Psycho-Babble Grief Thread 400685

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okay I am a mess today...crying crying sad

Posted by Jai Narayan on October 9, 2004, at 9:51:30

My honey just called me on the phone.
Yesterday there was an accident that tied up traffic on our interstate.
I had prayed for the people who had been impacted.
All day the traffic was re-routed through our little town.
The reason my partner called was to tell me that a 52 year old woman died in that crash.
I didn't realize it but I had been holding back tears....for:
my Dad's death,
my Mom's death...
the loss of my family and their vitality...
just plain sad today.

So I cry for you dear woman who has exited this life so abruptly not but a few miles from where I sat praying for your health.
I hope that my prayers today will help in anyway light the confusing path we travel after death.
I send healing energy to your family who must be so terribly distraught.

I close with a quieter energy...
a tiny stillness inside.
Amen.
Jai

Re: okay I am a mess today...crying crying sad » Jai Narayan

Posted by fatgirljs on October 15, 2004, at 11:10:15

In reply to okay I am a mess today...crying crying sad, posted by Jai Narayan on October 9, 2004, at 9:51:30

Jai,

I read somewhere in your posts that EMDR healed you. How can you be crying now if you healed from the EMDR? I ask sincerely since I am thinking about trying EMDR but not if it isn't effective.

Thank you.

Fatgirljs

Fatgirljs thanks for your question

Posted by Jai Narayan on October 15, 2004, at 16:11:45

In reply to Re: okay I am a mess today...crying crying sad » Jai Narayan, posted by fatgirljs on October 15, 2004, at 11:10:15

EMDR has liberated me from my past traumas but has not removed my ability to feel.
I was sad because a woman near my age died from an accident not but a few miles from where I live.
I have an over developed sense of empathy.
I care very much about those around me.
I am glad that didn't go away.
But when I get overwhelmed with grief well it makes me sad.
You are very sweet to comment on my post.
thank you.
how are you doing?
You are a new person for me.
welcome to grief babble.
Jai

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