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Posted by Hombre on December 1, 2010, at 0:20:49
I wanted to post because I am going through an extremely tumultuous period that includes a potential breakup of a long-term relationship, a potential relocation to another country, and the prospect of starting over, finding work, establishing myself in said foreign country, and maintaining my medical treatment in a foreign environment.
In spite of this, I've been able to communicate openly with my significant other, who is also going through an extremely stressful period in part due to her mother having suffered a stroke. We were able to come to an understanding and to be compassionate to each other, such that whatever happens, we only think the best of each other and will continue to help each other, no matter what happens.
I can only say that the combination of medication, ample vitamins and minerals, chinese herbal formulas, herbal adaptogens, and unwavering faith in God and his will that I recover has given me the strength to stay positive through this experience and remain optimistic and hopeful.
It has been a long time since I've suffered such emotional pain and the potential to give up myself and feel hopeless. Of course I feel that I have matured somewhat during the course of the past few years, and also have a solid grasp on what I need to do to maintain my remission and keep pushing forward.
Although I still have some bad habits, I do not completely neglect myself in the midst of such pain. I force myself to cook my meals, get outside the house, take care of my hygiene, and get exercise. As a youth, I would have just gotten drunk or high and spiraled into an exhausted and apathetic state. I cannot do this anymore, not after I have discovered that I have the capacity to feel well.
I feel blessed that I finally discovered some of the secrets behind my illness, and I feel compelled to move forward and unlock even more of my potential as my experience grows.
I just want to say that it is possible to overcome a lot of chronic problems, although everyone will have to discover his or her unique formula for success. I never would have believed that I could be healthy and able to deal with such stress even two or three years ago.
Posted by jeaner on December 1, 2010, at 17:38:27
In reply to Hombre's Going Through Some Heavy Stuff, posted by Hombre on December 1, 2010, at 0:20:49
I will give attention to God's words,I will incline my ear to His sayings. I will not let them depart from my eyes.I will keep them in my heart.They are life to me for I have found them, and they are health, healing, and medicine to all my flesh.[Proverbs 4:20-22] God bless
Posted by Hombre on December 1, 2010, at 19:13:36
In reply to Re: Hombre's Going Through Some Heavy Stuff, posted by jeaner on December 1, 2010, at 17:38:27
I appreciate your taking the time to share this verse with me. Tell me what this verse has taught you and how it helps you to cope with adversity. I appreciate your thoughts.
Posted by jeaner on December 1, 2010, at 21:50:00
In reply to Re: Hombre's Going Through Some Heavy Stuff, posted by Hombre on December 1, 2010, at 19:13:36
Thats a very good question, because it gives me a chance to say God is good. I was very ill I was to the point that I even asked him to let me die. When I did that it really scared me because for that split second I meant it.I realized I had a big problem . Not just physically but mentally. I knew The Lord from childhood but walked away . I knew anough to know that if I continued on the path I was on not taking care of my self , partying and such I was not doing what was right in God's eyes. I thought how can I ask Him to help me to heal me if I am living a life of what he called sin.I starting to read his word . I started to live my life for him ,the way he wanted me to live it.Things started to get better. I got a new outlook on my life. I started to gain wisdom though Him.I learned about health. I found some great doctors , one who helped me with diet and got me on raw foods and supplements. I believe this was all an answer to my prayers.He comforted me.He helped me to change my life for the better. What I found I never want to lose . I know that in Him in Christ is my healing and he is my strength.I found that sometimes a person has to get down really low before they finally look up and when they do they never want to look back.
Posted by morgan miller on December 14, 2010, at 22:37:52
In reply to Hombre's Going Through Some Heavy Stuff, posted by Hombre on December 1, 2010, at 0:20:49
What's up Hombre,
I'm sorry you are going through a trying time brotha. I'm guessing that the woman you have been trying to help recently is the same woman that you are going through a break up with. How are you handling everything right now? Do you know yet if you are going to have to relocate?
You appear to have reached a point in your life where you are stronger than ever. What a nice thing to realize, I'm happy for you.
Keep doing what you are doing and stay strong.
Thank you for your kind words and support on the Faith board where Bob blocked me for a few weeks, I really appreciate it.
Morgan
Posted by Hombre on December 15, 2010, at 1:28:39
In reply to Re: Hombre's Going Through Some Heavy Stuff, posted by morgan miller on December 14, 2010, at 22:37:52
Thanks for the support, morgan. Yes, I was trying to help my girlfriend, and myself, but time ran out. It's not what we want, but things are very complicated and there are obligations beyond our own needs that must be met.
I will be better able to work and take care of myself after relocating. Perhaps I will get back the lost confidence when I am able to do "my thing" a bit more freely. I feel my journey toward health still has a ways to go. I look forward to meeting the challenge.
I won't have a computer for a while, so pbabble might not be much a priority, but I'll still be wishing those who are fighting the good fight all the best. I know you'll find the healing you need in time. Take good care of yourself.
Hombre
Posted by BetweenDreams81 on December 25, 2010, at 12:51:08
In reply to Hombre's Going Through Some Heavy Stuff, posted by Hombre on December 1, 2010, at 0:20:49
Hombre, I am so sorry you have to go through such painful transitions. It sounds as though you have quite a few good tools in your toolbox to help you along the journey. If you ever need anything support or otherwise contact me anytime. I wish you and your friend peace and confidence to work through the tough times. I am not religious, but I do find much consolation in reading from Eckhart Tolle's works when I get stressed and feel as though things are beyond my control. My heart goes out to you.
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