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Posted by TexasChic on November 23, 2005, at 18:06:59
In reply to Re: Soap box! Soap box!, posted by sunny10 on November 23, 2005, at 7:36:19
... have any less then obvious places that are also a
"direct hit to the "do me now" urge...?"
For me there's a certain spot on the neck that makes me forget my own name (d@mn its been a long time since I've had sex!!!). Also, this may be weird, but my feet! There's a certain area on my foot that when rubbed just makes me melt (d@mn its been a long time since I've had sex!!!).-T
Posted by TexasChic on November 23, 2005, at 18:11:26
In reply to Does anyone else..., posted by TexasChic on November 23, 2005, at 18:06:59
I forgot a couple of words:
>there's a certain spot WHEN KISSED on the neck that makes me forget my own name(d@mn its been a long time since I've had sex!!!)
-T
Posted by allisonross on November 24, 2005, at 16:14:43
In reply to Does anyone else..., posted by TexasChic on November 23, 2005, at 18:06:59
> ... have any less then obvious places that are also a
> "direct hit to the "do me now" urge...?"d@mn, it's been a long time since I've had sex!!!-----LOL, Ha, ha...as I am relating BIG time (31 year marriage; now divorced. The ONLY good thing in the marriage was sex, and now.....nuthin'...I am a wildly passionate, huggy, kissy, touchy-feely person, and being alone....bites!
> For me there's a certain spot on the neck that makes me forget my own name (d@mn its been a long time since I've had sex!!!).
I hear ya!
Also, this may be weird, but my feet!
Me, too, I have always loved to have my feet touched; foot fetish anyone! d@amn, it's been a long time since I've had sex!! LOL
There's a certain area on my foot that when rubbed just makes me melt (d@mn its been a long time since I've had sex!!!).
You crack me up! I love my whole body to be touched, but there is one place.....the small of my back; just a light touch, and wacka wacka!!!
D@amn, it's been a long time since I've.....LOL, LOL
Hugs, Ally
>
> -T
Posted by Larry Hoover on December 17, 2005, at 0:22:26
In reply to Re: Does anyone else..., posted by TexasChic on November 23, 2005, at 18:11:26
> I forgot a couple of words:
> >there's a certain spot WHEN KISSED on the neck that makes me forget my own name
>
> (d@mn its been a long time since I've had sex!!!)
>
> -TNot only has it been a long time since I've had sex, it's been even longer since I went exploring for those special places.
They sure are fun to find. ;-)
Lar
Posted by 10derHeart on December 17, 2005, at 17:56:48
In reply to Re: Does anyone else... » TexasChic, posted by Larry Hoover on December 17, 2005, at 0:22:26
>Not only has it been a long time since I've had sex,<
:-(
>...it's been even longer since I went exploring for those special places. They sure are fun to find. ;-)<
:-) ! :-) !
Posted by Susan47 on January 13, 2006, at 0:58:41
In reply to Sex Ed 101: Women, posted by Toph on November 22, 2005, at 14:56:26
> I've been reading happyflower's questions to men about male sexuality and male anatomy. I have one for the women.
>
> Women's breasts perform an invaluable nutritional function in the preservation of the species. For (most) men they are also a source of visual stimulation and tactile pleasure. Is the manual or oral touch of a woman's breast (intimacy aside) physiologically stimulating and sensual for the woman or is this, too, a guy thing that woman tolerate?
I can't believe I didn't have the libido to come here earlier and exploret his subject. Oh, my I am SO HAPPY to hear you say men find our breasts a source of pleasure. It's so so so important to know that you're giving your partner pleasure, it revs you up and I know I sure as hell love having mine played with to the nth degree, in fact, I HATE having to beg for breast stimulation, I want the man I'm with to love touching me, not just there but all of me .. and it's so fantastic feeling the same way about him, too .. so Larry I have a question for you, do men love being touched as much as we love touching them? And where, I mean, it isn't JUST there is it? I love to kiss and nibble and suck on earlobes and necks.. lobes are so effing sexy in my mouth ... do men love that as much as we do?
Posted by Susan47 on January 13, 2006, at 1:08:06
In reply to Re: Sex Ed 101: Women » Toph, posted by Tamar on November 22, 2005, at 20:24:00
It's one of my first favourites, and I'm so glad you answered that because my breasts felt different when I was breastfeeding, as well .. and I didn't even notice at the time but that's a big reason why I didn't enjoy them being touched sexually I'll bet. I also prefer the way they feel when I'm not breastfeeding and I expect those days are long gone, in any case but I wonder how they'll feel in old age, if I get that far ..
Posted by Susan47 on January 13, 2006, at 1:09:50
In reply to Re: Sex Ed 101: Women; You still there? » Toph, posted by Susan47 on January 13, 2006, at 0:58:41
I just thought I should clear that up. I get Larry and Toph mixed up all the time, I suspect I always have, sorry guys, I apologize.
Posted by Toph on January 22, 2006, at 0:23:24
In reply to Re: Sex Ed 101: Women; You still there? » Toph, posted by Susan47 on January 13, 2006, at 0:58:41
I just stumbled upon this old thread and your contribution Susan. I would simply say that if I were attacted to a certain woman and she did any and hopefully all of the things you described then I would be one happy puppy. I know this from experience.
Posted by Larry Hoover on February 4, 2006, at 23:42:45
In reply to Re: Sex Ed 101: Women; You still there? » Toph, posted by Susan47 on January 13, 2006, at 0:58:41
> Oh, my I am SO HAPPY to hear you say men find our breasts a source of pleasure.
I'm glad you feel that way. I sure enjoy a woman's breasts. However, it's not necessarily reciprocal, right? One partner I had as much as told me to not bother with her breasts, as she had no sensation there. It's confusing, unless there is open communication. That's what I'm speaking in advocacy of, open communication. Sexual partners need to communicate, to describe individual traits and likes and dislikes and all that. I'm not a mind reader, but I am a very committed listener/observer. If I'm leaving something out, it does neither of us any service to fail to speak up about it. Only too happy to oblige, ya know.
> It's so so so important to know that you're giving your partner pleasure, it revs you up and I know I sure as hell love having mine played with to the nth degree, in fact, I HATE having to beg for breast stimulation, I want the man I'm with to love touching me, not just there but all of me .. and it's so fantastic feeling the same way about him, too ..
Agreed.
> so Larry I have a question for you, do men love being touched as much as we love touching them? And where, I mean, it isn't JUST there is it?
It matters *how* I'm being touched, too. It's not just *there*, no. Any part of me can be erogenous, in the hands of a skillful and thoughtful partner.
> I love to kiss and nibble and suck on earlobes and necks.. lobes are so effing sexy in my mouth ... do men love that as much as we do?
I will not generalize.....I've tried to not do so throughout my reply. I like it. I also like to kiss and nibble necks and lobes, I especially like it, if I know that it is in fact pleasurable. It wouldn't be too hard to figure out, though, if I came up behind you, and warmed the nape of your neck with my breath, as my nose slid upwards nearer your lobe, my lips dragging warm kisses up behind your ear.
Lar
Posted by crazy teresa on February 5, 2006, at 13:09:23
In reply to Re: Sex Ed 101: Women; You still there? » Susan47, posted by Larry Hoover on February 4, 2006, at 23:42:45
Please come over for dinner immediately...
Posted by Susan47 on February 5, 2006, at 14:52:20
In reply to Re: Sex Ed 101: Women; You still there? » Susan47, posted by Larry Hoover on February 4, 2006, at 23:42:45
> > Oh, my I am SO HAPPY to hear you say men find our breasts a source of pleasure.
>
> I'm glad you feel that way. I sure enjoy a woman's breasts. However, it's not necessarily reciprocal, right? One partner I had as much as told me to not bother with her breasts, as she had no sensation there. It's confusing, unless there is open communication. That's what I'm speaking in advocacy of, open communication. Sexual partners need to communicate, to describe individual traits and likes and dislikes and all that. I'm not a mind reader, but I am a very committed listener/observer. If I'm leaving something out, it does neither of us any service to fail to speak up about it. Only too happy to oblige, ya know.
The problem is though that a lot of men, most in fact, dive right in without taking their time to find out what we like, and they do this little performance thing, and then you HAVE to be diplomatic, I mean, what would a woman say, no your tongue isn't strong enough, you need to do tongue workouts baby, here let me help you? Actually, that isn't a bad one, I might try that next time. But nice, normal people all have very delicate, sensitive egos and once they've performed, it's tricky. Which is why it's always always always a good idea to go fast, then slow, then relax where you KNOW you're bringing pleasure, and always go slow when not sure. I mean, really slow. Most men can't do that. Don't have the patience.
>
> > It's so so so important to know that you're giving your partner pleasure, it revs you up and I know I sure as hell love having mine played with to the nth degree, in fact, I HATE having to beg for breast stimulation, I want the man I'm with to love touching me, not just there but all of me .. and it's so fantastic feeling the same way about him, too ..
>
> Agreed.
>
> > so Larry I have a question for you, do men love being touched as much as we love touching them? And where, I mean, it isn't JUST there is it?
>
> It matters *how* I'm being touched, too. It's not just *there*, no. Any part of me can be erogenous, in the hands of a skillful and thoughtful partner.Ew, I like that. Yessir I certainly do like the way you've put that, Larry.
>
> > I love to kiss and nibble and suck on earlobes and necks.. lobes are so effing sexy in my mouth ... do men love that as much as we do?
>
> I will not generalize.....I've tried to not do so throughout my reply. I like it. I also like to kiss and nibble necks and lobes, I especially like it, if I know that it is in fact pleasurable. It wouldn't be too hard to figure out, though, if I came up behind you, and warmed the nape of your neck with my breath, as my nose slid upwards nearer your lobe, my lips dragging warm kisses up behind your ear.
>
> Lar
Yes, and don't forget the nose touching the face when you're kissing, I totally love that, and when you're with someone exciting and lovely and kind, very kind and intelligent, it's addictive. Really, really addictive, to be physically together. Nice to not get too much of each other, either and nice to have other things in life, exciting and good, but especially great to share. I wonder if I'll ever have that. Hmh.
Posted by TexasChic on February 5, 2006, at 21:12:00
In reply to Re: Sex Ed 101: Women; You still there? » Susan47, posted by Larry Hoover on February 4, 2006, at 23:42:45
Posted by TexasChic on February 5, 2006, at 21:14:26
In reply to Damn dude! (nm) » Larry Hoover, posted by TexasChic on February 5, 2006, at 21:12:00
Posted by 10derHeart on February 6, 2006, at 15:15:23
In reply to My astericks thingy is ON! Please don't PBC me! (nm), posted by TexasChic on February 5, 2006, at 21:14:26
damn
hell
crap
All allowed/deemed okay (not vulgar, I think) per Merriam-Webster.
Your civility lives on through another day...;-)
PS (just don't mess up and f*rt!)
Posted by ed_uk on February 7, 2006, at 16:26:43
In reply to Re: Sex Ed 101: Women; You still there? » Susan47, posted by Larry Hoover on February 4, 2006, at 23:42:45
Larry, you sound like a good lover ;-)
Posted by Larry Hoover on February 8, 2006, at 9:13:45
In reply to Re: Sex Ed 101: Women; You still there? » Larry Hoover, posted by ed_uk on February 7, 2006, at 16:26:43
> Larry, you sound like a good lover ;-)
>Okay, holding that as our test hypothesis, I'll be needing some volunteers.
I never did get the number of replies I needed, from that questionnaire I posted in December, to move ahead with implementation of the study.
If there is to be any hope of success here, people are going to have to step forward.
Lar
Posted by Tamar on February 8, 2006, at 18:50:15
In reply to Re: Sex Ed 101: Women; You still there?, posted by Larry Hoover on February 8, 2006, at 9:13:45
> If there is to be any hope of success here, people are going to have to step forward.
Hi Lar...
Posted by 10derHeart on February 8, 2006, at 19:25:48
In reply to Re: Sex Ed 101: Women; You still there? » Larry Hoover, posted by Tamar on February 8, 2006, at 18:50:15
Posted by Larry Hoover on February 9, 2006, at 8:29:34
In reply to Re: Sex Ed 101: Women; You still there? » Larry Hoover, posted by Tamar on February 8, 2006, at 18:50:15
>
> > If there is to be any hope of success here, people are going to have to step forward.
>
>
> Hi Lar...<stammering>
Okay. You caught me. I'll just be my normal painfully shy self, now.
Lar
Posted by ed_uk on February 12, 2006, at 16:21:05
In reply to Re: Sex Ed 101: Women; You still there?, posted by Larry Hoover on February 8, 2006, at 9:13:45
Hi Lar
Can we have a link to your questionnaire?
Ed
Posted by Larry Hoover on February 13, 2006, at 13:08:39
In reply to Re: Sex Ed 101: Women; You still there? » Larry Hoover, posted by ed_uk on February 12, 2006, at 16:21:05
> Hi Lar
>
> Can we have a link to your questionnaire?
>
> EdA few months ago, I posted to see if someone might want to share a room in Toronto for the Babblefest weekend, to cut expenses. The post was clearly naive, and led me to post the following: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20051118/msgs/583402.html
Lar
Posted by sunny10 on February 15, 2006, at 8:03:17
In reply to Re: Sex Ed 101: Women; You still there? » ed_uk, posted by Larry Hoover on February 13, 2006, at 13:08:39
I missed that one! That was awesome!
Posted by ed_uk on February 15, 2006, at 15:18:29
In reply to Re: Sex Ed 101: Women; You still there? » ed_uk, posted by Larry Hoover on February 13, 2006, at 13:08:39
Lar,
Can I try one of your butter tarts? :)
Ed
Posted by Tamar on February 16, 2006, at 19:14:32
In reply to Re: Sex Ed 101: Women; You still there? » Tamar, posted by Larry Hoover on February 9, 2006, at 8:29:34
> >
> > > If there is to be any hope of success here, people are going to have to step forward.
> >
> >
> > Hi Lar...
>
> <stammering>
>
> Okay. You caught me. I'll just be my normal painfully shy self, now.
>
> Lar
>
>Lar,
I'm very sorry; I didn't mean to make you feel uncomfortable.
Tamar
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