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Posted by AdaGrace on August 25, 2005, at 9:38:33
Started yesterday evening, into the night and continued this morning.
Feel drained.
Feel used.
Feel abused.
Feel misunderstood.
I am not a b*tch. I AM NOT!!!!!!!!!
I DO love my kids!!!!!!!
I DO NOT deserve to be disrespected in my own home.
I DO NOT deserve to have the house and furniture (that I pay for) trashed/broken/ruined due to this disrespect!!!!!!!I AM NOT as crazy as him!!!!!!
I MEANT to say F*ck You!!!!!!!
I MEANT to say I want OUT!!!!!!!
I MEANT to say I AM SICK OF YOU!!!!!!
Posted by Damos on August 25, 2005, at 16:49:23
In reply to Humungous Horrific Horrendous Fight, posted by AdaGrace on August 25, 2005, at 9:38:33
Oh Gracie, I'm so sorry. Fighting leaves you feeling awful, just awful, on top of how lousy we feel about our lives most of the time anyway. I know. My heart goes out to you right now, cause I know most of those words and most of those feelings just too well.
Sometimes it just gets too much to bear and that's okay - you have to let the pressure out. I pray with all my heart that he didn't harm you (physically). I know how impossible the choices seem and I too struggle with them every single day. Just know I'm here and that you're in my heart and I'll listen as best I can.
Posted by AdaGrace on August 26, 2005, at 8:09:19
In reply to Re: Humungous Horrific Horrendous Fight » AdaGrace, posted by Damos on August 25, 2005, at 16:49:23
And we are just pretending things are fine, until the next time I dare to speak out against the injustice.....I call it "Rage Against the Machine" Isn't that a song or a band or a movie???
Posted by sunny10 on August 26, 2005, at 9:53:12
In reply to Re: Now He's all Nicey Nicey » Damos, posted by AdaGrace on August 26, 2005, at 8:09:19
just try to keep your cool around him... rant to us!
Posted by 64bowtie on August 26, 2005, at 20:26:41
In reply to Re: Beware Mr. Nicey Nicey » AdaGrace, posted by sunny10 on August 26, 2005, at 9:53:12
»Ada»,
...we are here for ya'
and
...keep your coolRod
Posted by Susan47 on August 27, 2005, at 0:09:19
In reply to Humungous Horrific Horrendous Fight, posted by AdaGrace on August 25, 2005, at 9:38:33
I don't believe any man ever called me that to my face until the one who swore he loved me the most, more than anyone, more than I knew, even ... he loved me more than I loved him, he claimed (and he was absolutely right although it was my duty to deny it every time!) .. until he called me a F*cking Bitch. Oh yes, and once he called me "F*cking Simple".
Me .. Simple. Well, yes, darling man, I always knew that, but did you have to hit me with what hurts the most?
Apparently.
Because he never loved me at all, and I was a F*cking Fool to ever date him, Period!!!
And if I could do it all over again, knowing me and knowing him, I would trust my first intuition.
Always trust that first little voice inside you, the one that tells you something important about someone you've just met.
Because it's always Right.
Always, for me, anyways.
When you first met this man whom I presume is your present husband, Adagrace, what did your first little voice tell you, because I'm curious to know if it works as well as mine has proven itself to do.
Good luck, sweetie... keep us posted!!!
Posted by Damos on August 28, 2005, at 17:02:15
In reply to Re: Now He's all Nicey Nicey » Damos, posted by AdaGrace on August 26, 2005, at 8:09:19
Argh, don't you just hate that. Insult to injury. A certain roomy does the same and it really messes with my head. Oh yeah, "Rage Against the Machine" are/were a band from memory.
Love ya Gracie.
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