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Posted by SatinDoll on November 10, 2006, at 17:06:21
Okay I have a session on Wed. and I don't know what to do after the last one. I feel sort of weird, like our relationship changed or I changed, or something is weird.
I keep thinking that I must have really hurt my T feelings by first saying he fell on his head, and then saying I meant every word of it. Well in fact I think he was about to tell him that what I said got to him I think, but he stopped. I know T's are suppose to not let it get to them, but I think my comment and feeling torwards him might have stung a little. So now I feel bad, like I did something wrong to someone I care about.
But then again he isn't mine to care about, our relationship isn't going to go anywhere anyways. So what does it matter in the long term if I might have
bruised his ego? He has hurt me afterall at times, so is that how relationships are?I just don't know what to say next week and for some reason I am feeling the "flight" reflex of wanting to run and hide away. I am not sure why. Maybe I feel like I am going to get hurt. Don't know, maybe I need a nap.
Posted by canadagirl on November 10, 2006, at 19:18:41
In reply to Blah blah blah whah whah whah, posted by SatinDoll on November 10, 2006, at 17:06:21
Therapy is a relationship - a real one - and therapists and clients are only human with real feelings on both ends too, no matter what the textbooks say. Our job is not to "worry" about how they are feeling on their end, but that's easier said than done.
Sounds like you have a good bond between you and you will more than likely work it out just fine. Hang in there.
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