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Posted by becksA on February 16, 2007, at 23:38:58
I cannot understand this girl. I have known her forever....have never really told her how deeply I feel for her until the past couple months, when we've been talking on the phone several times a week and sending emails. However, I'm going off to finish college in Florida, and she lives in Cleveland. I have a very strong feeling that she may be "the one" and I know she feels very strongly about me as well. However for some reason she says everything but the kitchen sink about how I'll probably meet somebody down there while I'm at school, I'll probably move somewhwere far away when I'm done....etc. Why won't she give this a chance if she knows that we BOTH know we may be meant to spend the rest of our lives together? It's very depressing...what can I say, do....
Please help!
Posted by Jo U.K on February 17, 2007, at 4:49:49
In reply to She likes me...but doesn't want to? PLZ HELP, posted by becksA on February 16, 2007, at 23:38:58
Hmmmm, sounds like you're both ducking and diving around what you really want to say!
Maybe she's trying to get you to declare your feelings? Why dont you try and tell her how you feel? You'll never know unless you tell her.
Good luck
Jo
Posted by becksA on February 17, 2007, at 7:35:30
In reply to Re: She likes me...but doesn't want to? PLZ HELP, posted by Jo U.K on February 17, 2007, at 4:49:49
I already have...that's what I don't get. See I haven't seen her in over a year (we used to go to University together), but we talk nonstop. She says I couldnt possible like somebody this much that I haven't seen or been around that long. I say that's just another excuse. Is she afraid? Because she's the last person I would see being afraid to commit. All of her boyfriends in the past have been very serious long relationships....2, 3 years etc. It's very frustrating when she keeps saying I don't really feel the way I do! I'm working on it though. I told her she's the type that if I let go I'll regret and think about her the rest of my life.
Posted by jo.uk on February 18, 2007, at 3:24:10
In reply to Re: She likes me...but doesn't want to? PLZ HELP, posted by becksA on February 17, 2007, at 7:35:30
Yes maybe you're right, she could be afraid. Just because she's had long term relationships before doesnt necessarily mean that she's always looking to start the same thing again. If those previous relationships were upsetting to her when they ended then she could well be nervous about starting a new one. Especially as you two seem like such good friends. She may be nervous about spoiling that. Maybe she's not keen on having another very serious relationship right now.
Could you possibly meet up with her?
Jo
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