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Posted by Crazy Horse on August 1, 2006, at 8:12:36
In reply to Re: Look what I took in my last job interview, posted by tepiaca on July 29, 2006, at 22:58:17
>
> Yes I am better , I am even dating a beautiful
> girl. Oh she is gorgeous !. She complain about
> Im a litle quiet, andI told her Im sorry,
> that is the way I am. I Just talk alot when go
> to a party an drink , and she says, you see
> I want you to be like this. And I think oh noo
> now what am I supossed to do? . My old girl
> accept me as I was , she still tell me that
> loves me. this is rare. some months ago she was
> dating other men, but now she says he has realized she wanna be with me forever. She is an angel. Life is rare , I dont know what to do now.
> This new girl is cutier , but I bet she will not give as much love as my last girl. Anyway I feel good dating new girls.
>
> And I m very complicated stubborn guy. Sorry
> Crazy Monte. When its about meds I am not that
> carzy , I go very slow, dont knwo why. I usually
> do changes in long periods. it part of my perso
> nality a Think. I know you and ace get desperated
> when u tell me to increase the dose and I dont do
> it.I am just a very careful personbut at the same
> time stupid cause I feel bad.
> you know Im a rare person. that why Im on meds
>
> Im better eddy dec , there is no doubt. Xanax
> was the key.
>
> tepSorry, i do get a little frustrated with you because i like you and want you to get better..but i understand Tepi. Please forgive me if i hurt your feelings in any way...i really do care about you and want the best for you. I can tell you are one very nice/cool guy Tep :)
BTW, i would go back to your Old girfriend...justs sounds like she has unconditional love for you-she sounds better for you..just my opinion bud. :)your friend,
Monte
Posted by ed_uk on August 1, 2006, at 8:12:36
In reply to Re: Look what I took in my last job interview, posted by tepiaca on July 29, 2006, at 22:58:17
Hey Tepi, a new girlfriend! This is a good sign indeed :)
Ed
Posted by Declan on August 1, 2006, at 8:12:36
In reply to Re: Look what I took in my last job interview, posted by tepiaca on July 29, 2006, at 22:58:17
You seem very sweet, Tep, and I'm not surprised your old girl still loves you.
If we can find something true and lovely inside us, and keep it alive, then we'll be OK.
But it can be hard, almost impossible sometimes.
Posted by Tepiaca on August 1, 2006, at 8:12:36
In reply to Re: Look what I took in my last job interview, posted by Crazy Horse on July 30, 2006, at 8:47:56
> >
> > >
> Sorry, i do get a little frustrated with you because i like you and want you to get better..but i understand Tepi. Please forgive me if i hurt your feelings in any wayno hurt here =) . just get worried a little cause of my SP that maybe you r gonna get tired of me
...i really do care about you and want the best for you. I can tell you are one very nice/cool guy Tep :)
Thanks !!!! :)
> BTW, i would go back to your Old girfriend...justs sounds like she has unconditional love for you-she sounds better for you..just my opinion bud. :)
>
Yeah unconditional love. I know , I would get
bakc with here too . Im just too worried not be
able to make her happy . But if she loves, if Im with here she is gonna be happy rigth? . And most
important, do I really love? . I dont know if
a person with a mental illnes can fall in love, this thing is driving me crazy and I told her this a lot of times. She always was telling me very worried , please ask your friends of that site , the ones that are married if they feel love for their wives. Now she dont care that. I wanna fall in love. But what is love is chemical issue????
> your friend,
>
> Monte
Posted by Tepiaca on August 1, 2006, at 8:12:36
In reply to Re: Look what I took in my last job interview » tepiaca, posted by ed_uk on July 30, 2006, at 9:51:45
> Hey Tepi, a new girlfriend! This is a good sign indeed :)
>
> EdNo more new girlfriend since yesterday :( .
She said I was a very insecure person and she is
looking for other kind of man for her.Ey but listen, I started this "relationship"
when she told me she has just arrive from vacations in a boat , ship . you know , urggggh!!
that enormous thing like the titanic. ( I hate when I forget soemthing) . And guess what she
told me, she told me , I kissed two different
boys in one week onboard that ship . And I said
what ???? 2 men in less than a week ? what kind
of woman is her?? I thought. Is she a whore or
what. then I think well at least she is being
honest with me. But that thing make me feel so
unsecure yeah. Everytime I saw her with a man I
was remembering what she told me and I got very
jealous.
Do you think Im normal? please be honest
Posted by Tepiaca on August 1, 2006, at 8:12:37
In reply to Re: Look what I took in my last job interview » tepiaca, posted by Declan on July 31, 2006, at 2:04:10
> You seem very sweet, Tep, and I'm not surprised your old girl still loves you.
> If we can find something true and lovely inside us, and keep it alive, then we'll be OK.
> But it can be hard, almost impossible sometimes.Hi dec
do you think ill people like me can fall in love?
I wanna love my old girl but I dont know if I can.
Posted by Declan on August 1, 2006, at 8:12:37
In reply to Re: Look what I took in my last job interview » Crazy Horse, posted by Tepiaca on July 31, 2006, at 15:23:49
Just about everyone falls in love. Of course you (Tepi) can really love. But feelings are liable to change and you might fall out of love. It's never (for me) something I can hang on to. It's a challenge to find the right people we can live with and love. Over time you may have to reinvent yourself. Even if you don't feel passion you can be kind.
Posted by Phillipa on August 1, 2006, at 21:57:52
In reply to Re: Look what I took in my last job interview, posted by Declan on July 31, 2006, at 20:10:11
Tepi you're old girlfriend in the picture you sent me looks like beautiful person inside and out and you are a very handsome man. Think of the beautiful babies you two would produce together. But it's you're choice. Love Phillipa
Posted by llrrrpp on August 1, 2006, at 23:50:52
In reply to Re: Look what I took in my last job interview, posted by Phillipa on August 1, 2006, at 21:57:52
hi Tepi,
nice to meet you :)I fell in love with my husband when I was 'healthy' and continued to love him during some severe depression this spring, but it was different. It was like I "knew" I loved him, but I didn't feel the love. Don't know if that makes sense. Then, when my stupid brain chemicals started to correct themselves, one of the first things I noticed was that I 'felt' the love. passion, and need, and longing, and lust. all the good stuff. It was amazing.
Don't give up on love just because you can't 'feel' it right now. You will know love, even when you can't experience it 100%. You do the best you can, and wish that your lover accepts that you may have some rough patches in your life.
I've been married for 5 years, and had 2 depressions during my relationship. and we're doing okay. better than okay, because making it through this is a sign of deep commitment.
-ll
Posted by Tepiaca on August 2, 2006, at 11:33:04
In reply to Re: Look what I took in my last job interview, posted by Phillipa on August 1, 2006, at 21:57:52
> Tepi you're old girlfriend in the picture you sent me looks like beautiful person inside and out and you are a very handsome man. Think of the beautiful babies you two would produce together. But it's you're choice. Love Phillipa
:) Thank you very much dear phillipa. If I would have to compare my old gir with the new one. I would say the first one is someone I never gonna find again, all people told me she loves me like , noone have ever seen any other person love to anyobody. I feel so blessed. But if you tell me
rigth now do you really love her? I would say , I dont know. That is frustrating. I wish I could lover her always and be with her always and have babies and make a family.Now the second one it is just a more beautiful girl , I guess that its the thing that have me attached to her. Well, Im sorry ,We are no attached anymore , she decided to look for another man 2 days ago. She told me I am a very unsecure person and that that was evereything with our relationship She says she is looking for someone different, but not exactly in that words , it made me suffer a lot and I can[t stop thinking in her, dont know why.
Clasic rule of men and woman , treat her bad and she will be after you all the time. same for me. I am on that level . She was bad and I cant stop calling her, looking here , even is she reject me always.
Posted by Tepiaca on August 2, 2006, at 11:39:36
In reply to love mental illness » Phillipa, posted by llrrrpp on August 1, 2006, at 23:50:52
> hi Tepi,
> nice to meet you :)
>
> I fell in love with my husband when I was 'healthy' and continued to love him during some severe depression this spring, but it was different. It was like I "knew" I loved him, but I didn't feel the love. Don't know if that makes sense. Then, when my stupid brain chemicals started to correct themselves, one of the first things I noticed was that I 'felt' the love. passion, and need, and longing, and lust. all the good stuff. It was amazing.
>
> Don't give up on love just because you can't 'feel' it right now. You will know love, even when you can't experience it 100%. You do the best you can, and wish that your lover accepts that you may have some rough patches in your life.
>
> I've been married for 5 years, and had 2 depressions during my relationship. and we're doing okay. better than okay, because making it through this is a sign of deep commitment.
>
> -llThank you for your answer ll it was very helpful.
You r so lukcy you found someone that accepts you even if you have problems like this.
Imagine if I told my second girl I take ADs, she will freak out I think. She left me before I told anything to here. I was thinking in telling here one day but now its over.
The first one know all my life and accepts like I am . What am I waiting for !!!!!! What happen with me. Im so stupid
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