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Posted by muffled on January 8, 2007, at 11:35:05
cuz i wonder bout people that are not posting, and I wonder how they are, and if they are OK.
I would like to help every single soul.
All are important.
And I got such a bad memory. But they come to mind, and I wonder....
I hope they all mostly OK.
Tooo much hurt in this world.
Wonder why some handle it so much better than others?
And I don't like to mention names too much cuz I don't want noone to feel left out, cuz they all good people.
I think I extra melancholic cuz I got T tomorrow after a long break and I just dunno how its gonna go....
I wonder bout T sometimes....
I wonder bout alot....
(((all posters not around))))
(((all people lurking but afraid to post)))
(((babblers in general)))
(((deputies(also babblers of course))))
ah hell (Bob()
Muffled
Posted by LlurpsieBlossom on January 8, 2007, at 18:29:46
In reply to Sometimes it hurts here, posted by muffled on January 8, 2007, at 11:35:05
wow muffled, you even gave Bob a half-hug!
a BIGGGGGG hug to you,for reaching out.
you care, and it shows
I worry too about the ones I haven't seen in a while. and sometimes I'm going about my day and I wonder, hey- haven't seen this poster in a while. hope all's okay?
well, all's okay with Ll. I see T tomorrow also for first time in 4 weeks. yikes. but we sch on the phone tonight, and she sounded nice, so that's good.
-Ll
Posted by Gee on January 8, 2007, at 19:41:50
In reply to Re: Sometimes it hurts here, posted by LlurpsieBlossom on January 8, 2007, at 18:29:46
Muffled you are just way too kind and sweet and caring.
I hope that everything goes well with your t tomorrow
Posted by muffled on January 8, 2007, at 21:42:45
In reply to Re: Sometimes it hurts here, posted by LlurpsieBlossom on January 8, 2007, at 18:29:46
> wow muffled, you even gave Bob a half-hug!
> a BIGGGGGG hug to you,**thanks for hug Li!
> well, all's okay with Ll. I see T tomorrow also for first time in 4 weeks. yikes. but we sch on the phone tonight, and she sounded nice, so that's good.**Wow, good luck Li. I hope it goes well for you.
Glad she sounded nice.
Funny how distant T's can seem after a break...
I go tomorrow too.
Your back to llurpsie, I still stuck on Linden, I am so confused.
Oh well. LL, Li, Blossom, ?
Take care,
Muffled
Posted by muffled on January 8, 2007, at 21:45:57
In reply to Re: Sometimes it hurts here, posted by Gee on January 8, 2007, at 19:41:50
>> I hope that everything goes well with your t tomorrow
Your a sweetie too Gee, don't sell yourself short.
I hope it goes OK w/T too.
She phoned tonite, thot she was gonna cancel, but it was just to say she might be late cuz she has a dentist appt. She doesn't think she will be, but just in case....
Hmmmm, guess my t pretty nice eh?
Still scared though.
Sigh.
Take care gee, hope schools going ok for you.
Muffled
Posted by Karolina on January 8, 2007, at 23:30:42
In reply to Re: Sometimes it hurts here, posted by muffled on January 8, 2007, at 21:45:57
(((muffled)))
I just wanted to say you are always so nice and respond to so many posts and help all of us out so much. I hope your appointment tomorrow will go well with your T =)
-Karolina-
Posted by Barna on January 9, 2007, at 2:57:34
In reply to Sometimes it hurts here, posted by muffled on January 8, 2007, at 11:35:05
Big hug for you as well.
I hope the appointment with your T goes very well.
Posted by ElaineM on January 9, 2007, at 19:10:48
In reply to Sometimes it hurts here, posted by muffled on January 8, 2007, at 11:35:05
You always "listen" to people - and that helps. It helps me. Don't feel bad about not remembering everything all the time - I'm really bad with remembering what's been mentioned in past threads/posts too.
((((((muffly))))))How are you today?
blove EL
Posted by youngaddict on January 9, 2007, at 21:16:43
In reply to Sometimes it hurts here, posted by muffled on January 8, 2007, at 11:35:05
(((((((muffled)))))))))
you are always here for me. answering my questions. and i know this from only one week of being on this website.
i love this website. i check it everyday, its helping me get through the days and you are one of them.
thank you.
Posted by muffled on January 9, 2007, at 21:40:31
In reply to Re: Sometimes it hurts here, posted by youngaddict on January 9, 2007, at 21:16:43
Thanks for hugs, thanks for saying such nice things.
It takes all of us to make the community here.
We all help each other when we are able, and when we are not so able, we can let others help us.
This is what is so nice.
My T appt went well. My T was the same as ever. She didn't mutate or something when I was gone! I am surprized when she's the same, silly me.
But it was nice to see her. Really was.
My world feels better now she's back.
Thanks for asking.
Take care all,
Muffled
Posted by Dinah on January 10, 2007, at 6:58:29
In reply to Barna, Elaine, Young addict, posted by muffled on January 9, 2007, at 21:40:31
Posted by kerria on January 10, 2007, at 23:58:03
In reply to Sometimes it hurts here, posted by muffled on January 8, 2007, at 11:35:05
((((((Muffled))))))safe hugs
You are such a beautiful and caring person Muffled. Thank you for being there for me when i'm not afraid to post. i always paint myself in a corner, afraid when i can't identify with what i write. next week i have surgery to help pudendal nerve- it's so triggering i wonder if i can get through it. i hope so. we have to try, pain is very bad. we'll try to let you know how it goes- it's a couple of days in hospital.
i hope that everything is going ok with you. Thank you for being my friend.
love,
kerria
Posted by muffled on January 11, 2007, at 15:55:57
In reply to Re: Sometimes it hurts here » muffled, posted by kerria on January 10, 2007, at 23:58:03
(((Kerria)))
Thank you for that lovely post.
I hope the surgury goes well and is not to stressful for you.
:( It must be terribly distressing being split as you are.
I am only a little split, but I do have moments, that are not nearly as scarey as yours, and they are awful.
I do truly feel for you.
I also think you will be able to work things out with your people. Its just going to take time.
That would be SO nice if you could let me know how your doing when you are able.
I think of you.
Take care,
Muffled
Posted by bil on January 11, 2007, at 19:47:26
In reply to Re: Sometimes it hurts here » kerria, posted by muffled on January 11, 2007, at 15:55:57
Muffled-
I am really sorry for being such a bad psycho-babbler... I only posted a few times, (when I was stopping seeing my therapist) now I'm not seeing anyone, and it's been difficult; esp over the 'holidays'.I can't handle posting too regularly- I get snowed under with guilt for not answering everyone, and then I beat myself up... I can only dip in now and again.
bill
Posted by muffled on January 11, 2007, at 21:22:44
In reply to Re: Sometimes it hurts here, posted by bil on January 11, 2007, at 19:47:26
> Muffled-
> I am really sorry for being such a bad psycho-babbler... I only posted a few times, (when I was stopping seeing my therapist) now I'm not seeing anyone, and it's been difficult; esp over the 'holidays'.**Bil, sorry its been difficult.
You are not a bad babbler. I think thats the joy of babble, you can participate, or not. And its OK. I go thru periods where I post alot(perhaps annoyingly so!), and periods where I post very little. Sometimes reading words from others is helpful, sometimes its helpful to post, sometimes its helpful to stay away...I don't think there's a right or wrong to it.
I think people tend to babble when they need it, and if they don't , they drift away. And thats OK too.
>
> I can't handle posting too regularly- I get snowed under with guilt for not answering everyone, and then I beat myself up... I can only dip in now and again.**I used to feel SO bad bout not posting or forgetting to reply etc. I used to apologize all over. But I now realize that we all have our times. So I don't fret about it so much.
I also tend to stay with one board or I get overwhelmed.
I also don't worry if noone answers a post i've posted. Heck I'm kinda dissapointed, but I realize now that its not personal, its just noone is twigged by the post.
Post if it helps you, just read it you want.
Its all OK.
I beleive this is meant to be a safe place of helping each other and of not feeling so alone.
Not a place of pressures and hurts.
>
> bill
**Nice to meet ya Bill!
Take care,
Muffled
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