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Posted by wantinfo on March 3, 2004, at 17:21:50
In reply to Re: lex and time of the month? (more), posted by KathrynLex on March 3, 2004, at 16:13:42
thank you kathryn! i was thinking that because i'd been on paxil for so long that i might have an easier time adjusting to the lex than others. that doesnt seem to be the case. i do take xanax...usually .25 mg a day can get me through.
my worst symptom is the feeling of unreality. its like i rationally know where i am, what im doing, etc...but i somehow feel like i dont. does that make sense?
you all are so helpful, and im grateful to have found you! emily
Posted by sexylexy on March 3, 2004, at 17:29:33
In reply to Re: lex and time of the month? » vandy, posted by simus on March 3, 2004, at 0:27:56
Hey Vandy,
Thanks for all your post you give a lot of hope. As for the person with possible suicidal ideation, I can tell you what they teach us to do in graduate school( am getting my masters in clinical social work and a therepist at the University of Louisville). The biggest thing is to be there for the person, do not just tell the person that you care for them, show them, it is ureal how many people say they care but do not go though the actions. Also it is good to sit down with the person and talk to them how excited you are and they could be about that persons life and what lies ahead. Also let them know that depression treatable in 90% of people. Also for the most part, depression comes in episodes but for the most part ends. Let the person know that there are others who feel as bad as they do, refer them to support groups as well as crisis centers! Good luck.. love is the most important weapon on keeping people alive.
Lexy
Posted by sexylexy on March 3, 2004, at 17:43:21
In reply to Re: lex and time of the month? (more), posted by wantinfo on March 3, 2004, at 17:21:50
Emily~
I remember those feelings of unreality. My pdoc said that 50% of people on SSRIs get them. They do go away so be happy of that, mine was gone in about 4 or 5 weeks. I remember looking at shoes in the mall and not being able to really even understand what I was looking at (but of course I knew what I was looking at) very strange. When I was leaving the mall I actually had people running into me and I was just kind of floating around. That was the worst time but it happened again at the mall and Target. It did go away which is nice, just hang on!
Lexy
Posted by KathrynLex on March 3, 2004, at 17:54:40
In reply to Re: lex and time of the month? (more), posted by wantinfo on March 3, 2004, at 17:21:50
Hi Emily,
I know exactly what you mean about the feelings of unreality. Like Lexy suggested, they could be caused by the Lexapro...if that's the case it should go away soon. Give it another week or so.
Another option is that it's caused by anxiety. When I had feelings of unreality on Lexapro it wasn't the Lex causing it, it was a panic attack. The Lex kept it from turning into a full blown panic attack so I just had the symptoms of one. (i.e. the feeling of not quite knowing where I was etc...) If that's the case, you might want to look in to increasing your Lex or Xanax dose.
I'm glad I can help. That's what this board is for. I don't think I could've made it this far without the support of everyone here!
K.
Posted by KathrynLex on March 3, 2004, at 17:55:54
In reply to Re: lex and time of the month? (more) » wantinfo, posted by sexylexy on March 3, 2004, at 17:43:21
Hi Lexy,
I just wanted to check in and see how your increase is going? Are you feeling any better or noticing any side effects?
K.
Posted by sexylexy on March 3, 2004, at 18:15:46
In reply to Sexylexy...How are you?, posted by KathrynLex on March 3, 2004, at 17:55:54
K~
Thanks for asking, its nice to know that someone is thinking of me. Today is day 2 of 15mg. I feel a little flat, tired and spacey but nothing like I felt when I first started lex. I am hoping the side effects go away pretty soon. Hopefully from there I will start to notice improvement. Its odd that you had a panic attack this weekend, I had a small one Friday night (my first in a long time. It was probably my fault though, I was at a ball with my boyfriend and had two martinis... bad lexy, bad...How are you doing... what have you noticed on 15 that 10 did not bring? Thanks, God Bless,
Lexy
Posted by sexylexy on March 3, 2004, at 18:21:36
In reply to Re: lex and time of the month? (more), posted by KathrynLex on March 3, 2004, at 17:54:40
Hey Ya'll
Today is day two on 15 mg of lex. I am feeling a little spacey/tired and flat but know those will go away pretty soon. They are much milder than when I began lex.
I know many of you are on 15mg and 20mg. Can you tell me what the differences you saw from 10mg to the higher doseage. I felt about up to 70%-75% but just not really *happy* and really un confident which is a very new thing for me. Please give me some good news!!!
God Bless,
Lexy
Posted by mystic on March 3, 2004, at 18:21:41
In reply to Re: lex and time of the month? » marfaith, posted by tmhwrite on March 3, 2004, at 9:15:10
Thanks Theresa....Today was a little rough also...about the same as yesterday....one more day of work this week and see what happens after that...Thank you for responding to my post and I'm hanging in there as I hope that you are also..Take care Mystic
Posted by sexylexy on March 3, 2004, at 18:22:06
In reply to Re: lex and time of the month? (more), posted by KathrynLex on March 3, 2004, at 17:54:40
Hey Ya'll
Today is day two on 15 mg of lex. I am feeling a little spacey/tired and flat but know those will go away pretty soon. They are much milder than when I began lex.
I know many of you are on 15mg and 20mg. Can you tell me what the differences you saw from 10mg to the higher doseage. I felt about up to 70%-75% but just not really *happy* and really un confident which is a very new thing for me. Please give me some good news!!!
God Bless,
Lexy
Posted by mystic on March 3, 2004, at 18:22:11
In reply to Re: lex and time of the month? » marfaith, posted by tmhwrite on March 3, 2004, at 9:15:10
Thanks Theresa....Today was a little rough also...about the same as yesterday....one more day of work this week and see what happens after that...Thank you for responding to my post and I'm hanging in there as I hope that you are also..Take care Mystic
Posted by tmhwrite on March 3, 2004, at 19:02:11
In reply to Thanks Theresa, posted by mystic on March 3, 2004, at 18:22:11
Hello Mystic and all,
Well as much as I planned to try to take it easy (or at least easier) today, it sure didn't turn out that way. I've been looking for work for a while now in addition to doing real estate just to bring in some money after getting laid off in March of last year (which has been very difficult considering my state of mind). So finally, I get a really nice client to work with, I'm pulling up info for her and doing some reports, and a magazine I've done some freelance work for calls and wants me to do another article for them with a one-week deadline (which they promised they wouldn't do to me again because these are not easy one-week articles--they take a lot of research and multple interviews), and then I get a great lead on a tech writing job and have an interview set up for Fri. (They wanted to set it up for tomorrow but I have a seminar in the morning --early, which I don't do well-- and am showing houses in the afternoon). Plus, today I had to take my car into the shop, meet with another possible client, and take my kids to the dentist. I know I'm rambling, but I tell you, with all we have to do in this world just to survive these days, it's no wonder we need medication! I have to do anything I can at this point in time just to make money to pay the mortgage!
Sorry for whining. Please keep me in your thoughts and prayers that I don't have another meltdown over the next few days. When I get overworked and overwhelmed and overanxious that's when my body decides to just shut down and I can't let that happen. I really need some steady income and I need to be at my best. Thanks.
Theresa
Posted by tmhwrite on March 3, 2004, at 19:06:15
In reply to Thanks Theresa, posted by mystic on March 3, 2004, at 18:22:11
At least you did make it through this day, Mystic. That's one more rough day down and one day closer to feeling better and happier. I'm rooting for you to be happy again and laughing and enjoying your life.
Theresa
Posted by mystic on March 3, 2004, at 19:19:00
In reply to Re: mystic, posted by LynneDa on March 3, 2004, at 9:22:20
Lynne...Thank you sooo much for your words..And yes I do have a wonderful sister and husband that help me tremendously..but sometimes it doesnt help...My husband tries to understand but he just doesnt have the an idea of how to help but he is there with support and love...Today was another rough one but got through and I'm grateful I just keep praying that the next day will be better..It was 4 weeks total on Lexapro today and I was hoping I would feel better than I do right now..I do have an appt with my Dr on Friday and think his suggestion will be to up the dosage to 15mg which will be very hard for me as the phobias about the meds really set in..I'm afraid that the feelings will be stronger and that I will start to gain weight again..I have been taking my xanax but only once a day and trying to suffer through the nights..I just want to feel better I just want to stop feeling soooo sad...Thank you for the help I'm sooo very grateful..Mystic
Posted by mystic on March 3, 2004, at 19:31:52
In reply to So Much for a Low Stress Day... » mystic, posted by tmhwrite on March 3, 2004, at 19:02:11
Theresa...You have a special prayer tonight here from me...A prayer that you have a stressless productive next couple of days and that you will be fine....I'll be thinking of ya...Mystic
Posted by KathrynLex on March 3, 2004, at 19:44:47
In reply to Questions at 15mg or 20mg, posted by sexylexy on March 3, 2004, at 18:22:06
Hi Lexy,
I felt "spacy/tired" for about two weeks after I increased to 15 mgs. Then I began noticing that my mood swings evened out, negative thinking patterns disappeared, I enjoy social interactions again and I'm back to about 85% to 90% of my "old self." It has been really nice. Please keep us all posted on your progress and I'm rooting for you to get better!
K.
Posted by mystic on March 3, 2004, at 19:46:18
In reply to Re: lex and time of the month? (more), posted by want info on March 3, 2004, at 11:31:12
Hello Emily ...I also went right from Paxil 10mgs to Lexapro 10mgs without any time in between I'm not sure if that is the reason why I am soooo depressed...I have been on Lexapro 4 weeks today also...I am taking .5 of xanax once a day and it helps but cannot wait until the day comes that I dont worry all the time and feel sad...My prayers are with you and you are in the right place..These wonderful people are the most caring and they help you more than you can imagine..>So you are in my prayers and I'm right there with you...Take care...Mystic
Posted by sexylexy on March 3, 2004, at 20:17:24
In reply to Questions at 15mg or 20mg, posted by sexylexy on March 3, 2004, at 18:22:06
Hey Ya'll
I have been increasing for the past few days, from 12.5mg to now 15mg. I am feeling really irritable towards my boyfriend. He has not done anything annoying but I just feel like snapping at him, luckily I have not. Has anyone else noticed this, does it go away. I hate this feeling of anger/annoyance isn't lexapro supposed to help with this???
Lexy
Posted by Journeyman on March 3, 2004, at 20:41:53
In reply to Re: Questions at 15mg or 20mg, posted by KathrynLex on March 3, 2004, at 19:44:47
Hi K,
How's the running going? Glad to hear the effects of upping your dose are evening out and that you're feeling pretty good.
Journeyman
Posted by Journeyman on March 3, 2004, at 20:57:45
In reply to So Much for a Low Stress Day... » mystic, posted by tmhwrite on March 3, 2004, at 19:02:11
Hi Theresa,
I'd say that given everything you juggled today, you did well to find as much time as you did to 'ramble.' You're right, it is a little on the obscene side how much we have to do sometimes just to meet the basics.
You will get through the next 48 hours. You will not only get through it, but you may very well have some good things happen as a result of it.
You are good at your job; your skills don't hide themselves when you post here. Congratulations on the job lead and interview for Friday. They'll be lucky to get you (and maybe you can sell them some real estate while you're at it).
Your body's not going to shut down. You can count on it, and it can count on you to do what's best for it.
There's just one thing that surprises me about your post today. You mentioned you have kids, right? What in God's Creation do you mean, "Well as much as I planned to try to take it easy today, it sure didn't turn out that way." Theresa, has having kids not taught you that lesson yet? Over the past 2 years and 11 months, I've had that one reinforced every day. I no longer assume anything.
Best wishes for an end to your week that's not only successful, but also enjoyable.
Journeyman
Posted by Journeyman on March 3, 2004, at 21:06:31
In reply to Re: mystic, posted by LynneDa on March 3, 2004, at 9:22:20
Lynne,
Hi - How are things? Any movement on the idea of accepting those dark beings in and getting to know them rather then bolting the door?
I was visiting the zoo recently and saw the rather large American Alligator on exhibit there. I couldn't help thinking, I'd much rather ride that thing than fight it. Thought of you and wondered how you are.
Your presence here is like a good quilt on a cold night. Thanks for the comfort you bring to so many.
Journeyman
Posted by mystic on March 3, 2004, at 21:07:05
In reply to Theresa, posted by Journeyman on March 3, 2004, at 20:57:45
Wow journeyman...I've been reading the posts for the last 3 weeks since starting Lexapro and the people are pretty lucky on here to have you and your feedback you are very inspirational and you have a great way with words...Thanks for helping in the past with your posts that I've read..It is a struggle every day for me to figure out how to go on but you help thanks..Mystic
Posted by mrs c on March 3, 2004, at 21:19:34
In reply to Dramatic unexpected side effect of Lexapro, posted by kellieann7 on March 3, 2004, at 12:08:40
Kelliann, thanks for the chuckle and for explaining the aching I have been having in my wrist recently! Mrs. C
Posted by mrs c on March 3, 2004, at 21:32:24
In reply to Thanks Theresa, posted by mystic on March 3, 2004, at 18:21:41
Hi Mystic, glad to hear that you made it through today. Your post sounds a tad bit better than yesterday's. I took a big step today and called a therapist. So far I have just been handling all of my issues alone with Lex and you guys. My doctor thinks that I could really benefit from someone to talk things out with. She also increased my dosage to 20mgs. I have been having a return of obsessive thoughts recently and they are becoming more frequent. I spent pretty much the whole day today obsessing about a disease I think I could have. I am a little frightened at the prospect of increasing my dose. I had some pretty rough anxiety when first beginning Lex and hope that it's not that bad this time around. I am also hoping that I can be free from these thoughts once again. The good news is that I am not depressed anymore, I have lost 14 pounds since my last doctor visit and my blood pressure was lower than it has ever been! So I feel pretty good about the future and am looking forward to conquering these obsessive thinking patterns. Wish me luck!
Posted by mrs c on March 3, 2004, at 21:41:31
In reply to So Much for a Low Stress Day... » mystic, posted by tmhwrite on March 3, 2004, at 19:02:11
Hi Theresa, I think we have all been where you are and can relate. The pressure can be so overwhelming at times. Make a priority list and stick to it. Include yourself on that list. Take some time during the day for some quiet relaxation. I always have 45 minutes during the day after work and before everyone gets home. Sure, I could accomplish alot during this time but I choose to sit down and watch my tape of General Hospital.It's my form of relaxation. It's only 45 minutes but it makes such a difference in my outlook on the day. It gives me something to look forward to and it gives me the energy to carry on with the rest of the day to come. Just a thought! Mrs. C
Posted by mrs c on March 3, 2004, at 21:49:26
In reply to RE: Lynne, posted by mystic on March 3, 2004, at 19:19:00
Mystic,
How selfish of me. I rambled on and on about my day and really just forgot to give you the encouragement I wanted to give you. I thought of you often throughout my day (in between worrying about myself). Let me just say that 4 weeks was not really a turning point week for most of us. I remember week 5 being difficult and then having a breakthrough around week 6. My point is that you may have a few more weeks before your sadness subsides and you feel a bit like your old self. I can promise you that things will only get better from where you are right now. If your doctor feels that you need an increase than do it. Maybe it will help the Lex to kick in a little sooner. There is hope for you Mystic. If you can't believe that right now at least know that I and many others on this board have it for you! Talk to ya tomorrow. Mrs. C
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