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Posted by Susan47 on April 11, 2005, at 14:48:55
Last summer I learned that like other women, I, too, have a G-spot. Mm-hm. And like Ada said earlier in writing, well, I finally feel like I "got it". At this advanced age, it almost feels like a shame. And I have no one but myself in my sex life, me and my imagination. So I've learned to take my imagination and the tiny moments I grab out of real life, and make a sex life for myself. And it's wonderful. And it's at the point where now I can think of this guy, and take some of those real and imagine things, and almost have an orgasm just from thought alone. It's wonderful, incredible. And it only happens when I feel good about myself, really good, like almost manic good.. hypo. Anyway, I strive to keep myself that way, and not being able to do that is such a comedown. I am completely addicted, for days at a time, to the idea of sex, of having sex with a desirable man, and him finding me desirable too. I've never once ever been really comfortable with my body, although there's nothing wrong with it, really, I don't think. I used to always think it was ugly.. well, from about hm... actually I didn't always used to think that.
What happened.
Posted by Spriggy on April 11, 2005, at 16:08:07
In reply to Sex and me, posted by Susan47 on April 11, 2005, at 14:48:55
Okay... I have "heard" of that certain spot before but I am not sure I have found it (or my husband has).
Without being too detailed (is that possible), could you tell others' of us how to find it or give directions to our husband's/partner/whomever? LOL
Like.. find belly button and go 30 degrees to the east, etc.. LOL
Oh my, this might be very, very interesting.
Posted by Larry Hoover on April 11, 2005, at 16:39:22
In reply to Re: Sex and me, posted by Spriggy on April 11, 2005, at 16:08:07
> Okay... I have "heard" of that certain spot before but I am not sure I have found it (or my husband has).
You would know.
> Without being too detailed (is that possible), could you tell others' of us how to find it or give directions to our husband's/partner/whomever? LOL
Inside front wall of the vagina, about the depth of my fingers.... ;-)
http://members.ozemail.com.au/~jdukes/docs/gstmp3.html
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> Like.. find belly button and go 30 degrees to the east, etc.. LOL
>
> Oh my, this might be very, very interesting.Yes, it might.
Lar
Posted by 10derHeart on April 11, 2005, at 17:25:37
In reply to Re: Sex and me » Spriggy, posted by Larry Hoover on April 11, 2005, at 16:39:22
Oh Larry, I've already told you not too long ago on one (or more) board(s) here, that you are just a really special and good man (paraphrasing a bit, but that's what I meant.)
Now, I must say it again...
"G" - you are a really, REALLY, good man
:-) Bravo, on behalf of women everywhere.PS - No blushing now, can you manage that?
Posted by Susan47 on April 11, 2005, at 17:28:12
In reply to Re: Sex and me » Spriggy, posted by Larry Hoover on April 11, 2005, at 16:39:22
Ah, larry, it sounds like you've found one before ;-) I like that your fingers are the right length. It would be a pain to have to dig, you know?
Posted by Susan47 on April 11, 2005, at 17:29:51
In reply to Re: Sex and me » Spriggy, posted by Larry Hoover on April 11, 2005, at 16:39:22
See now larry I can't even go to that site without getting hot. Terrible. So sad. Where is my PARTNER?????
It's getting to the point where I'm just about ready to off myself. Because there isn't one man IRL who attracts me enough.
Posted by Susan47 on April 11, 2005, at 17:31:01
In reply to Re: Sex and me, posted by Spriggy on April 11, 2005, at 16:08:07
Does Larry's website tell you how to find it yourself, because I can't read it and if it doesn't I can tell you. You can access it from the outside of your body as well, once you're sensitized.
Posted by Spriggy on April 11, 2005, at 18:21:50
In reply to Re: Sex and me » Spriggy, posted by Susan47 on April 11, 2005, at 17:31:01
Posted by Spriggy on April 11, 2005, at 18:27:33
In reply to Re: Sex and me » Spriggy, posted by Susan47 on April 11, 2005, at 17:31:01
Maybe I am just stupid but I never even knew there was such a thing as a woman and (can I say the word here?) ejaculation?
it's a good thing I read about it first, otherwise I might would've freaked myself and husband out.
My oh my. *shakes head in disbelief*
Posted by Susan47 on April 11, 2005, at 21:45:27
In reply to Where have I been?? LOL, posted by Spriggy on April 11, 2005, at 18:27:33
Pretty amazing stuff ... by the time I actually get around to trying this out with a real-life partner I hope I can still do it all ...
Posted by Larry Hoover on April 12, 2005, at 9:30:22
In reply to Re: Sex and me » Larry Hoover, posted by 10derHeart on April 11, 2005, at 17:25:37
> Oh Larry, I've already told you not too long ago on one (or more) board(s) here, that you are just a really special and good man (paraphrasing a bit, but that's what I meant.)
>
> Now, I must say it again...
>
> "G" - you are a really, REALLY, good man
> :-) Bravo, on behalf of women everywhere.Aww, gorsh! <Goofy voice> (from Donald Duck cartoons)
> PS - No blushing now, can you manage that?
I don't blush during sexual explorations, though.
;-)
Lar
Posted by 10derHeart on April 12, 2005, at 9:47:46
In reply to Re: Sex and me » 10derHeart, posted by Larry Hoover on April 12, 2005, at 9:30:22
>>I don't blush during sexual explorations, though.
Well, that's good to know - I think. Although I'm not sure I ought to be knowing it.
Hmmm, not blush, but *flush* maybe would be quite appropriate at those times? ;-)
Okay, now I have to change the dang subject.... {fans self}
Posted by Tamar on April 12, 2005, at 10:34:07
In reply to Re: Sex and me, posted by Spriggy on April 11, 2005, at 16:08:07
I like this thread!
I had been convinced for years that all that talk about a G-spot was a myth, but about a couple of months ago I found it. It took me a while to discover its full potential but now it seems to do everything it's supposed to do!
My poor husband has hardly slept a wink since, because of my constant demands. But he doesn't seem to be complaining.
Posted by AdaGrace on April 12, 2005, at 10:35:49
In reply to Sex and me, posted by Susan47 on April 11, 2005, at 14:48:55
Susan,
There are so many life factors in play with that special thing called the "O"
Medicine.
State of Mind.
Partner's willingness to be aware, concerned, and give a rat's a** about it.
Stress.
So many things......However....I know where the "G" is. Noone has ever even cared to find it themselves. I have to show. Then of course they don't stick around there long enough to get it to "perform".
I can't do it myself. I fail at that.
Posted by Susan47 on April 12, 2005, at 11:37:49
In reply to Re: Sex and me » Susan47, posted by AdaGrace on April 12, 2005, at 10:35:49
You won't always feel that way provided you get to love yourself. Really, I don't know how to keep that feeling always, but I try and when I do feel good regardless of outside influence, it's awesome. But like you said, it's hard to keep that feeling around when you don't have a person reinforcing how special you are.
Posted by Larry Hoover on April 12, 2005, at 11:49:35
In reply to Re: Sex and me » Susan47, posted by AdaGrace on April 12, 2005, at 10:35:49
> However....I know where the "G" is. Noone has ever even cared to find it themselves.
...yet.
> I can't do it myself. I fail at that.
There are, uhhh, specially constructed devices. (Not legal in all states. Seriously. Unbelievable, but true.)
Lar
Posted by Gabbi-x-2 on April 12, 2005, at 14:00:40
In reply to Re: Sex and me » AdaGrace, posted by Larry Hoover on April 12, 2005, at 11:49:35
> > However....I know where the "G" is. Noone has ever even cared to find it themselves.
>
> ...yet.
>
> > I can't do it myself. I fail at that.
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> There are, uhhh, specially constructed devices. (Not legal in all states. Seriously. Unbelievable, but true.)I don't think that's quite what she meant..
It's not always about devices, maps and technical accumen.>
>
Posted by Damos on April 12, 2005, at 17:15:17
In reply to Re: Where have I been?? LOL » Spriggy, posted by Susan47 on April 11, 2005, at 21:45:27
Can't believe it's been 12 years since I was in a position where I could have shared this pleasure with someone.... :-( huhhhhhhhhh, and it's not like I can 'keep my hand in' (so to speak) without a friend who wants to play. Maybe someday, just gotta keep hoping I guess.
Posted by Susan47 on April 12, 2005, at 21:47:39
In reply to Re: Where have I been?? LOL » Susan47, posted by Damos on April 12, 2005, at 17:15:17
omigodican'tbreathe
Posted by anastasia56 on April 13, 2005, at 0:05:13
In reply to TWELVE YEARS??? TWELVE YEARS????? » Damos, posted by Susan47 on April 12, 2005, at 21:47:39
Posted by Susan47 on April 13, 2005, at 9:37:59
In reply to Sex and me, posted by Susan47 on April 11, 2005, at 14:48:55
By the way men have their own version of a G-spot and I understand it's just as good as ours or better. It's their prostrate gland. It can be stimulated manually and it sends them right over the edge ... it would be terrible to be a man and lose a prostate to cancer, so guys, take care of that little gland .. it does a lot for you.
Posted by caraher on April 13, 2005, at 10:08:10
In reply to Sex and Him, posted by Susan47 on April 13, 2005, at 9:37:59
> By the way men have their own version of a G-spot and I understand it's just as good as ours or better. It's their prostrate gland. It can be stimulated manually and it sends them right over the edge ... it would be terrible to be a man and lose a prostate to cancer, so guys, take care of that little gland .. it does a lot for you.
Hmmm... I was wondering if there were some male equivalent. I've certainly heard of the prostrate gland but the only thing I've heard about doing anything manually with it involves doctors and rubber gloves, and precious little pleasure.
Posted by Susan47 on April 13, 2005, at 10:21:56
In reply to Re: Sex and Him, posted by caraher on April 13, 2005, at 10:08:10
I haven't done an internet search on it but IRL I know it's true .. I've always thought that must be part of the attraction driving some men to be bi, you know. The stimulation of that gland during sex. More women ought to know about that ... really. And more men ought to know about our spot, too. Sigh. I'm going to my grave without.
Posted by Tamar on April 13, 2005, at 11:04:34
In reply to Re: Sex and Him, posted by caraher on April 13, 2005, at 10:08:10
> Hmmm... I was wondering if there were some male equivalent. I've certainly heard of the prostrate gland but the only thing I've heard about doing anything manually with it involves doctors and rubber gloves, and precious little pleasure.Yeah, and there's not much pleasure when women go to doctor either, but that's because of the circumstances.
The prostate can be as difficult to access as the G-spot in women, and it can help to use one of the devices that Larry mentioned earlier. But it's essential to exercise caution because unless the device is specifically designed for anal use it could get lost in there, which would entail an embarrassing trip to a doctor!
Posted by Damos on April 13, 2005, at 17:11:54
In reply to TWELVE YEARS??? TWELVE YEARS????? » Damos, posted by Susan47 on April 12, 2005, at 21:47:39
HOORAY!! YIPPEE!! I've finally managed to make a beautiful woman breathless....he,he. =0)
BTW, thanks for the capitalisation Suze, once I'd finished sweeping up what was left of my shattered ego I LMAO and girl you shoulda seen all the heads pop up above the partitions in the internet cafe, it was like a scene from Caddyshack.
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