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Posted by Greg on August 6, 2000, at 15:50:34
Hey Shar,
Wanted to check in and see how things are going. Did you read my post to you a few threads above this one?
Hugs,
Greg
Posted by shar on August 6, 2000, at 16:26:41
In reply to Hi Shar!, posted by Greg on August 6, 2000, at 15:50:34
Yes, I read your post (kind, generous person!) and felt really ashamed of myself for asking you about being mad at me. I have your e-mail address written down and have started to write you several times, but my "you dumb-ass" voice starts up and I abandon it.
I do not believe you did one thing at all to make me think you did not like me. I can do that all by myself by reading into something; I'm good at it!
It sounds so stupid now. I guess I felt out of touch, and knew you weren't feeling too good, and wanted to reach out, and your reply seemed sort of "just the facts" to me and I read into that that you must not want to have a personal relationship with me (I know, I know. I do this to myself! It was not you!).
That's pretty good, eh? Mind-reading via the internet.
So, then I obsessed for a while, and read other posts of yours, and mind-reading, and determined that I must have offended you.
Am I good at this or what????? (so embarrassing)
So, I think it was very thoughtful, kind, and generous of you to respond to me in your very caring way instead of "Ohhh, Bozohead.....What the hell are you talking about???"
I know you are busy, you are not feeling tip top, and you put a LOT of energy into this board and people. I do not need to mind-read you. You seem to tell someone if they hurt or upset you. So, you take care of yourself while caring for others.
Sigh. I took Tina's suggestion and registered for the Ladies of the Lite board.
I hope you are doing better, and even better every day. Thanks for your warm sharing, comforting words, and soothing manner.
Idiotically yours,
Shar
> Hey Shar,
>
> Wanted to check in and see how things are going. Did you read my post to you a few threads above this one?
>
> Hugs,
> Greg
Posted by Greg on August 6, 2000, at 17:20:28
In reply to Re: Hi Shar! » Greg, posted by shar on August 6, 2000, at 16:26:41
Shar,
No apology necessary, ever! I value your friendship very much and I want you to always remember that. I just wanted to make sure I hadn't suffered from "Open mouth, Insert foot" disease somewhere along the line and hurt your feelings. I am not always the most tactful person, especially lately. I hope you will tell me if I'm ever out of line. I want you and I want to be good friends for a very, very, very long time, OK? You are a guiding light here and I like having you around to illuminate me!
We have a real Mutual Admiration Society going here! I kinda like it!
E-mail me anytime you want to, no matter what mood you're in. I'm here for you when you need me.
Much love and many hugs,
GregP.S. I'll let Kerry know you're try to get in at LOTL and she'll set you up.
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