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Posted by AdaGrace on October 19, 2004, at 16:38:38
Haven't seen you today, and wondered if you were ok. Do you want to e-mail instead of here?
Posted by dazedandconfused on October 20, 2004, at 12:22:10
In reply to Dazedandconfused - Are You OK?, posted by AdaGrace on October 19, 2004, at 16:38:38
Hi AdaGrace,
I am doing OK,,,about the same. I buzzed my person yesterday,,,he never called back. Felt back again...same freaking sad story self defeating stupid behavior.Anyway, I had just come off meds when I restarted this whole stupid saga, and just restarted meds today. I am hoping it will help with the depression and the obsession.
Thanks,
dazedbtw, I don't know how babblemail works
Posted by AdaGrace on October 20, 2004, at 14:01:08
In reply to Re: Dazedandconfused - Are You OK?, posted by dazedandconfused on October 20, 2004, at 12:22:10
I sent it through Babble, it should have appeared in the e-mail you used to register. If not, I can try it again. There is a way to respond through Babble without either of our e-mail addresses posting to each other. If you want to I can just give you my e-mail here and ask others to please not use it. Let me know.
Posted by AdaGrace on October 20, 2004, at 14:04:26
In reply to Dazedandconfused - Are You OK?, posted by AdaGrace on October 19, 2004, at 16:38:38
The strength to not pick up that phone is sometimes too hard to follow, but I also would get the "no response" and now that I have that precious "thank your not calling" message from him, I hear his voice saying that over and over in my head. It seems to help not to dial. I'm with you. Stay and talk. I think we need each other. I'm so glad I met you....really mean that.
Posted by dazedandconfused on October 20, 2004, at 16:35:41
In reply to Re: By the Way, posted by AdaGrace on October 20, 2004, at 14:04:26
Oh AdaGrace,
Thank you so much. Your support really helps. And I am glad I met you. Actually, it was your posts on the Newbie board (which i couldn't respond to cause I'm not a newbie) that prompted me to write.I just feel so pathetic because I have been grieving this relationship for 5 years. He rejects me, we get back together, I reject him, we get back together,,,and so on. I talked to my therapist yesterday and we agreed my obsession with him became much worse when I went off my meds and got depressed again. So I am back on meds. Crazy as it sounds, I have actaully only seen this person four times. No longer than an hour at a time. But countless hours on the phone.
Uggg, I feel even more pathetic writing this. It truly was a fantasy...all in my head. Two months ago, he was in love with me, wanted me to leave my husband and go be with him, now he won't return my calls/emails.
Thanks again for your support. Don't do what I have done. Move forward and don't look back. Its the best thing.
dazed
No, I didn't get the email. Please try sending it again.
Posted by AdaGrace on October 20, 2004, at 16:52:20
In reply to Re: By the Way, posted by dazedandconfused on October 20, 2004, at 16:35:41
I wonder if me bringing my story here has caused you to relive your hurt. If so, I really am sorry.
I'll resend the mail....In the meantime, you might check your set up with Babble to see if you have the right e-mail address on your account.
Posted by dazedandconfused on October 20, 2004, at 17:19:14
In reply to Has My Story Been Part of the Reason you Hurt?, posted by AdaGrace on October 20, 2004, at 16:52:20
Oh no, not your fault at all. I was going through a self destructive phase in July,,,eating too much, drinking, and just impulsively decided to call him. Three phone calls, a couple of emails, and this is the price I pay for it.
I'll get through it,,,I always do. But the question is why do reactivate this cycle periodically?
thanks. i'll check my babble account.
dazed
Posted by AdaGrace on October 20, 2004, at 17:28:12
In reply to Re: Has My Story Been Part of the Reason you Hurt?, posted by dazedandconfused on October 20, 2004, at 17:19:14
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