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Posted by Mal on August 2, 2005, at 11:23:02
Hey, I read an old post from Susan 47 about the g-spot, and thought I would start a fresh thread on the subject...
A couple of years ago my husband found it, and WOW. Great stuff. I was pretty much anorgasmic WITH anyone until I met him. And that was terriffic when he had the patience for me. I am very lucky that he is very interested in pleasing me in bed. Anyway, when he found the spot I was surprized and thrilled (although I haven't had the "ejaculation" part, just the very intense orgasms)- I thought it was a myth till then.
And recently he did something different with the spot- I don't know what he did in there, but the orgasm was so intense I actually cried. In a good way. Has this happened to anyone else?
Hope you all are having a great day...
MAL
Posted by happyflower on August 2, 2005, at 12:23:07
In reply to G-spot- I read an old postSusan47, posted by Mal on August 2, 2005, at 11:23:02
Yup, I have one, and yes, it is wonderful! lol It makes intercourse as much fun for me as my DH! Okay, I need to get some housework done, not thinking about his! lol HeeHee!
Posted by Susan47 on August 2, 2005, at 19:58:55
In reply to G-spot- I read an old postSusan47, posted by Mal on August 2, 2005, at 11:23:02
Well I believe I am a woman who (this is scary for men to hear, too, but maybe if I just told them ahead of time, right off the bat before anything ever happened, we would be able to work on it, work up to it, whatever.. or it might just scare the hell out of the guy so much he couldn't get it up .. what the hell though, once he saw me come he'd get it up all right ...) anyway I don't believe I ever had one O with any man ever. Only time I ever can is when I'm pleasing myself .. oh dear, what an old-fashioned phrase ... Okay but since I found the G-spot there may be hope in my future .. and I was so EMBARRASSED by myself last year when I peed a little with an O, okay, I was alone of course, but still ... until I found out women do that sometimes when the G-spot's stimulated .. then it wasn't embarrassing anymore, it was, like, okay, I guess that was Real then, I guess I'm a woman like other women, maybe I'm normal after all .. it was an Accomplishment, from Ashamed to Accomplished in a single thought.. burt yeah, it was like getting the keys to the car for the first time. I'll bet your hubby felt the same way when that happened, and did you? It's great .. I want to have your experience too .. after the first time did it happen more often? Have you had sex since that time? Why then? Were you more relaxed? Wow. I've been there.. crying after sex. It's nice when it's for a good reason, just kidding. Sometimes it seems like such a miracle, though, doesn't it? And when someone else takes the time to love you that much, to want to please you and take the time, that probably is a big help, too. Mm, you're a lucky woman.
Posted by Mal on August 2, 2005, at 20:35:18
In reply to Re: G-spot- I read an old postSusan47 » Mal, posted by Susan47 on August 2, 2005, at 19:58:55
> Well I believe I am a woman who (this is scary for men to hear, too, but maybe if I just told them ahead of time, right off the bat before anything ever happened, we would be able to work on it, work up to it, whatever.. or it might just scare the hell out of the guy so much he couldn't get it up .. what the hell though, once he saw me come he'd get it up all right ...) anyway I don't believe I ever had one O with any man ever. Only time I ever can is when I'm pleasing myself .. oh dear, what an old-fashioned phrase ...
LOL, that is OK. I have a hard time with the phrase "I masturbated" too. ANd I was beginning to think something was wrong with me, till I met the husband. In fact, I still have limitations. I can ONLY have an orgasm (I also have trouble with the phrase, "I come"-silly hang-ups) when I am on my back. Seems like I can only relax that way. We have tried other positions, and I can get close, but can't fall over the edge.
>Okay but since I found the G-spot there may be hope in my future .. and I was so EMBARRASSED by myself last year when I peed a little with an O, okay, I was alone of course, but still ... until I found out women do that sometimes when the G-spot's stimulated .. then it wasn't embarrassing anymore, it was, like, okay, I guess that was Real then, I guess I'm a woman like other women, maybe I'm normal after all .. it was an Accomplishment, from Ashamed to Accomplished in a single thought..
I guess that was cool- ashamed to accomplished! I am impressed you can do this for yourself. I haven't tried, but I just don'w think I could without a device of some sort. ANd I am just not real fond of devices...
>burt yeah, it was like getting the keys to the car for the first time. I'll bet your hubby felt the same way when that happened, and did you?
OMG, I thought, "What in the world was THAT?!" Once or twice in a session is about all I can do with the spot. It is fabulous, though!
>It's great .. I want to have your experience too .. after the first time did it happen more often? Have you had sex since that time?
Yes, we have had a lot of sex since then. Well, not a lot by some people's standards. The frequency hasn't really picked up, but I must say the quality is improving all the time!! We don't get after the spot EVERY time (sometimes we have quickies, because we have a toddler in the house, but I always get off one way or another.)
>Why then? Were you more relaxed?
I don't know why then. Maybe the husband read about it and tried it and got it right. Can't say I was any more relaxed than usual.
>Wow. I've been there.. crying after sex. It's nice when it's for a good reason, just kidding. Sometimes it seems like such a miracle, though, doesn't it?THe whole thing seems like a miracle to me. How emotions are SO involved with the physical act. How intense our drives are for sex, and how it HAS to be that way for the species to survive. I am just so glad that the creator gave us a "reward" like the orgasm for our trouble! ANd that is not even going into the real miracle of reproduction!
>And when someone else takes the time to love you that much, to want to please you and take the time, that probably is a big help, too. Mm, you're a lucky woman.
God, don't I know it. I am very thankful for it, too.
Have a great night!
MAL
Posted by kid47 on August 3, 2005, at 14:29:18
In reply to Re: G-spot- I read an old postSusan47 » Susan47, posted by Mal on August 2, 2005, at 20:35:18
Is that wrong?....Gee Spot...why'd you bite the mail man?....G Spot, why did you eat the petunias?.....G whiz Spot, what am I gona do with you?
I am sooo sorry!! I really can't help it. I have a mental disorder ya know.
peace and happiness
kid
Posted by Sonya on August 3, 2005, at 14:41:06
In reply to G Spot..that's my doggies name..., posted by kid47 on August 3, 2005, at 14:29:18
> Is that wrong?....Gee Spot...why'd you bite the mail man?....G Spot, why did you eat the petunias?.....G whiz Spot, what am I gona do with you?
>
> I am sooo sorry!! I really can't help it. I have a mental disorder ya know.
>
> peace and happiness
> kid
LOL! Thanks, kid. Your post made my day (& believe me, I needed it)!
Posted by alexandra_k on August 3, 2005, at 14:46:35
In reply to G Spot..that's my doggies name..., posted by kid47 on August 3, 2005, at 14:29:18
Posted by Damos on August 4, 2005, at 17:44:57
In reply to G Spot..that's my doggies name..., posted by kid47 on August 3, 2005, at 14:29:18
Yeah, yeah, yeah, but does she come when you call her? This is what I want to know.
Sorry, sorry, couldn't help it.
Posted by Susan47 on August 4, 2005, at 18:44:43
In reply to Re: G-spot- I read an old postSusan47 » Susan47, posted by Mal on August 2, 2005, at 20:35:18
Being on your back having an orgasm, well, I get the most turned on when he can see my face and he's looking into my eyes so yeah, I can definitely see that. The physical feeling is more intense in some other positions, but the spiritual and mental pleasure that helps with orgasm .. that is definitely heightened for me too, you said on your back, I say face to face but really on my back is the appropriate phrase, and pillows are nice to have under your bum, I like that sometimes, too.
Posted by Susan47 on August 4, 2005, at 18:51:34
In reply to Re: G-spot- I read an old postSusan47 » Susan47, posted by Mal on August 2, 2005, at 20:35:18
No you don't have to use a device. What you do is, you play with yourself in the usual way, and when you're getting that excited feeling, take one hand and with the same speed that guys masturbate, okay, you rub up and down, with pressure, in the mid-line of your body right above your public bone.
Try it.
No devices.
Mmm, fabulous.
Make sure nobody's watching, other things on a woman's body tend to move when she's doing this, and you don't want that on a conscience ...
Posted by Susan47 on August 4, 2005, at 19:02:44
In reply to G Spot..that's my doggies name..., posted by kid47 on August 3, 2005, at 14:29:18
If that's true, I LOVE you for it ... just kidding. Wow. Is it true?
Because I'm thinking, I'll bet people who know what it is, laugh their socks off hearing it. And that would bring a lot of pleasure to the world. I'm going to name my next pet GSpot.
Posted by 10derHeart on August 6, 2005, at 0:32:49
In reply to Re: G Spot..that's my doggies name... » kid47, posted by Damos on August 4, 2005, at 17:44:57
...before kid determines THAT, I think he'd better actually try to LOCATE her first!
I mean, think of it, calling loudly all over the neighborhood for GSpot to come, without first having the slightest clue what area to even look in! Not effective if the desired result is for the sweet little thing to come.
Come home. I meant. Come home.
"Here, GSpot, here girl. Where ARE you? I swear the other day you were right here, but now....why can't you ever be in the same place twice when you disappear?"
"GSpot! You get over here right now! I'm not kidding! You'd better listen! Quit hiding from me!"
"Com'on dog, it's too dark over there! I can't see to get you out of there."
"You're being very bad. Do you want a spanking?"
And on and on it goes, where it comes to a spot.....errr I mean, stop, nobody knows!
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