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Posted by syringachalet on January 12, 2003, at 22:29:55
In reply to Photos or not............., posted by kath on January 12, 2003, at 14:16:03
Hello Kath,
In the short time I have been posting here at PSB, I have shared ideas and experiences that were at the time not preceived as I had entended them to be.
Each of us comes here with our own lives and stories and needs. Even though I am sometimes asked for my best medical or life experience advice in my face-to-face work/personal life, I also know that I can only truly know what worked(or didnt work) for me in a similar situation.
Attempting to show genunine caring can be viewed as put-down or Mr. Spock type behavior.
I have been both the giver and the reciever to this myself. Depending on the frame of mind I am in at the time often determines would or if I accept or even consider it.As for the photos, I think that if you feel Ok about sharing a few photos thats fine. I also think the key word would be discretion. To have have 10 or more might make you vulnerable to people who might be judgmental or unkind and wonder what your intentions were.
Again, a matter of personal choice..
click or not...
syringachalet
Posted by bluedog on January 13, 2003, at 8:10:24
In reply to Re:No, no, no, Bluedog. - Dr.Bob, posted by kath on January 12, 2003, at 14:13:51
> Now I'm all paranoid that Bluedog will never come back & see all the supportive posts!!!!!!!!!!!
>
> KathHello Kath, you can stop being paranoid now!!!!
I had been avoiding this board for a few days because I was VERY worried that I'd have more attacks against me. Anyway, after taking ten very deep breaths (and 5mg of Valium) I took the step of logging on and I am warmed by all the supportive posts directed at me.
I suppose a little time out has made me see things a little clearer and I would like to thank you all Dinah, Kam, Kath, Phil, Noa, Dreamerz etc. If I've missed anyone please get DR Bob to PBC me.
Were all so extremely human and on this board we are all a WEE bit more sensitive than those out in the general population.
TO kid a and alii in particular I hope that you will hold no grudges against me when you return from "the sandbox" [is that an ice hockey term????? Phil uses this term all the time and seems to spend quite a bit of time there. I'm from Australia so I wouldn't have a clue :) ] and that over time we will also get to understand eachother better and build up our own histories together on this board. I would really like that!!!!!.
For the rest I will be quiet on the posting front for a while.....not because I've left the board but because I've just returned to work (AGAIN) and need to spend all my energy on getting used to being at work full time again.
VERY WARM REGARDS TO YOU ALL
bluedog
Posted by NikkiT2 on January 13, 2003, at 9:25:27
In reply to To ALL including kid a and alii » kath, posted by bluedog on January 13, 2003, at 8:10:24
Hi Bluedog :o)
Its great that you've come back.. believe me when I say just about all of us have said good bye and have then come back.. no one iwll hold it against you.
I am very pleased you're back..
Nikki xx
Posted by syringachalet on January 13, 2003, at 9:40:18
In reply to YAY!! You're back!! » bluedog, posted by NikkiT2 on January 13, 2003, at 9:25:27
Hey, Blue,
You are my good buddy and if anyone gives you any grief, I will run them over with my w/c!!! (just kidding).
Seriously, I have come to enjoy not only your interesting and at time entertaining posts and who better to give true gutt advice than one who has...been there, done that, & burn the T-shirt....
but can you get Dr. Bob to dance on the table tops in his Speedo suit??( No tassles required) LMAO
syringachalet
Posted by bluedog on January 13, 2003, at 9:50:12
In reply to YAY!! You're back!! » bluedog, posted by NikkiT2 on January 13, 2003, at 9:25:27
> Hi Bluedog :o)
>
> Its great that you've come back.. believe me when I say just about all of us have said good bye and have then come back.. no one iwll hold it against you.
>
> I am very pleased you're back..
>
> Nikki xxYour gorgeous nikki
Now I REALLY am going to bed and I will sleep a lot more peacefully than over the last couple of nights
Thank you
love bluedog
Posted by bluedog on January 13, 2003, at 9:57:10
In reply to Re: YAY!! You're back!!, posted by syringachalet on January 13, 2003, at 9:40:18
> Hey, Blue,
>
> You are my good buddy and if anyone gives you any grief, I will run them over with my w/c!!! (just kidding).
>
> Seriously, I have come to enjoy not only your interesting and at time entertaining posts and who better to give true gutt advice than one who has...been there, done that, & burn the T-shirt....
>
> but can you get Dr. Bob to dance on the table tops in his Speedo suit??( No tassles required) LMAO
>
> syringachaletNo sooner had I finished responding to Nikki than up pops a post from you.
I will repeat my message to nikki to you with the addition of an extra REALLY. I will refuse to hit the refresh button again until tommorrow because at this rate I will never get to bed.
Your gorgeous syringachalet
Now I REALLY, REAllY am going to bed and I will sleep a lot more peacefully than over the last couple of nights
Thank you
love bluedog
Posted by Noa on January 13, 2003, at 18:58:25
In reply to Re: YAY!! You're back!! » syringachalet, posted by bluedog on January 13, 2003, at 9:57:10
Yes, welcome back, blue.
Posted by Phil on January 13, 2003, at 21:25:06
In reply to Re: YAY!! You're back!!, posted by Noa on January 13, 2003, at 18:58:25
Hey bluedog, welcome back.
Posted by Kam on January 14, 2003, at 7:18:03
In reply to To ALL including kid a and alii » kath, posted by bluedog on January 13, 2003, at 8:10:24
Great to see you back and I hope you did finally get a good nights sleep !!!
the newbee on the board,
Kam!
Posted by Dinah on January 14, 2003, at 9:37:03
In reply to Re: To ALL including kid a and alii, posted by Kam on January 14, 2003, at 7:18:03
Posted by Jonathan on January 14, 2003, at 19:42:31
In reply to To ALL including kid a and alii » kath, posted by bluedog on January 13, 2003, at 8:10:24
Posted by gabbix2 on January 14, 2003, at 23:22:26
In reply to I'm glad you came back (nm) » bluedog, posted by Jonathan on January 14, 2003, at 19:42:31
Bluedog, I've not posted much at all lately but still read many, and I like yours, glad you came back :)
Posted by gabbix2 on January 14, 2003, at 23:22:35
In reply to I'm glad you came back (nm) » bluedog, posted by Jonathan on January 14, 2003, at 19:42:31
Bluedog, I've not posted much at all lately but still read many, and I like yours, glad you came back :)
Posted by shar on January 15, 2003, at 0:22:28
In reply to Re: I'm glad you came back x2 : ), posted by gabbix2 on January 14, 2003, at 23:22:35
So, G, are you double-posting to make up for lost time?
(That is a joking, kidding remark, not meant to offend, in case anyone wonders. See, G has a history of....oh, well, never mind, I'll just get in trouble...)
9-) that's with broken glasses
Shar
> Bluedog, I've not posted much at all lately but still read many, and I like yours, glad you came back :)
Posted by kath on January 15, 2003, at 18:16:08
In reply to To ALL including kid a and alii » kath, posted by bluedog on January 13, 2003, at 8:10:24
Thanks for 'unparanoiding' me!!! LOL
I join in the "YAAAYYYYYYYY"s
Best of luck at your job & thanks for letting us know about it.
:-) Kath
> > Now I'm all paranoid that Bluedog will never come back & see all the supportive posts!!!!!!!!!!!
> >
> > Kath
>
> Hello Kath, you can stop being paranoid now!!!!
>
> I had been avoiding this board for a few days because I was VERY worried that I'd have more attacks against me. Anyway, after taking ten very deep breaths (and 5mg of Valium) I took the step of logging on and I am warmed by all the supportive posts directed at me.
>
> I suppose a little time out has made me see things a little clearer and I would like to thank you all Dinah, Kam, Kath, Phil, Noa, Dreamerz etc. If I've missed anyone please get DR Bob to PBC me.
>
> Were all so extremely human and on this board we are all a WEE bit more sensitive than those out in the general population.
>
> TO kid a and alii in particular I hope that you will hold no grudges against me when you return from "the sandbox" [is that an ice hockey term????? Phil uses this term all the time and seems to spend quite a bit of time there. I'm from Australia so I wouldn't have a clue :) ] and that over time we will also get to understand eachother better and build up our own histories together on this board. I would really like that!!!!!.
>
> For the rest I will be quiet on the posting front for a while.....not because I've left the board but because I've just returned to work (AGAIN) and need to spend all my energy on getting used to being at work full time again.
>
> VERY WARM REGARDS TO YOU ALL
> bluedog
>
>
>
>
Posted by kath on January 15, 2003, at 18:22:17
In reply to Re: YAY!! You're back!!, posted by syringachalet on January 13, 2003, at 9:40:18
What's doing the running over?
Your: witch-chair? winter-convertiable?
water-conveyor? white-Capri? wretched-cart?
wired-contraption? wilted-candelabra?
wanton-countrygirl? ????????
Any other suggestions as to what it might be, anyone?
KathPS - excuse me - I'm a mite silly from time to time & a certified (or certifiable) word-lover!
> Hey, Blue,
>
> You are my good buddy and if anyone gives you any grief, I will run them over with my w/c!!! (just kidding).
>
> Seriously, I have come to enjoy not only your interesting and at time entertaining posts and who better to give true gutt advice than one who has...been there, done that, & burn the T-shirt....
>
> but can you get Dr. Bob to dance on the table tops in his Speedo suit??( No tassles required) LMAO
>
> syringachalet
Posted by syringachalet on January 15, 2003, at 20:14:05
In reply to Re: YAY!! You're back!! - w/c???????? » syringachalet, posted by kath on January 15, 2003, at 18:22:17
Hey, kath...you are such a hoot!!
I have MS and use a w/c = electric wheelchair to get around. The "politically correct" term is mobility chair but I just cut that to w/c...sorry. I forgot my audience...LMAO
syringachalet
Posted by Noa on January 16, 2003, at 5:48:51
In reply to Re: YAY!! You're back!! - w/c???????? » syringachalet, posted by kath on January 15, 2003, at 18:22:17
Syringe and Kath--
I kind of liked "witch chair", per Kath's list of possibilities for w/c. :- ) I imagine if I used a w/c, I'd like to call it that from time to time. Kind of has an air of power!
Syringe, I was actually feeling quite proud of myself for figuring out what w/c stand for, having seen an earlier post of yours saying you had MS. You don't mind me patting myself on the back for that, do you?
Interesting how the new term is mobility chair and not wheel chair--it does still have wheels, right? Although maybe it is in anticipation of technology to come in the future that might move beyond wheels?
I imagine that what ever term is used colloquially by the people who use the chairs is probably the best term, unless there is a kind of in-group and out-group language thing. Any thoughts?
Posted by syringachalet on January 16, 2003, at 6:31:26
In reply to Re: YAY!! You're back!! - w/c????????, posted by Noa on January 16, 2003, at 5:48:51
Dear Noa,
I am guilty for sometimes forgetting who I am talking to and can really blow it!!
Yes, it still has wheels and its how I get
around and live my life.
That is the reason the people I socialize
with call it MC..mobility chair. Funky,huh?!LOLThis because it has become the just part of
the venicular of those who work with and part of the "handicapped" or now "physically challenged".Once my husband and I went to a church function and this well-meaning lady asked my husband if I needed a glass of punch with a lid or to be fed...
My hubby turned to me and smiled and asked if i needed a a lid for my glass of punch or needed to be fed..
I smiled back and said loud enough for this woman to hear.." No, hun, but it might be a little kinky just to try...you first..." LMAOThat woman was embarassed enough that her actions made it known that I might be a little off from the neck down, but from the neck up Im just a crazy as everyone else!!!
Have a Great Day!!!
syringachalet
Posted by gabbix2 on January 18, 2003, at 19:16:59
In reply to Re: I'm glad you came back x2 : ) » gabbix2, posted by shar on January 15, 2003, at 0:22:28
You just make me laugh and laugh,
and you know, I never ever post twice on purpose.Oh that subject heading I put welcome back x2 with no intention of posting twice...
I can't blame it on medication either.
These are the kinds of things that kept me from working in the nice normal atmosphere my Dad wanted me too, you know, like being a secretary or something
Much fondness
GG
Posted by gabbix2 on January 18, 2003, at 19:17:00
In reply to Re: I'm glad you came back x2 : ) » gabbix2, posted by shar on January 15, 2003, at 0:22:28
You just make me laugh and laugh,
and you know, I never ever post twice on purpose.Oh that subject heading I put welcome back x2 with no intention of posting twice...
I can't blame it on medication either.
These are the kinds of things that kept me from working in the nice normal atmosphere my Dad wanted me too, you know, like being a secretary or something
Much fondness
GG
Posted by gabbix2 on January 18, 2003, at 19:17:04
In reply to Re: I'm glad you came back x2 : ) » gabbix2, posted by shar on January 15, 2003, at 0:22:28
You just make me laugh and laugh,
and you know, I never ever post twice on purpose.Oh that subject heading I put welcome back x2 with no intention of posting twice...
I can't blame it on medication either.
These are the kinds of things that kept me from working in the nice normal atmosphere my Dad wanted me too, you know, like being a secretary or something
Much fondness
GG
Posted by gabbix2 on January 18, 2003, at 23:02:29
In reply to Re: I'm glad you came back x2 : ) Shar.., posted by gabbix2 on January 18, 2003, at 19:17:04
testing
Posted by shar on January 19, 2003, at 2:24:51
In reply to no way that was not me^^^ its got to be my compute, posted by gabbix2 on January 18, 2003, at 23:02:29
nice save, G.
Shar
8-D
Posted by IsoM on January 19, 2003, at 3:13:17
In reply to no way that was not me^^^ its got to be my compute, posted by gabbix2 on January 18, 2003, at 23:02:29
I thought you'd like to hear about my unique computer skills, Gabbi. I can screw up a program better than anyone I know.
I took a full semester of computer science courses, thinking I might go into that field. I found I'd rather shoot myself in the foot than sit in front of a computer all day. But I did have a unique skill. During practical classes, I'd be constantly calling over the prof or a class-assigned assistant asking for help. They'd start to help, then peer closer at what I'd done & ask "How did you manage to do THAT??!!" I told them if I knew how then I'd fix it myself. I goofed up in ways they'd never seen before.
The amazing thing is the assistant to the head of the computer department asked if I'd like a part-time job acting as class assistant!! I said "With the way I screw up things?" She figured I must be familiar with almost everything that could possibly go wrong. Maybe I was, but it still didn't mean I'd knew how to fix it.
Ah, but at least I don't double post. ^_*
I bet you have a dial-up modem & slow connection & it contributes to your posts getting doubled.
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