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Posted by B2chica on January 11, 2006, at 13:11:22
i think a decision like this can only be made by the individual, but you sound like you feel a need to do this, if that's the case - you must. and it's not about being selfish, its about taking care of yourself and doing what's in YOUR best interests (for once).
you sound very strong and determined. it does sound like you've been considering this for a while and put a lot of thought into it.i'm not sure what to tell you about what to expect, though it may be rejection, disbelief, defensive tones and maybe...i hate to say it but she may blame you...this happens sometimes. i'm saying this only because i want YOU to have the upper hand here. like i always say, hope for the best and expect the worst.
i wish you the BEST of luck. i support whatever decision you make. i'm here. not going anywhere. whatever you need, i'll give.
here's some good vibes comin your way.>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>((((antigua))))
b2c.
Posted by antigua on January 11, 2006, at 16:40:59
In reply to (((((antigua))))), posted by B2chica on January 11, 2006, at 13:11:22
Strong? me? I don't think of myself that way when it comes to myself, but mess w/my kids, well...
I don't feel complelled to do this. It just occurred to me that maybe I need to do this to breakthrough w/my T and to reach the demons below. T says I'm hiding my anger toward my mother and I think I'm willing to face it--not w/her, but in the safety of my T's office.
She might blame me, you're right, thanks for pointing that out. Silly as it sounds, I hadn't thought o f t hat. What a joke; blame a 5 year old (not aimed against you, but her of course). That would just show how delusional she really is.
thanks for your support. I know you have enough of your own going on,
antigua
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