just going to log off and cry.
>
> AG (who is now spiralling down REALLY fast because of all this sh*t).
Posted by Angielala on February 2, 2005, at 12:57:37
In reply to STOP IT!!! I CAN'T TAKE THIS ANYMORE!!!, posted by Angel Girl on February 2, 2005, at 4:14:12
AG-
This is affecting you way too personally. These are just internet boards- it's not the end of the world. try to take it easy and stop taking this as a personal attack.
> Why must there be constant bickering, disagreements, arguments, fights, whatever the hell you want to call it. I've only been here a very short period of time since my last absence and I know of 4 in about a 3 week period.
>
> This does not feel like a safe place or a place of support to me anymore. I can't stand all this strife, it does not help my mental health whatsoever.
>
> WILL IT EVER STOP?
>
> I don't even know what to say anymore, should I stay, should I go, neither option is appealing to me but I know I can't handle all this constant strife. It only makes me worse. I'm already starting to mildly lash out.
>
> Right now I need a friend who can hold me and comfort me. Not all this f*cking sh*t!!!
>
> I think I'm just going to log off and cry.
>
> AG (who is now spiralling down REALLY fast because of all this sh*t).
Posted by Angielala on February 2, 2005, at 13:00:24
In reply to STOP IT!!! I CAN'T TAKE THIS ANYMORE!!!, posted by Angel Girl on February 2, 2005, at 4:14:12
Let's ignore all this stuff that's upsetting...
What is going on in your life?
You need a friend? I can be your friend if you would let me- I bet I can even make you laugh if you give me a chance...
what's up?
Posted by Angel Girl on February 2, 2005, at 13:26:05
In reply to Re: (((((((((((((Angel Girl)))))))))))))), posted by 64bowtie on February 2, 2005, at 11:36:20
> (sure wish I knew how to type gooder)
>
> RodYou're so sweet Rod. Thanks for understanding my frustration.
AG
Posted by Angel Girl on February 2, 2005, at 13:29:10
In reply to Re: STOP IT!!! I CAN'T TAKE THIS ANYMORE!!! » Angel Girl, posted by Fallen4MyT on February 2, 2005, at 12:34:32
Truer words have never been spoken. This is not the first time I have felt that there are favourites on this site.
AG
> AG sorry but experience has taught me what you see is what you will get and you can read years back in the archives and read the same thinngs. When the new boards come on the hidden and locked to many ones you will see the same. Not a good place to many unless youre in favor with the doc
>
>
> > Why must there be constant bickering, disagreements, arguments, fights, whatever the hell you want to call it. I've only been here a very short period of time since my last absence and I know of 4 in about a 3 week period.
> >
> > This does not feel like a safe place or a place of support to me anymore. I can't stand all this strife, it does not help my mental health whatsoever.
> >
> > WILL IT EVER STOP?
> >
> > I don't even know what to say anymore, should I stay, should I go, neither option is appealing to me but I know I can't handle all this constant strife. It only makes me worse. I'm already starting to mildly lash out.
> >
> > Right now I need a friend who can hold me and comfort me. Not all this f*cking sh*t!!!
> >
> > I think I'm just going to log off and cry.
> >
> > AG (who is now spiralling down REALLY fast because of all this sh*t).
>
>
Posted by Angel Girl on February 2, 2005, at 13:30:49
In reply to Re: STOP IT!!! I CAN'T TAKE THIS ANYMORE!!!, posted by Angielala on February 2, 2005, at 12:57:37
Please don't presume anything about me. I don't take kindly to that.
AG
> AG-
>
> This is affecting you way too personally. These are just internet boards- it's not the end of the world. try to take it easy and stop taking this as a personal attack.
>
> > Why must there be constant bickering, disagreements, arguments, fights, whatever the hell you want to call it. I've only been here a very short period of time since my last absence and I know of 4 in about a 3 week period.
> >
> > This does not feel like a safe place or a place of support to me anymore. I can't stand all this strife, it does not help my mental health whatsoever.
> >
> > WILL IT EVER STOP?
> >
> > I don't even know what to say anymore, should I stay, should I go, neither option is appealing to me but I know I can't handle all this constant strife. It only makes me worse. I'm already starting to mildly lash out.
> >
> > Right now I need a friend who can hold me and comfort me. Not all this f*cking sh*t!!!
> >
> > I think I'm just going to log off and cry.
> >
> > AG (who is now spiralling down REALLY fast because of all this sh*t).
>
>
Posted by Angielala on February 2, 2005, at 13:33:39
In reply to Re: STOP IT!!! I CAN'T TAKE THIS ANYMORE!!! » Angielala, posted by Angel Girl on February 2, 2005, at 13:30:49
Oh no- I'm sorry... I didn't realize that I was presuming, I'm an a$$
> Please don't presume anything about me. I don't take kindly to that.
>
> AG
>
>
> > AG-
> >
> > This is affecting you way too personally. These are just internet boards- it's not the end of the world. try to take it easy and stop taking this as a personal attack.
> >
> > > Why must there be constant bickering, disagreements, arguments, fights, whatever the hell you want to call it. I've only been here a very short period of time since my last absence and I know of 4 in about a 3 week period.
> > >
> > > This does not feel like a safe place or a place of support to me anymore. I can't stand all this strife, it does not help my mental health whatsoever.
> > >
> > > WILL IT EVER STOP?
> > >
> > > I don't even know what to say anymore, should I stay, should I go, neither option is appealing to me but I know I can't handle all this constant strife. It only makes me worse. I'm already starting to mildly lash out.
> > >
> > > Right now I need a friend who can hold me and comfort me. Not all this f*cking sh*t!!!
> > >
> > > I think I'm just going to log off and cry.
> > >
> > > AG (who is now spiralling down REALLY fast because of all this sh*t).
> >
> >
>
>
Posted by Angel Girl on February 2, 2005, at 13:34:05
In reply to Other than all that...., posted by Angielala on February 2, 2005, at 13:00:24
It's a littler hard to ignore something that is so blatant. You want me to ignore it now because you've already said all that you want? I think I should have an opportunity to respond should I choose to.
My life sucks, that's what's going on with my life.
AG
> Let's ignore all this stuff that's upsetting...
>
> What is going on in your life?
>
> You need a friend? I can be your friend if you would let me- I bet I can even make you laugh if you give me a chance...
>
> what's up?
Posted by Angel Girl on February 2, 2005, at 13:49:21
In reply to Re: STOP IT!!! I CAN'T TAKE THIS ANYMORE!!!, posted by Angielala on February 2, 2005, at 13:33:39
You're not an *ss. I would never call you that nor would I think that. I just don't like anybody to presume anything about me. I've already felt second-guessed by another poster a couple of days ago and I felt aggravated by that as well. I'm sorry, I just like to see things being treated fairly and IMHO I wasn't seeing that. I acknowledge that you were hurt and treated in a way that you didn't like but things were said by somebody, don't remember who, that affected the level of safety I felt at pc. That bothered me. I want to feel safe on a psych forum, that's why I went to pc to begin with, because I no longer felt safe here and still don't because nothing has changed, in fact, I find out today that it has happened again but this time not involving me. I have a hard time sitting back and not involving myself when I see injustice. I'm sorry, my BP does that. Before I got sick, I avoided confrontations at all costs, they just weren't me, I was the peacemaker. BP has changed me. It also bothered me a LOT to have threads from pc brought over here and private PMs. That is very unnerving to me. I don't know whether you can understand my viewpoint or not.
AG
> Oh no- I'm sorry... I didn't realize that I was presuming, I'm an a$$
>
>
>
> > Please don't presume anything about me. I don't take kindly to that.
> >
> > AG
Posted by Angielala on February 2, 2005, at 14:29:38
In reply to Re: Other than all that.... » Angielala, posted by Angel Girl on February 2, 2005, at 13:34:05
Look- you have saud that you are irritated because of a hypo, right? Then PLEASE stop attacking me!
I want to ignore this because you are attacking ME now.
Perhaps I should leave this board for a few days- geesh, I go to connect with people and I get attacked on two boards now.
> It's a littler hard to ignore something that is so blatant. You want me to ignore it now because you've already said all that you want? I think I should have an opportunity to respond should I choose to.
>
> My life sucks, that's what's going on with my life.
>
> AG
>
>
> > Let's ignore all this stuff that's upsetting...
> >
> > What is going on in your life?
> >
> > You need a friend? I can be your friend if you would let me- I bet I can even make you laugh if you give me a chance...
> >
> > what's up?
>
>
Posted by Angielala on February 2, 2005, at 14:31:15
In reply to Re: STOP IT!!! I CAN'T TAKE THIS ANYMORE!!! » Angielala, posted by Angel Girl on February 2, 2005, at 13:49:21
You are now making me feel uncomfortable because of something that didn't even happen on this board. Will you please stop it? I need help, just like you, and would appreciate it if you would drop things. Nothing is going to change- I don't know why you keep bringing stuff up.
> You're not an *ss. I would never call you that nor would I think that. I just don't like anybody to presume anything about me. I've already felt second-guessed by another poster a couple of days ago and I felt aggravated by that as well. I'm sorry, I just like to see things being treated fairly and IMHO I wasn't seeing that. I acknowledge that you were hurt and treated in a way that you didn't like but things were said by somebody, don't remember who, that affected the level of safety I felt at pc. That bothered me. I want to feel safe on a psych forum, that's why I went to pc to begin with, because I no longer felt safe here and still don't because nothing has changed, in fact, I find out today that it has happened again but this time not involving me. I have a hard time sitting back and not involving myself when I see injustice. I'm sorry, my BP does that. Before I got sick, I avoided confrontations at all costs, they just weren't me, I was the peacemaker. BP has changed me. It also bothered me a LOT to have threads from pc brought over here and private PMs. That is very unnerving to me. I don't know whether you can understand my viewpoint or not.
>
> AG
>
>
>
>
> > Oh no- I'm sorry... I didn't realize that I was presuming, I'm an a$$
> >
> >
> >
> > > Please don't presume anything about me. I don't take kindly to that.
> > >
> > > AG
>
Posted by Angel Girl on February 2, 2005, at 15:52:45
In reply to Re: Other than all that...., posted by Angielala on February 2, 2005, at 14:29:38
I'm sorry that you have interpretted my comments as a personal attack on you. That is certainly not what I'm doing. There is no reason for you to leave this site. I just feel that if somebody is going to post something in an open forum, then anybody has the right to respond to that post and that is simply what I've done. It is by no means meant to be a personal attack on you. Again, I'm sorry that was your interpretation. Oh, but please don't assume that I am attacking you because I am hypomanic. I feel discriminated against. :(
AG
> Look- you have saud that you are irritated because of a hypo, right? Then PLEASE stop attacking me!
>
> I want to ignore this because you are attacking ME now.
>
> Perhaps I should leave this board for a few days- geesh, I go to connect with people and I get attacked on two boards now.
>
> > It's a littler hard to ignore something that is so blatant. You want me to ignore it now because you've already said all that you want? I think I should have an opportunity to respond should I choose to.
> >
> > My life sucks, that's what's going on with my life.
> >
> > AG
> >
> >
> > > Let's ignore all this stuff that's upsetting...
> > >
> > > What is going on in your life?
> > >
> > > You need a friend? I can be your friend if you would let me- I bet I can even make you laugh if you give me a chance...
> > >
> > > what's up?
> >
> >
>
>
Posted by gardenergirl on February 2, 2005, at 15:53:27
In reply to Re: STOP IT!!! I CAN'T TAKE THIS ANYMORE!!!, posted by Angielala on February 2, 2005, at 14:31:15
In the grand scheme of things, I think this will rate on the low end of the scale in time.
Deep breaths, folks. Just keep breathing and keep on being.
I care about you all.
gg
Posted by Angel Girl on February 2, 2005, at 15:59:32
In reply to Re: STOP IT!!! I CAN'T TAKE THIS ANYMORE!!!, posted by Angielala on February 2, 2005, at 14:31:15
I"m sorry if you feel that I'm making you feel uncomfortable. I'm only talking about it on this site because you brought it to this site. I was simply responding your posts as I encountered them, I'm not going into old posts and even that I've been told is very acceptable.
I would request that you not post to me any longer ever and I will extend to you the same courtesy. I'm sorry if my replies have felt like personal attacks, they were never meant to be that, I was only responding to your comments, not to you as a person, in fact, I've done quite the opposite of my comments to you as a person. Obviously, you're upset and so am I so, we will agree to leave it here. I won't ever been posting to you in the future, please extend to me the same courtesy. I wish you and your baby well.
AG
> You are now making me feel uncomfortable because of something that didn't even happen on this board. Will you please stop it? I need help, just like you, and would appreciate it if you would drop things. Nothing is going to change- I don't know why you keep bringing stuff up.
>
> > You're not an *ss. I would never call you that nor would I think that. I just don't like anybody to presume anything about me. I've already felt second-guessed by another poster a couple of days ago and I felt aggravated by that as well. I'm sorry, I just like to see things being treated fairly and IMHO I wasn't seeing that. I acknowledge that you were hurt and treated in a way that you didn't like but things were said by somebody, don't remember who, that affected the level of safety I felt at pc. That bothered me. I want to feel safe on a psych forum, that's why I went to pc to begin with, because I no longer felt safe here and still don't because nothing has changed, in fact, I find out today that it has happened again but this time not involving me. I have a hard time sitting back and not involving myself when I see injustice. I'm sorry, my BP does that. Before I got sick, I avoided confrontations at all costs, they just weren't me, I was the peacemaker. BP has changed me. It also bothered me a LOT to have threads from pc brought over here and private PMs. That is very unnerving to me. I don't know whether you can understand my viewpoint or not.
> >
> > AG
> >
> >
> >
> >
> > > Oh no- I'm sorry... I didn't realize that I was presuming, I'm an a$$
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > > > Please don't presume anything about me. I don't take kindly to that.
> > > >
> > > > AG
> >
>
>
Posted by Dr. Bob on February 2, 2005, at 23:02:28
In reply to Re: Other than all that...., posted by Angielala on February 2, 2005, at 14:29:38
> You want me to ignore it now because you've already said all that you want?
>
> AG> PLEASE stop attacking me!
>
> you are attacking ME now.
>
> AngielalaPlease don't post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down.
If you or others have questions about this or about posting policies in general, or are interested in alternative ways of expressing yourself, please see the FAQ:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
Follow-ups regarding these issues should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Administration. They, as well as replies to the above posts, should of course themselves be civil.
Thanks,
Bob
Posted by Angielala on February 3, 2005, at 9:02:54
In reply to Re: please be civil » Angel Girl » Angielala, posted by Dr. Bob on February 2, 2005, at 23:02:28
I'm sorry Dr. Bob- I will do my best to follow the guidlines. As for this issue, it's been put to bed.
> > You want me to ignore it now because you've already said all that you want?
> >
> > AG
>
> > PLEASE stop attacking me!
> >
> > you are attacking ME now.
> >
> > Angielala
>
> Please don't post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down.
>
> If you or others have questions about this or about posting policies in general, or are interested in alternative ways of expressing yourself, please see the FAQ:
>
> http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
>
> Follow-ups regarding these issues should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Administration. They, as well as replies to the above posts, should of course themselves be civil.
>
> Thanks,
>
> Bob
Posted by Dr. Bob on February 4, 2005, at 8:43:22
In reply to Re: please be civil, posted by Angielala on February 3, 2005, at 9:02:54
Posted by trucker on February 4, 2005, at 10:00:38
In reply to Re: Other than all that.... » Angielala, posted by Angel Girl on February 2, 2005, at 13:34:05
AG i truely hope that you have someone to hug you and help you thru this rough time in your life.. just remember one thing.. there are no oops's in CHRIST, the LORD don't make no junk.. hopefully that can help you thru some of this stuff.
trucker
////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////> It's a littler hard to ignore something that is so blatant. You want me to ignore it now because you've already said all that you want? I think I should have an opportunity to respond should I choose to.
>
> My life sucks, that's what's going on with my life.
>
> AG
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