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Posted by sal0805 on November 14, 2005, at 12:09:20
He's gone away for 3 days - business trip.
I hurt as if my world just totally ended.
I feel so silly, yet all I can do is feel.
I miss him so much.
It doesn't hurt so bad if he just works late.
Sabrina
Posted by Jen Star on November 14, 2005, at 18:34:40
In reply to Life when husband not around, posted by sal0805 on November 14, 2005, at 12:09:20
I totally get this. When my hubby is away, I feel lost and scared and very alone. I start ruminating about things. It's so much nicer when he's here! :)
I hope the time goes quickly. He'll be back soon!
JenStar
Posted by allisonross on November 15, 2005, at 9:05:56
In reply to Life when husband not around, posted by sal0805 on November 14, 2005, at 12:09:20
> This is not....to minimize your pain, etc., but I know your feelings.
I am trying to get used to being alone after 31 years. The old abandoment stuff.
Got a divorce because of abuse; the scariest thing i ever did in my whole life.
your feelins are not "silly' there are "normal" and real. How I envy you!
Guess this triggered a little private pity party for myself?! And THAT is something I rarely allow myself, LOL, LOL
Love and hugs, Ally
He's gone away for 3 days - business trip.
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> I hurt as if my world just totally ended.
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> I feel so silly, yet all I can do is feel.
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> I miss him so much.
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> It doesn't hurt so bad if he just works late.
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> Sabrina
Posted by sal0805 on November 15, 2005, at 11:46:09
In reply to Re: Life when husband not around, posted by allisonross on November 15, 2005, at 9:05:56
Ally - I understand. I divorced my first husband because of drug abuse and abandonment. I only realised whilst recovering from the trauma of this divorce that the physical and mental abuse were part and parcel of the whole thing.
Hoping that you are feeling good today!
Sabrina
Posted by allisonross on November 15, 2005, at 12:15:12
In reply to Re: Life when husband not around » allisonross, posted by sal0805 on November 15, 2005, at 11:46:09
> Hi, Sabrina, Sweetie (LOVE your name)
Ally - I understand. I divorced my first husband because of drug abuse and abandonment. I only realised whilst recovering from the trauma of this divorce that the physical and mental abuse were part and parcel of the whole thing.
So I assume you are re-married and happy now? Good for you!
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> Hoping that you are feeling good today!Thankyou, how nice of you to say that!
Hugs, Ally
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> Sabrina
Posted by sal0805 on November 15, 2005, at 14:26:41
In reply to Re: Life when husband not around » sal0805, posted by allisonross on November 15, 2005, at 12:15:12
Yes, I am re-married. What a dream come true! I could not have wished for more. Any issues I have are without doubt, my own!
Sabrina - moping and missing out of town better half!
Posted by sal0805 on November 16, 2005, at 11:33:58
In reply to Re: Life when husband not around » allisonross, posted by sal0805 on November 15, 2005, at 14:26:41
And I am like a child with a chocolate dangling just out of reach.
It will be good to hold his face, and just smell him.
Sabrina
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