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Posted by Robin David John on December 9, 2002, at 23:05:31
Dr Bob could you please remove Dreamerz post my dear mother ..i dont think that it is appropiate at this time with BarbaraCats ..loss ..that is so heartless to post something like that in her times of grief ..she has asked all to pray ..not be bitter...thankyou..Robin
Posted by Robin David John on December 9, 2002, at 23:09:50
In reply to Dreamerz PostDr BOB, posted by Robin David John on December 9, 2002, at 23:05:31
Its on social babble
Posted by Dreamerz on December 9, 2002, at 23:34:51
In reply to Dreamerz PostDr BOB, posted by Robin David John on December 9, 2002, at 23:05:31
I'm sorry I was not aware of Barabras post as I haven't seen her name before..delete it if you wish..Yes I am very bitter but has nothing to do with Barbara's post ...it's to do with circumstances that occured 'real life'yesterday.
Posted by IsoM on December 9, 2002, at 23:49:11
In reply to Dreamerz PostDr BOB, posted by Robin David John on December 9, 2002, at 23:05:31
Robin, I don't think Dreamer's post invalidates Barbara's at all. Even if was me that lost my Mom, I wouldn't connect Dreamer's hurt & disillusion with her mother with my loss, & feel she was being tactless. But that's me.
Posted by Robin David John on December 10, 2002, at 5:38:36
In reply to Re: Dreamerz PostDr BOB » Robin David John, posted by Dreamerz on December 9, 2002, at 23:34:51
Dreamerz..I understand that you needed to vent ..nothing against you my friend..Its just that BC will come back to read her post and will read yours ..i dont know her either,I dont know how she will take it, but it might not be the time for her to read something like your post..thats only my opinion...take care ..i am not fond of my mother either..take care
Robin
Posted by Dreamerz on December 10, 2002, at 11:04:30
In reply to Re: Dreamerz PostDr BOB » Dreamerz, posted by Robin David John on December 10, 2002, at 5:38:36
I agree it should be deleted..without realizing I guess I must of blindly scanned the title and flipped.
I am sorry.
Posted by Tabitha on December 10, 2002, at 14:20:57
In reply to Re: Dreamerz PostDr BOB » Robin David John, posted by Dreamerz on December 10, 2002, at 11:04:30
RDJ I understand you're trying to protect BarbaraCat's feelings, but Dreamer's post is a separate thread so is not to be taken as related to BarbaraCat's post. That's part of what I like about this site, there are different conversations going on at once, so people can pick and choose the ones they want to join. I just don't think it would be right to say that the presence of one thread makes others inappropriate. Dreamer's feelings toward her mother are every bit as important as anyone else's and she has a right to express them, even if it does come at the same time as BarbaraCat's tragic loss.
Posted by Robin David John on December 10, 2002, at 18:52:09
In reply to Re: Dreamerz PostDr BOB » Robin David John, posted by Dreamerz on December 10, 2002, at 11:04:30
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> I agree it should be deleted..without realizing I guess I must of blindly scanned the title and flipped.
> I am sorry.> i am so sorry too...your feelings count at any given time ..I was tired last night and just was feeling for BC .....please share your feelings ..as tabby said ..we pick and choose the threads we want to read..please no hard feelings ..I am very silent at times and speak up when I feel my opinion should be heard..maybe this was a time when I was wrong
If you like we could talk about our moms if you want to with me ..I certainly feel alot of resentment towards mine..and i know that unless i talk about her ,it ,lieing bitch ..i will never be able to respect my family again talk to you
soon if you want..take care ...
Robin
Posted by Dr. Bob on December 11, 2002, at 1:14:27
In reply to Re: Dreamerz PostDr BOB, posted by Robin David John on December 10, 2002, at 18:52:09
> If you like we could talk about our moms if you want to with me ..
Back on Psycho-Social-Babble, right? :-)
Bob
Posted by NikkiT2 on December 11, 2002, at 8:13:30
In reply to Dreamerz PostDr BOB, posted by Robin David John on December 9, 2002, at 23:05:31
I think you'r every cruel in invalidating Dreamerz post.... when I lost my dad, I didn't expect the whole world to stop talking baout their fathers.
Do e all have to take everyones elses feelings here into accoutn when we post what is causing us pain?? Should I not mention my fathers death (just coming up to the anniversary of it) becaus eit may cause pain to other people??
maybe we should all just stop posting the things that upset us, to make sure we don't cayse other people pain.
Nikki
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