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Posted by Mrs. C on April 20, 2004, at 7:35:05
In reply to Cool song..., posted by Anakin on April 19, 2004, at 22:09:26
Anakin, I love that song and remember it when it first came out. They don't play it much anymore. Thanks for posting it. Have a great day today and remember you are not alone! Mrs. C
Posted by kittycat on April 20, 2004, at 9:12:35
In reply to Re: married » kittycat, posted by Magdalena on April 16, 2004, at 11:41:59
I'm taking 20mg cypramil which I think is the same or similar to celexa. I've been on it for about 7 weeks now. It is helping but really slowly. The last couple of days have been pretty tough. But mostly from my own doing. It was my birthday over the weekend so I went out with some friends and landed up drinking too much. Apart from the humilation it always sends me back into depression for about a week. Anyway, live and learn I guess. I have decided to take a month out from socialising to get my mind straight and get to know myself again. I have been depressed for so long that I have forgotten who I am. I am only just starting to enjoy the things that I used to love again. I think it might be healthy to concentrate on that for now. I do think that it might be necessary to increase the dosage that I'm taking, but for now I'll stick where I am and battle through it. Any thoughts?
> hey kittykat, i know how difficult it is and its been 4 years since i left that relationship and only now am i starting to really deal with the after effects. I really want a normal relationship where there is no insecurities and complete trust but then i wonder does anyone really have that? what defines normal? I think the fact that we are trying this again, shows that maybe we arent as 'relationship deviant' as we think, and somehow this could be the very thing that can help us heal.
> I'm glad you posted and yes it does sound like we are in the very same boat, what i have realized is that its normal to have insecurities but not to dwell on them because that can have its own devestating effects...easier said than done i know but i am working on it;)
>
> Are u also on Lexapro? i am on paxil and its only been a little over a month, still sleepy and tired as hell, hopeing to get over that though.
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> Thanks for sharing with us, i hope you get the courage to post again, everyone here is so wonderful and helpful.:)
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> you are not alone.}
>
> Magdalena
Posted by LynneDa on April 20, 2004, at 9:55:34
In reply to Cool song..., posted by Anakin on April 19, 2004, at 22:09:26
I love the sunscreen song too! It was originally written by Chicago Tribune columnist Mary Schmich - I think as a speech to a local graduating class. Very clever.
It sounds as if everyone is doing really well. I don't have time to write much unfortunately, but wanted everyone to know I'm reading the posts and happy to hear of everyone's progress . . . I especially like the yo-yo sisterhood and the Oprah visit!
Love & peace to you all,
Lynne
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Posted by jlynne on April 20, 2004, at 11:35:34
In reply to Hey, trucker - i'm in open (nm), posted by jlynne on April 19, 2004, at 21:49:36
Posted by Magdalena on April 20, 2004, at 12:14:20
In reply to Re: married, posted by kittycat on April 20, 2004, at 9:12:35
first off, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! it seems its the season for birthdays i have a ton of them comming up. Do you mind me asking why you feel so embaressed about drinking too much at your birthday? did you do something tottaly out of character? i have mostly observed that in those cases its not as bad as you think, everyone else around you is just as intoxicated if not more than you are so events will seem vauge and fuzzy. I'd say dont worry too much about it, plus it was your birthday you are allowed to kick back and relax. I have dont some tottaly embaressing things while drunk but i just said well next time i am going to NOT drink as much cause the worst things i ever do while drunk is like pass out in the girls washroom then have bouncers from the club have to carry me outside and find who i belong to...lol...that was bad, but i survived, that was my 20th b-day i think too. haha. we all do dumb things once in a while we are human its ok, dont worry people are too busy worrying about themselves to alalyze what you were doing.
I think it is a good idea to rediscover yourself again, as i am doing that very thing myself, my friend just let me borrow her paints cause in highschool i loved to paint, and play my guitar and go hiking andgo dancing ( i havent done that since summer). so it is good to do those things, but it is also good to keep those you love close too, you dont have to go drinking, maybe go see a movie? or sit together and watch a fav. show? whatever it is you like to do but sometimes its just as good with a friend.
Good luck to you, i myslelf am still battaling getting used to this medication, all i want to do is sleep all day and its pretty unmotavating.
keep in touch and let us know about your progress!!
Mag
Posted by KathrynLex on April 20, 2004, at 14:34:44
In reply to Re: married, posted by Magdalena on April 20, 2004, at 12:14:20
Hi Guys,
I know I haven't been posting much over here on social...but please know that I do read the posts. You are all so wonderful, it's nice to hear that things are going well for so many of you. You're all terrific people and deserve to be happy.
Just give you an update...I saw my pdoc this morning and complained that my energy and concentration levels are only up to about 70% of what I think they should be. He prescribed a low dose of Ritalin to take instead of the Wellbutrin. I'm a little nervous about the Ritalin but figure it doesn't hurt to try it.
I hope all of you continue to do well and have a great day!
K.
Posted by Anakin on April 20, 2004, at 14:42:54
In reply to Re: married, posted by Magdalena on April 20, 2004, at 12:14:20
You guys....AGAIN. Today...First period one kid smacked another kid...Ok I can deal with that...LUNCHTIME these two girls got in an ALL OUT BRAWL, and once again, I had to pull them apart...The pulled some of the embrodiary on my shirt and knocked my glasses off. I had a good grab and whipped the girl around, but then I was SO MAD I started hyperventiating after I dropped the girl off with the officer I had to send myself to time out for a bit, shaky crying TOFUNING...The I regained composure...I go back the the cafe and a girl and a boy in my class sling katsup all over each other and get it on my white shirt...went about teaching my afternoon hour and wouldnt you know it right in front of me...RIGHT in front of me I kept telling this girl she needed to go sit down because she wouldnt let up on this other girl calling her names and what not, then she SLAPS her in the face...I growled VERY loudly GET OUT NOW...The vice principal heard it and got her...These people I work with must think I am a freak, but it all keeps happening around me. Can I tell you I have 28 days to go this year, more than that with wknds, but I dont know if I can do it...What if I get hit in the face and my face is all messed up for the wedding...dont think, oh that wont happen, because look what is happening!!!!You might think what in the world does this girl teach? I had the coolest of the cool technology today, each kid gets remote and you pop the question on the screen and they click in their answer, it is like a video game,engaging exciting promotes fighting!!!I can't win...Prayers...A lot of the kids apologized to me today, even ones that werent in the class. One said I wanted to tell you I am sorry because i said something mean to you yesterday but you didnt hear me, and I feel bad. Then another one who wouldnt work said the same, he was sorry. So i dont feel stoopid for crying anymore, just stoopid for picking this destiny!!!
Posted by sexylexy on April 20, 2004, at 16:14:12
In reply to Hello!, posted by KathrynLex on April 20, 2004, at 14:34:44
K ...
Hey, Its good to know that you are still with us. I have not been posting much lately either. I am superbusy trying to pack and finish grad school. I am thinking about giving the Wellbutrin/lex combo a whril. I just am a little nervous about another medication. Did they Wellbutrin make any difference in your depression??? also did you lose any weight on it???
Thanks, God Bless
Lexy
Good luck on ritlan
Posted by KathrynLex on April 20, 2004, at 17:30:14
In reply to Re: Hello!, posted by sexylexy on April 20, 2004, at 16:14:12
Hi Lexy,
Whew. Packing can be exhausting. Don't you look at all the boxes and wonder how you acquired so much stuff? I'm really excited for you, you're graduating soon and heading home to a loving family...not to mention a wonderful boyfriend! Having that support system will go a long way towards helping you beat your depression.
I've had a pretty positive experience with Wellbutrin. The initial adjustment period isn't bad at all. And the good news is, if you don't like it you can stop at any time without experiencing withdrawl.
Definately start at a low dose, I recommed 100 mgs. It's really helped with my mood and somewhat with my energy level. I can get out of bed after about 10 minutes now. Before the Wellbutrin it took me 30 minutes to wake up...and about an hour before I felt like functioning.
I haven't lost any weight on Wellbutrin, but a lot of people do. But I haven't gained any weight either. :)
I hope this helps.
K.
Posted by sexylexy on April 20, 2004, at 17:36:14
In reply to Re: Hello! » sexylexy, posted by KathrynLex on April 20, 2004, at 17:30:14
Posted by sexylexy on April 20, 2004, at 17:41:04
In reply to Re: Hello! » sexylexy, posted by KathrynLex on April 20, 2004, at 17:30:14
Hey Ya'll
Wow! I cannot believe school is coming to an end so soon. I am soooooooo glad to be going home. I am wondering how in the world can I have so much stuff in one apartment!!! I appreciate the song you sing me Mystic. I think it is sooo sweet and makes my day every day. My life is going to get really crazy in the next few days so if I do not post know I am probably reading and for sure praying for everyone!!!!!
Love Ya!
Lexy
Posted by trucker on April 20, 2004, at 18:03:11
In reply to RE:: Lexy » Anakin, posted by Simus on April 19, 2004, at 21:21:43
SORRY ABOUT THE KIDS ... MAKIN YA CRY... WHEN NOTHING ELSE WORKS SOMETIMES TEARS WILL BRING THEM TO THEIR SENSES... IF IT DOESN'T THERE ISN'T ALLOT OF HOPE FOR THEM..
TRUCKER
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Posted by trucker on April 20, 2004, at 18:06:24
In reply to Hey trucker, posted by mystic on April 19, 2004, at 22:07:22
I AM HANGING IN THERE... I HAD AN INTERVIEW YESTERDAY AND WAS WOOPED WHEN I CAME HOME... I AM OVER ON OPEN MORE THAN HERE I GO BY MEADBABYBUG OVER THERE...I AM GOING TO BE A DIESEL MECHANICE... AND I AM A SHOE IN ANY WHERE BECAUSE THEY HAVE TO HAVE SO MANY WOMAN.. HA HA
> Hey trucker where ya been??>>>how are you doing???...Hope that you are doing good and had a good monday....Mystic
Posted by mystic on April 20, 2004, at 18:09:25
In reply to AGAIN, posted by Anakin on April 20, 2004, at 14:42:54
Hey mag...I wouldve done the same thing had to get myself together you are going through a brutal time and you are doing wonderful...you had kids apoligize some adults dont even do that...You will be fine trust me just keep doing what you are doing and have confidence my friend...Take care and hope tomorrow is better...Luvya Mystic
Posted by mystic on April 20, 2004, at 18:12:07
In reply to RE:: Mag, posted by mystic on April 20, 2004, at 18:09:25
Hey K...good to hear from you...Hope you are feeling better soon...take care...Keep us posted...Mystic
Posted by mystic on April 20, 2004, at 18:14:12
In reply to RE:: Mag, posted by mystic on April 20, 2004, at 18:09:25
Ok Ok Ok..sorry if simus sees the last post she is really going to think I'm drinking ahah all the time...I meant to say Anakin sorry she is the one having trouble at school...sorry simus dont want to hear it..hahhahahaha wahhhh....I meant to say hi to mag also though...me off to cook supper before i write to someone else by mistake..Mystic
Posted by sexylexy on April 20, 2004, at 18:18:58
In reply to RE:: Ok OK Ok, posted by mystic on April 20, 2004, at 18:14:12
Mystic,
Whats for dinner, Im on my way over! I had green beans tonight, yuck. I need some good cooking,
Love ya
Lexy
Posted by trucker on April 20, 2004, at 18:21:47
In reply to TRUCKER, WHERE ARE YOU?? (nm), posted by jlynne on April 20, 2004, at 11:35:34
HEY I HAD THAT INTERVIEW REMEMBER??? TODAY WELL I PLAY CATCH UP..
TRUCKER
Posted by mystic on April 20, 2004, at 21:01:30
In reply to RE:: Ok OK Ok, posted by sexylexy on April 20, 2004, at 18:18:58
Lexy...dinner was steak was gross hubby overcooked it..hahahha...and made some veggies (zuccini, summer squash, garlic, and mushrooms and a salad..mm was pretty good...and I buy those parfaits at McDonalds they are yogurt and fruit you should try them they are only 3 weight watchers points and worth every penny...Well hope that you ate something else besides green beans....Take care...Mystic
Posted by jlynne on April 20, 2004, at 21:33:44
In reply to Re: TRUCKER, WHERE ARE YOU?? » jlynne, posted by trucker on April 20, 2004, at 18:21:47
Trucker, I remembered the interview . . . forgot that you live in the boonies!! It only takes me half-hour to get to any business I might need to take care of:~)
see you in Open??
...jlynne
> HEY I HAD THAT INTERVIEW REMEMBER??? TODAY WELL I PLAY CATCH UP..
>
> TRUCKER
Posted by mystic on April 20, 2004, at 22:04:32
In reply to RE::: Hey Lexy, posted by mystic on April 19, 2004, at 22:11:20
Hey Lexy....GUUUEEEESSSS WHAT...yup you got it... only 2 more days 2 more days..dooowappppa...2 more days and you'll be home or on your way and you will be happy happy happy...you will be on your way..2 more days...Bet you cant wait to get home and I will stop singing..hahah...Well hope that you have a great day tomorrow it is hump day Wednesday....Hey did I mention that you only have 2 more days 2 more days..hahah wahhhdooowappp..mystic
Posted by kittycat on April 21, 2004, at 3:23:54
In reply to Re: married, posted by Magdalena on April 20, 2004, at 12:14:20
I struggled with the cyprimal for the first 4 or 5 weeks. Horrible side effects, constant nausea, dizziness, headaches, anxiety of note!! One of my problems is major anxiety problems, so that was pretty difficult. I also suffered with lethargy. I still struggle to get out of bed on weekends. All I want to do is sleep which is quite frustrating for my boyfriend. I am really hoping that will pass because it feels like such a waste sleeping my weekends away. I am carrying quite a lot of weight so I really need to get some exercise, but I just don't seem to have the energy. I'm hoping that will increase as well.
The embarrasment about drinking is probably just paranoia. You're absolutely right, everyone else was also pretty tanked, but I always feel guilt and anxiety about losing complete control of my tongue and getting a bit wobbly on my feet.
My own insecurities playing with my mind again.
But the depression after a heavy night is too much for me to handle at this point in time. I've starting cooking and reading again. Which are things that I used to really love and just lost interest in. Doing those things make me feel good again which is a step in the right direction.
I will stay close to my friends, but only the ones that aren't into the drinking scene. I have a very good support structure and I wouldn't want to lose that, or shut my friends out.
I am having a pretty good day today, finally managed to get some sleep last night.I hope that you are feeling good today!
Thanks Mag.
> first off, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! it seems its the season for birthdays i have a ton of them comming up. Do you mind me asking why you feel so embaressed about drinking too much at your birthday? did you do something tottaly out of character? i have mostly observed that in those cases its not as bad as you think, everyone else around you is just as intoxicated if not more than you are so events will seem vauge and fuzzy. I'd say dont worry too much about it, plus it was your birthday you are allowed to kick back and relax. I have dont some tottaly embaressing things while drunk but i just said well next time i am going to NOT drink as much cause the worst things i ever do while drunk is like pass out in the girls washroom then have bouncers from the club have to carry me outside and find who i belong to...lol...that was bad, but i survived, that was my 20th b-day i think too. haha. we all do dumb things once in a while we are human its ok, dont worry people are too busy worrying about themselves to alalyze what you were doing.
>
> I think it is a good idea to rediscover yourself again, as i am doing that very thing myself, my friend just let me borrow her paints cause in highschool i loved to paint, and play my guitar and go hiking andgo dancing ( i havent done that since summer). so it is good to do those things, but it is also good to keep those you love close too, you dont have to go drinking, maybe go see a movie? or sit together and watch a fav. show? whatever it is you like to do but sometimes its just as good with a friend.
>
> Good luck to you, i myslelf am still battaling getting used to this medication, all i want to do is sleep all day and its pretty unmotavating.
>
> keep in touch and let us know about your progress!!
>
> Mag
Posted by Magdalena on April 21, 2004, at 11:38:39
In reply to Re: married » Magdalena, posted by kittycat on April 21, 2004, at 3:23:54
im glad to hear you are doing ok today. My probelm is major anxiety too the depression is kinda right along side of it though, i think its due to the fact that i dont feel like myself. I read too, its relaxing and well depending on what you read it can be exciting too! Im a big Anne Rice fan but im not limited to just that, i sleep all the time too...i cant help it like 10 hours min..and it is fustrating, im gonna ask my p-doc about it on my next appointment. i hope it wears off cause it takes me over!
i drank for the first time since my increase last friday and let me tell you the headache i woke up with the next day..:S..horrible. sigh, well maybe its for the best cause before i started these meds i would drink almost everyday, i guess its how i self medicated the anxiety, as you probabbly know while drinking the anxiety is almost non-existant!
hope you continue to do well, keep in touch!
(hug)
Mag
Posted by sexylexy on April 21, 2004, at 14:48:40
In reply to RE::: Hey Lexy, posted by mystic on April 20, 2004, at 22:04:32
Hey Ya'll.
Today was my last day of work. It was very bittersweet because the only thing I like about being up here is my job and the people work with. They thew me a party where I ate way too much pizza...There goes the 3lbs that I lost. Well I hope everyone is having a good day. I am so so so so excited about going home. I am still packing and it is impossible. Oh well, I am doing it gladly, I just wish it were not pouring rain here!!!! Well God Bless you all!
Lexy
Posted by KathrynLex on April 21, 2004, at 16:59:08
In reply to RE::: Hey Lexy, posted by sexylexy on April 21, 2004, at 14:48:40
Hi Lexy,
I'll bet it's a huge relief to be done with work...now you can focus on going home and getting well!
K.
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