![[dr. bob]](/dr-bob-sm.gif)
Dr. Bob is Robert Hsiung, MD,
bob@dr-bob.orgShown: posts 3359 to 3383 of 3446. Go back in thread:
Posted by mystic on October 11, 2004, at 11:04:28
In reply to Re: where is Trucker, posted by trucker on October 11, 2004, at 10:41:42
Wow trucker that last post was really really uncalled for and really mean..how could you say that to someone "take your meds" wow I just dont know what to say...For one I'm definately done on this post this is out of control...
Best of everything to everyone...I"M DONE!!!!>>mystic
Posted by sexylexy on October 11, 2004, at 11:28:52
In reply to RE::: Trucker, posted by mystic on October 11, 2004, at 11:04:28
Hey Ya'll,
Lets remember that we are on internet posting and we are all dealing with horrible mental illness. Its hard to understand what "tone" someone is speaking in when they are writing on the internet also, sometimes our sad thoughts and feelings make us lash out at the ones we love and turn to for support.
We all need to band together to defeat these diseases that are holding us down. We are much better together than alone. If someone needs to post negitive thoughts or feelings, this is a supportive and healthy place to get them out.
Remember above all that each of us has thanked God for all of the wonderful people we have met on this board. I know I do each night, I know that I would not have made it as far as I have without your love and support.
Just my two cents!
Lexy
Posted by trucker on October 11, 2004, at 12:20:13
In reply to Re: where is Trucker » trucker, posted by verne on October 11, 2004, at 9:32:26
i noticed there is pleanty of support for the oh i am gaining weight, and i think i may switch meds cause of the weight.. but when it came to me weaning off the meds, crying over my friend not having time for me, and the selling and buying of my house you all had pleanty to say about that belly thing, but nothing to say about my broken heart and no support for the most stressful part of my life, the buying and selling of my house.. not to mention the bankrupsty, forced buy the death of my unborn baby. that i carried to term and still am being torchered over years later.. this is why the house, i love has to be sold.. not bad enought i have a grave, instead of a birthday to celebrtate. then i have to loose my house too. and GOD knows what else.... gee i think a dead baby and the loosing of a house and a bankruptcy, caus e i am in no condition to work, is a little more important than that little belly buldge.
trucker
//////////////////////////////////////////////////> Trucker,
>
> I don't post much on the social board. I have a hard time connecting to people cyberly. Anyway, I carefully read this entire thread and, believe me, you didn't do anything remotely wrong.
>
> If anything, you were being good-natured and I guess it was misunderstood. I hope you keep posting as long as it helps you.
>
> verne
Posted by mystic on October 11, 2004, at 12:42:12
In reply to Re: where is Trucker, posted by trucker on October 11, 2004, at 12:20:13
Please trucker have some respect for your still born baby and not refer to he/she as a dead baby!!!!!!..that is sooo disrespectful...We did have time for you..I have posted many times asking how you are doing and about the house and comforting you when jlynne was too sick to help you...I have been there asking about the house and the sale of the house and sent you e-mails as to the death of a close friend...you need to go back and read because I HAVE BEEN THERE FOR YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.....I DONT WANT TO HEAR IT ANYMORE..I have tried again and again and either you didnt write or you disappeared ..and when people are disappearing they are given their space and it has always been known ALWAYS..that we are all here for one another no matter what...!@!!...without having to say it everyday when someone is not responding!!!!!!!!!!!!!....I couldnt be any more mad than i am right now and this has got to stop....
I'm so sorry trucker that you have had to endure my complaining about belly weight..and my problems with my meds and I remember us going over your decision to go on the grapefruit diet and we all tried to help you with that and you just ended up fighting with everyone...so we have been there for you....You cannot help someone that doesnt want to be helped....
There is no reason to respond to this as I will not now or ever read these posts again...and I'm sure that Dr bob will not be pleased with this post...but to have you trash everyone for the things that they didnt do is an injustice to every kind loving sharing person on this post the people that i'm proud to call my friends and for the people that you shouldve called yours also...
I'm not like this and I have to tell you I couldnt be more ashamed of myself today for giving into this but didnt know what else to do...Good bye good luck and god bless...I hope that you got the response you were looking for it is alllll yours.....Mystic
Posted by Anakin on October 11, 2004, at 15:49:17
In reply to Re: where is Trucker, posted by newwife on October 10, 2004, at 22:58:31
oooooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhpbcpbc/////make your own judgement, make your own words, phrases and thoughts...if you get kicked off of a website for it, who cares!!! Newbride... roll with the punches,,,others opinions are mere obstacles.
i was so excited to see your name but so sad when i read your post. you know me and this was not about other peoples opinions, it was about mine. i dont roll with the punches when my feelings get involved and i thought you would be understanding. i dont think its funny and i wish i had support instead of sarcasm. aniken, i wish you had not posted that. obviosly you did not read all my posts. i hope you didnt.
I am a tad bit curious as to what was so sarcastic about what I wrote to you...When you are chatting on an internet thread, you have to ROLL with the punches, because sometimes others don't take things as you would like them too...
All I meant was that you spoke your mind and who cares about other peoples opinions or a PBC.This is getting to be too much. I dont like being tsk tsked...I get enough of that elsewhere.
Posted by newwife on October 11, 2004, at 15:55:08
In reply to newbride, posted by Anakin on October 11, 2004, at 15:49:17
you caught me on a bad day and i totally misunderstood your post. i owe you a huge apology. i hope you forgive me and i agree this is been taken way too far. i am really sorry.
Posted by Anakin on October 11, 2004, at 15:58:54
In reply to Re: aniken, posted by newwife on October 11, 2004, at 15:55:08
Good. Accepted and I apologize as well, if I seemed rude, I promise,I didn't mean to...as a matter of fact, I just polished off a bunch of daquiris and tried to be so careful about what I wrote...You know when you sit there and read something over and over again. Truce, I hope things get better. I really do. I guess everyone is just frustrated...There will be better days ahead.
Posted by newwife on October 11, 2004, at 16:16:36
In reply to Re: aniken, posted by Anakin on October 11, 2004, at 15:58:54
a drink does sound good about now. hmmm, yummy. i am glad that is streightened out. hope you are well, how is married life on your end?
Posted by anxious babe on October 11, 2004, at 19:25:29
In reply to Re: aniken, posted by newwife on October 11, 2004, at 16:16:36
I have just read the posts from today and I have to admit that I am totally discusted. What is going on with this board.
I don't even like coming on here anyone. I use to come here for support and reasurance whether it was about "belly fat" or "weight gain and switching meds" because I thought that this is where I could come for that kind of advice, but when I read the posts from today and found that someone had a problem with me or anyone else talking about those issues it really turned me off. Obviously those issues get the most attention because the majority of us are experiencing these problems.
This was always a place for me to come and find peace and people who were just like me, but now it is filled with too much negativity and bickering - I can get that at work or in my everyday routine.
I also heard from another board that someone was complaining about Mystic posting too much - boy is that a crock!!! Now we have people complaining about someone posting too much. I have heard it all today. This board is no different from everyday life and I don't need to come here and get aggravated.
The worst post of the day which really threw me for a loop was when one of our yo-yo's told another one to go and "take her meds" Oh my God that had to be the worst. I understand if someone is having a bad day, but to go and tell one of our own to do that is just way out of control for me.
Lexy your posts was so true, it's too bad everyone doesn't think like you - you are an angel my friend
Mystic, I am sorry you had to come on this board and get so upset today. I felt the same way when I read that nonsense. When is Dr. Bob going to intervene?
Well I have nothing else to say, but I am sorry that this board has turned in to this. I felt that we were always there for everyone and whatever issue they were dealing with at that point in their life. Obviously some of us didn't think so. I am sorry if my posting about weight gain from the Lexapro has offended anyone, but I will continue to talk about issues I have relating to the med that I am on until someone tells me otherwise....and that someone would have to be Dr. Bob.
I wish you all well.
anxious babe
Posted by gardenergirl on October 11, 2004, at 19:34:50
In reply to Re: What is going on?, posted by anxious babe on October 11, 2004, at 19:25:29
I sure picked an interesting time to start reading your posts in this thread. :O
I guess I'll see if things cool down and then try again. I know this is not your normal mode of posting.
Take care everyone.
gg
Posted by anxious babe on October 11, 2004, at 19:46:47
In reply to Re: What is going on?, posted by gardenergirl on October 11, 2004, at 19:34:50
Sorry GG, I wish you didn't have to read all this nonsense. Hopefully it will be all be resolved soon.
a babe
Posted by Anakin on October 11, 2004, at 19:56:12
In reply to Re: aniken, posted by newwife on October 11, 2004, at 16:16:36
It isnt too bad! We are used to each other since we lived together for two years beforehand:)
Posted by sexylexy on October 11, 2004, at 20:19:26
In reply to Re: What is going on?, posted by gardenergirl on October 11, 2004, at 19:34:50
GG,
Again I will appoligize for all this. We are usually a fun and friendly bunch of gals!! Ya'll come back now ya here???
Lexy
Posted by Dr. Bob on October 11, 2004, at 20:25:17
In reply to Re: What is going on?, posted by anxious babe on October 11, 2004, at 19:25:29
> you are quick to jump on me about somethng you should have understood..seems like everything here is one sided and selfish...
>
> trucker> why the heck are you being so rude?
>
> newwife> take your meds
>
> trucker> that last post was really really uncalled for and really mean..
>
> mystic> you all had pleanty to say about that belly thing, but nothing to say about my broken heart... gee i think a dead baby and the loosing of a house and a bankruptcy, caus e i am in no condition to work, is a little more important than that little belly buldge.
>
> trucker> that is sooo disrespectful...
>
> you just ended up fighting with everyone...
>
> to have you trash everyone for the things that they didnt do is an injustice to every kind loving sharing person on this post
>
> mystic> boy is that a crock!!!
>
> Oh my God that had to be the worst...
>
> anxious babePlease be sensitive to the feelings of others even if yours are hurt. Please don't post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down. I'm sorry if people have felt hurt by what I or others have or haven't posted, but can we try to get back to support?
If you or others have questions about this or about posting policies in general, or are interested in alternative ways of expressing yourself, please see the FAQ:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
Follow-ups regarding these issues should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Administration. They, as well as replies to the above posts, should of course themselves be civil.
Thanks,
Bob
Posted by Mrs. C on October 11, 2004, at 20:41:07
In reply to Mrs. C!! » Mrs. C, posted by jlynne on October 10, 2004, at 20:47:13
Hey Jlynne, Thanks for all the prayers. They must have worked cause I am feeling back to myself again today. I have been reading all the posts..whoa, lots of drama. I miss all the fun! Mrs. C
Posted by anxious babe on October 11, 2004, at 20:43:02
In reply to Re: Mrs. C!!, posted by Mrs. C on October 11, 2004, at 20:41:07
Drama is an understatement!! and Mrs. C I have been praying for you too!!
I am so glad you are feeling better....talk to ya soon.
a babe
Posted by Mrs. C on October 11, 2004, at 20:45:05
In reply to Re: struggling with the weight gain, posted by anxious babe on October 10, 2004, at 21:46:56
My advice is to accept yourself for who you are no matter how much you weigh. If you are a happier person now than before you started Lex, that is your answer. Only you can decide what you want more, being thin or being happy. How much do you weigh? Are you obese or just heavier than you would like to be? Look at yourself and think about it. Are you horribly fat or just not thin? Mrs C.
Posted by Mrs. C on October 11, 2004, at 20:47:53
In reply to RE:: Hey everyone, posted by trucker on October 10, 2004, at 22:35:57
That's just not true. We have been there for you many times! Maybe you are just feeling negative these days and feeling like nobody cares. I have been there myself and I know it sucks. Don't give up and leave this board. You need us more than ever. Of course you cannot be cheery all the time and we dont expect that. But we should be able to speak our minds here without worry. That's what friends do right? Keep posting, we love you here, remember that. Mrs. C
Posted by anxious babe on October 11, 2004, at 20:50:02
In reply to Re: struggling with the weight gain, posted by Mrs. C on October 11, 2004, at 20:45:05
I am 142 pounds, but I am use to being 122 pounds. Going from a size 6 to a size 12 is very discouraging. I understand what you mean and I do like myself however I am feely yucky from the extra weight.
I am feeling much better as far as the anxiety, but would feel much better if I could at least get into better shape for my health more so than appearance. I get out of breath if I climb a steep hill so I would very much like to be fit in a cardiovascular way.
Thanks for the advice Mrs. C.
a babe
Posted by Mrs. C on October 11, 2004, at 20:50:18
In reply to RE:: to trucker--please read soon, posted by newwife on October 10, 2004, at 22:52:59
Jess, you are fine and did nothing wrong. Neither did you Trucker. We are all friends here but we dont always have to agree. Let's please be kind to one another. That's all that matters. Mrs. C
Posted by Mrs. C on October 11, 2004, at 20:52:22
In reply to Everyone, posted by sexylexy on October 11, 2004, at 11:28:52
Lexy, great post. Just what I was thinking. Mrs. C
Posted by Mrs. C on October 11, 2004, at 20:54:32
In reply to Re: where is Trucker, posted by trucker on October 11, 2004, at 12:20:13
Trucker, you are way out of control. I have been supportive of you no matter what on this board as have many others. Perhaps you should be thinking of the many times we have all struggled to help eachother. Read back on some old posts cause your version of things is not what I remember. Mrs. C
Posted by gardenergirl on October 11, 2004, at 21:16:16
In reply to Re: What is going on?--, posted by sexylexy on October 11, 2004, at 20:19:26
No need to apologize. I'll be back. I'm in and out depdending on how busy I am. I just wanted to meet y'all.
Take care,
gg
Posted by newwife on October 11, 2004, at 21:40:53
In reply to Re: What is going on?, posted by anxious babe on October 11, 2004, at 19:25:20
my feelings were really hurt about the need to take your meds comment. i dont know what would spark trucker to be so angry, but i want this to go back to being a positive expereince too. i hope we can all move on and be a happy yo yo family again. i hope you are well. i would love how to hear about your life. love, jessica
Posted by newwife on October 11, 2004, at 21:45:42
In reply to Re: struggling with the weight gain, posted by Mrs. C on October 11, 2004, at 20:45:05
i could not have said it better myself. i bet none of you are fat, i bet you are all the hottest girls in town. hey, is oprah thin, i dont think so! haha
Go forward in thread:
Psycho-Babble Social | Extras | FAQ
Dr. Bob is Robert Hsiung, MD,
bob@dr-bob.org
Script revised: February 4, 2008
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/cgi-bin/pb/mget.pl
Copyright 2006-17 Robert Hsiung.
Owned and operated by Dr. Bob LLC and not the University of Chicago.